Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below i trust my girlfriend. we were friends for a long time and started dating a month ago. she flirts with a good friend of mine at work. she plain out told me yea i do flirt him. he has told me if he didnt have a girlfriend he would have went out with my girlfriend. she says nothing will happen its just her being friendly and she is friends with him. am i being too possesive about this or should i be fucking real pissed. i got home last nigh around 100 am after she told me that she does flirt with him, i lifted and worked the bag for a good hour and a half until 230 in the morning. i fucking real pissed. am i too possesive or should i say something to her???
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i trust my girlfriend. we were friends for a long time and started dating a month ago. she flirts with a good friend of mine at work. she plain out told me yea i do flirt him. he has told me if he didnt have a girlfriend he would have went out with my girlfriend. she says nothing will happen its just her being friendly and she is friends with him. am i being too possesive about this or should i be fucking real pissed. i got home last nigh around 100 am after she told me that she does flirt with him, i lifted and worked the bag for a good hour and a half until 230 in the morning. i fucking real pissed. am i too possesive or should i say something to her???
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dballer
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Don't say anytrhing... just find a new girl. Fuck her.. life is too short to be with some flirty bitch.
trust me on this one.. you will be happier in the long run. If you do not believe me go look at www.bangbus.com all women who flirt.. will fuck.
trust me on this one.. you will be happier in the long run. If you do not believe me go look at www.bangbus.com all women who flirt.. will fuck.
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Frackal
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Give them several months and they'll be fucking, put a stop to it now bro.
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Frackal
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I agree. Just dump her, scratch my old post
PursuitOfShredded
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YEP
it's over,,,,,,,,,if you don't trust her now......you never will.......I didn't trust my ex girlfriend, the relationship sucked...... but I TOTALLY trust my wife AND IT'S AWESOME!
it's over,,,,,,,,,if you don't trust her now......you never will.......I didn't trust my ex girlfriend, the relationship sucked...... but I TOTALLY trust my wife AND IT'S AWESOME!
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Dr.M
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Not my kind of woman.
4 options
1) tell her that your uncomfortable with her flirting with a friend and that by doing so you feel uncomfortable. you 'trust' her now but it makes you uncomfortable to think there is another guy out there you are sending sexual signals to. depends on the type of girl she is whether this honesty will work (10% chance taking into account the average woman IMHO
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2) tell your bro to step the fuck off. he souldnt ba acting like that to your women, and saying stuff like that and if he was any kind of friend he'd realise it. and that if he ever does anything he can expect to be tasting his testicles. again depends on if he;s a ' true friend' or a 'friendly aquaintance' (30-50% chance IMHO
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3) flirt with one of her friends. watch the double standard come into play as she argues with you, or she;ll get competitive and flirt harder, or she;ll get the message
4) dump her. but make sure you sleep with her the night before
1) tell her that your uncomfortable with her flirting with a friend and that by doing so you feel uncomfortable. you 'trust' her now but it makes you uncomfortable to think there is another guy out there you are sending sexual signals to. depends on the type of girl she is whether this honesty will work (10% chance taking into account the average woman IMHO
)2) tell your bro to step the fuck off. he souldnt ba acting like that to your women, and saying stuff like that and if he was any kind of friend he'd realise it. and that if he ever does anything he can expect to be tasting his testicles. again depends on if he;s a ' true friend' or a 'friendly aquaintance' (30-50% chance IMHO
)3) flirt with one of her friends. watch the double standard come into play as she argues with you, or she;ll get competitive and flirt harder, or she;ll get the message
4) dump her. but make sure you sleep with her the night before
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Frackal said:
yup without a doubt,i would be seriouslly pissed off.If i were you,I'd put an end to it,or say "fuck off".Then let her decide.She's slapping you in the face by doing it bro,if she had any bit of respect for you she would never do that,especially with your friend.Fucking girls!
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KAYNE
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IF YOU HAVE BEEN DATING A MONTH AND YOU ARE HAVING TO WORRY ABOUT THIS SHIT ALREADY, IMAGINE HOW IT WILL BE 6 MONTHS FROM NOW (IF IT LASTS THAT LONG).
HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND IS HE? HE SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT SHIT TO YOU ABOUT YOUR GIRL OUT OF RESPECT.
