Definately should have went out.
First I'd like to say something about "down the shore". That tells me you're from Jersey without even looking at your location or name. lol
OK When I went out with my friends, we did'nt all stand there next to each other anyway. We all went out on our own (in the club) and met up later (with chicks in hand) lol ehh, sometimes. But my point is, you go together but split up at the place anyway. At least that's what we did. Sure we hung out together too, but we'd definately be apart for a long amount of time and seemingly alone. That never bothered me.
Plus being alone is great, especially if you meet a chick who's there alone as well. Instant points for that.