G/F and I broke up after 3.5 years so I'm single I guess.

[pintoca]

The Ole Treo is going to see a lot of things up-close and personal now

bounce bro

 

[mrplunkey]

becase she aint their first choice

DING DING DING! We have a winner. Yes sir, your answer is correct.

 

[mrplunkey]

Kinda numb feeling. Don't think it's sunk in yet.

Sorry to hear that.

Given that she had you in a headlock for a ring though, you got off easy. The road to hell is paved with guys who jumped into marriage only because they were pressured into it.

 

[Smurfy]

Bran Im sorry about the break up. Keep your head up. And also remember, no sale is final.

 

[EnderJE]

So, you didn't want to marry her? Sheesh, why bother to stay for 3.5 years? Given that you didn't want to get married or love her, it's a great thing that you got out when you did.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm sorry to hear that. That hurts.

However, if it has been 3.5 years and you didn't want to go the next step, it is probably best that she broke up with you for both your sakes.

 

[KillahBee]

So, you didn't want to marry her? Sheesh, why bother to stay for 3.5 years? Given that you didn't want to get married or love her, it's a great thing that you got out when you did.

What a load of self-righteous bullshit this is.

So, we all need to decide who we will marry within a set timeframe - a marriage deadline, perhaps! - and when we reach that day, hour, minute, second, we should either marry or break up?!

Last time I checked (and man, it's been a while), relationships were pretty dynamic and complex situations. Lots of sense and nonsense colliding amidst very high emotions in the environment of two people sharing something together! That doesn't sound as cut and dry as you make it sound.

 

[stilleto]

branny, sorry you're down. If you aren't ready (or don't want to be) to be married, or you're still not sure if she's the one, then there's nothing you can do- you did the right thing by sticking to your guns.
maybe she's hoping you'll change your mind, or maybe she doesn't want to waste more time if marriage IS what she's looking for, but... its better for both of you to move on.

Doesn't make it easier, I know.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Sorry to hear that bran. I hope every thing works out for you.

 

[sawastea]

Brandon, sorry to hear this maing. I know you had your hands full when I was in Dallas trying to accomodate me, and balance your chick. I'm sure hitting the nudie bar two days straight and the 'frequent' pwning of the treo didn't help the situation then. I wonder what shit you did this time? Did you ever find that 'lock' button on the treo? Use it borette.

Again, sorry to hear about this