So, went to the gym for 3.5 hours yesterday. Played 18, went and spent $140 on myself having sushi, broke my sobriety streak (really not happy about that one), didn't return her calls, came home at 4:00 and told her that I am able to try to work through this provided there has been nothing going on and this was a one-time dumbshit occurance. She promised it was and there's nothing going on. Begged me to forgive her. I let her know that I do love her, but my trust may not ever be 100% again.
I'm still trying to figure out what to do with the guy. He's been to my house for dinner, we've gone out with him and his GF a ton of times. Too bad they're not together, because I'd tell her to check his phone. I did his goddamn home loan. Fucker.