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Guy hitting on my wife...

the way I see it, if you have a gf, she is yours and no guy can ever speak to her in an unprofessional manner and if he does, he's asking to be hurt by you.
 
I agree whole heartedly Bikini Mom! I have many people say things like "I don't want to offend or make you mad... but your wife is really beautiful" or better yet hows this one: "How did a guy like you ever hook a woman like that... there is hope for us all" (my usual reply to that last one is liberal amounts of tequila!!)

To those it makes me feel good and I take them as a compliment... but you have to admit... the is a difference between flirting comments that are truely harmless.... and being down right disrepectful.... if I were at your house and the same scene happed I would have just gathered up the wife and left.....your house your rules..... but in my house.... my rules... and rule #1 is don't be disrepectful to my family. (o.k. that is rule number 2... rule number one is clothing is optional in the jacuzzi) ;-)
 
I have never gotten worked up over a girlfriend... gf's are a dime a dozen... or maybe I just never took gf's seriously enough not to give time up if they wanted to go. Hell in that same case... I told my wife if she didn't WANT to be with me.... there is nothing between her and the door but air and opportunity and I'll suck up the air for her, get the fuck out. But she and I made a committment (which I don't care what anyone says or think IMO boyfriend/girlfriend/engaged is not the same a married) and where I do trust her.... I don't trust anyone else with ANYTHING I feel that is important to me.... Think about it like this... would you leave $5,000.00 laying on a table in a room full of strangers and walk away? No, you wouldn't and you would kill anyone you caught missing with it. Then is the five grand more important than your family, if not then why wouldn't you protect that also, if someone is SERIOUSLY making you feel uncomfortable about a situation?
 
max muscle121 said:
I agree whole heartedly Bikini Mom! I have many people say things like "I don't want to offend or make you mad... but your wife is really beautiful" or better yet hows this one: "How did a guy like you ever hook a woman like that... there is hope for us all" (my usual reply to that last one is liberal amounts of tequila!!)

To those it makes me feel good and I take them as a compliment... but you have to admit... the is a difference between flirting comments that are truely harmless.... and being down right disrepectful.... if I were at your house and the same scene happed I would have just gathered up the wife and left.....your house your rules..... but in my house.... my rules... and rule #1 is don't be disrepectful to my family. (o.k. that is rule number 2... rule number one is clothing is optional in the jacuzzi) ;-)

I am sorry, I admit that I didn't read the entired thread and YES - to come on to a guy's wife in THEIR OWN HOME IS DOWNRIGHT BEYOND DISRESPECTFUL! (I still think it's kind of funny though... heheheheee I mean, what was the guy thinking? That your wife would take his hand and lead him into your bedroom to fuck his brains out?! :rolleyes: How could ANYONE be that stupid?! Ah well, I guess it takes all kinds!)
 
max muscle121 said:
I have never gotten worked up over a girlfriend... gf's are a dime a dozen... or maybe I just never took gf's seriously enough not to give time up if they wanted to go. Hell in that same case... I told my wife if she didn't WANT to be with me.... there is nothing between her and the door but air and opportunity and I'll suck up the air for her, get the fuck out. But she and I made a committment (which I don't care what anyone says or think IMO boyfriend/girlfriend/engaged is not the same a married) and where I do trust her.... I don't trust anyone else with ANYTHING I feel that is important to me.... Think about it like this... would you leave $5,000.00 laying on a table in a room full of strangers and walk away? No, you wouldn't and you would kill anyone you caught missing with it. Then is the five grand more important than your family, if not then why wouldn't you protect that also, if someone is SERIOUSLY making you feel uncomfortable about a situation?

Gotta say that I agree with EVERYTHING you said.
 
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