Advice i think you will be unlikely to listen to but probably the best advice, would be to do this.
Get on a decent weight program, and focus on getting stronger at the basic lifts, and eat a good diet.
From what you describe, you are out of shape, a little chubby, with little muscle. As you get stronger you will gain muscle. If you eat a good diet, you wont gain any fat, you might even lose a little right off. No its not easy for anyone but a beginner to gain muscle and lose fat at the same time, but for a beginner it happens all the time.
As you gain a bit of muscle, you will look better even if youdont lose any fat. if you lose some, you will look a lot better. With more muscle you will have a higher metabolism, making it easier to lose fat in the future.
Eat a good diet, get your bench press up 50lbs, your squat and deadlift up 75 or 100lbs each, and double the amount of pullups you can do and see if you dont like the way you look in the mirror a lot better.
foofighter said:
it just hit me. my goal would be the physique of Tiger Woods. I realize most of you guys are likely not that impressed his physique, but for me that would be ideal. i am the same height, and have a similar bone structure, plus i am a golfer as well.
i have always wondered how he trains and what his diet is. he has always been tight lipped.