Given the choice would you...

[velvett]

Same as all the women who go for a guy because he has the right mix of rich family/upbringing/family background/career and then realise when they get nto the marriage hey are with a guy they never truly loved and each day becomes about making it through to nighttime, evenworse realising the fantasy of married bliss placed in their heads by parents etc probably will never happen with a guy they never loved. of course by then they will have children tying them down as others would have advised them 'thats a GREAT way to stabilise a sinking ship'

I hope I get to find someone where I can genuinely enjoy their company. For that reason I hope I marry a friend, ideally a best friend. I just hope it goes that way and I dont end up in a marriage which I regret.

OMG!

YESYESYES!

That's it, that's so what I'm thinking.



Oh and people, DANIELSON has got to be one of the most silent GREAT CATCHES on this board.

 

[AristotleBC]

Neither.

I wouldnt marry one I was "hopelessly in love with" but didn't reciprocate

Nor would I marry one I get along with and love but not that strongly.

I'm not that eager to get married.

 

[danielson]

OMG!

YESYESYES!

That's it, that's so what I'm thinking.



Oh and people, DANIELSON has got to be one of the most silent GREAT CATCHES on this board.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

It all depends on whichever one was reciprocated the best.