KAYNE
HOW GOOD OF A FRIEND IS HE? HE SHOULDNT HAVE SAID THAT SHIT TO YOU ABOUT YOUR GIRL OUT OF RESPECT.
KAYNE
IMO if she tells you that she flirts, she is not showing you proper respect. If you don't voice your displeasure over this, she may lose respect for you. There is nothing wrong IMO with a little harmless flirting but not in front of your mate. That is totally disrespectful.
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Frackal
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I would like to note some behavior I've noticed as well as a warning to you Trass..... you have 4 people: (Couple A, and Couple B)
The boyfriend in Couple A catches the A girlfriend flirting with B, he forbids her to do so, yells at her, etc etc etc.
Girl A will then go to Guy B, and tell him about her mean possessive boyfriend after which Guy B totally agrees with her and makes some choice comments. This conversation just made Girl A and Guy B closer in an important way than Girl A to Guy A.
Now Girl A and Guy B have this private thing going between them where it's kind of a game to flirt, and they are in a way "on the same team" after Girl A has been chastised by you. They are more endeared to each other and not only that, but flirting is now more exciting because it's forbidden, and we all know humans, especially women, want things that are forbidden to them the worst....
The boyfriend in Couple A catches the A girlfriend flirting with B, he forbids her to do so, yells at her, etc etc etc.
Girl A will then go to Guy B, and tell him about her mean possessive boyfriend after which Guy B totally agrees with her and makes some choice comments. This conversation just made Girl A and Guy B closer in an important way than Girl A to Guy A.
Now Girl A and Guy B have this private thing going between them where it's kind of a game to flirt, and they are in a way "on the same team" after Girl A has been chastised by you. They are more endeared to each other and not only that, but flirting is now more exciting because it's forbidden, and we all know humans, especially women, want things that are forbidden to them the worst....
68GT350
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HERE'S THE BEST ADVICE YOU'LL EVER GET ON THIS:
1. Dump the friend. Any buddy that macks it on my girl is a fucking scumbag and a half. I'd tolerate an occasional flirt but it would have to be rare. For this constant thing, it's definitely a kick in the balls by this guy. You're a guy and you know very well that all flirting is ideally intended to land the bitch in the sack. FUCK THAT.
2. Give your girl an ultimatum if she's worth the trouble. Tell her to cut the shit, or your out. Explain that you sincerely believe it's a sign of lack of respect and you've spoken to people and it's unanimous, flirting is NEVER innocent. She should respect the simple fact that if it bothers you, then she should try to accomodate that. People do that when they care. Just be sure you're not doing anything that makes her feel uncomfortable.
3. Personally, i'd dump the broad. She'll likely just cause you stress and she'll wind up flirting behind yoru back anyways. Then, anytime you two get in a fight, she'll come running to some random cock (probably that "buddy" of yours) and she'll feed him all this shit on how you're such an asshole and of course, he'll agree since that's his ticket into her pants. Trust me, if you leave her and they wind up together, you think they're gonna last? Hell no. A relationship built on cheating winds up in cheating.
Ultimately it's your call but i hate to see a bro get burned.
1. Dump the friend. Any buddy that macks it on my girl is a fucking scumbag and a half. I'd tolerate an occasional flirt but it would have to be rare. For this constant thing, it's definitely a kick in the balls by this guy. You're a guy and you know very well that all flirting is ideally intended to land the bitch in the sack. FUCK THAT.
2. Give your girl an ultimatum if she's worth the trouble. Tell her to cut the shit, or your out. Explain that you sincerely believe it's a sign of lack of respect and you've spoken to people and it's unanimous, flirting is NEVER innocent. She should respect the simple fact that if it bothers you, then she should try to accomodate that. People do that when they care. Just be sure you're not doing anything that makes her feel uncomfortable.
3. Personally, i'd dump the broad. She'll likely just cause you stress and she'll wind up flirting behind yoru back anyways. Then, anytime you two get in a fight, she'll come running to some random cock (probably that "buddy" of yours) and she'll feed him all this shit on how you're such an asshole and of course, he'll agree since that's his ticket into her pants. Trust me, if you leave her and they wind up together, you think they're gonna last? Hell no. A relationship built on cheating winds up in cheating.
Ultimately it's your call but i hate to see a bro get burned.
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