Frisky in a nutshell

[swole]

Frisky.

Frail, naive girl who got hurt by men.

She took up some combat shit, woman does some sort of karate. This was to make her feel physically superior. See also bodybuilding.

Now she fronts with this hardcore attitude (WALL).

Sexual prowess is her way of hiding her inability to maintain an equal relationship with a man. It also serves as a method to getting close with her man while her emotional wall is still up. See also, "little girl wanting daddy's attention and approval."

Discuss.

 

[hotzie]

that about covers it

 

[Frisky]

Frisky.

Frail, naive girl who got hurt by men.

She took up some combat shit, woman does some sort of karate. This was to make her feel physically superior. See also bodybuilding.

Now she fronts with this hardcore attitude (WALL).

Sexual prowess is her way of hiding her inability to maintain an equal relationship with a man. It also serves as a method to getting close with her man while her emotional wall is still up. See also, "little girl wanting daddy's attention and approval."

Discuss.

lol

bitch... nobody hurts me, i can shut off emotions faster than you can shut off a light switch... thats how im made up. I like being superior.. fuck yes! I love being in control.. esp in the bedroom... which most men can't handle so to the curb they go!

Equal relationship... well .. hmmm... no fucking such thing. I've never found a man that would accept that I am equal to him on all levels. Guess thats why im single

and well approval......... bah fucking ha... If i had to wait for approval from anyone I'd be waiting for a long long miserable time because I'm far from your typical bow down and agree chick... It takes a damn confidant strong man to tolerate me and I know that.

I turn you on don't I?

 

[swole]

lol

bitch... nobody hurts me, i can shut off emotions faster than you can shut off a light switch... thats how im made up. I like being superior.. fuck yes! I love being in control.. esp in the bedroom... which most men can't handle so to the curb they go!

Equal relationship... well .. hmmm... no fucking such thing. I've never found a man that would accept that I am equal to him on all levels. Guess thats why im single

and well approval......... bah fucking ha... If i had to wait for approval from anyone I'd be waiting for a long long miserable time because I'm far from your typical bow down and agree chick... It takes a damn confidant strong man to tolerate me and I know that.

I turn you on don't I?

shutting off emotions means you were once hurt, which means you are not as open as you once were...aka WALL

and you are not equal to man on all levels, i trully believe a relationship should be more like 60/40 in terms of the man

now before you femi-nazis get on my case, i feel the man should take control of more things (decisions, direction of the relationship) ASSUMING his heart is 100% involved...i simply don't think females are capable of running a relationship due to emotional issues

and ladies, all the guys you had who were emotional fucktards and pussies don't count, those people aren't men

show me a relationship where the woman has control and both parties are happy

show me a 50/50 relationship and i will show you a party who hides some sort of frustration

show me a 60/40 man/woman relationship and i will show you a trully happy marriage

and frisky darling, every heterosexual girl is bow down and agree, it just takes the right type of guy to bring it out

 

[chesty]

You know I like her, but she seems to be turning into a Bmom/BW. I hope it is all for show.

 

[Frisky]

shutting off emotions means you were once hurt, which means you are not as open as you once were...aka WALL

and you are not equal to man on all levels, i trully believe a relationship should be more like 60/40 in terms of the man

now before you femi-nazis get on my case, i feel the man should take control of more things (decisions, direction of the relationship) ASSUMING his heart is 100% involved...i simply don't think females are capable of running a relationship due to emotional issues

and ladies, all the guys you had who were emotional fucktards and pussies don't count, those people aren't men

show me a relationship where the woman has control and both parties are happy

show me a 50/50 relationship and i will show you a party who hides some sort of frustration

show me a 60/40 man/woman relationship and i will show you a trully happy marriage

and frisky darling, every heterosexual girl is bow down and agree, it just takes the right type of guy to bring it out

i have no retort!

For once i completely agree with you...

all my relationships were vice versa me 60 them 40.

I need that right guy to take control, honestly put me in my place ...... no fugging kidding either. All the ones im with are just pussys though .... bah

 

[seizer]

i have no retort!

For once i completely agree with you...

all my relationships were vice versa me 60 them 40.

I need that right guy to take control, honestly put me in my place ...... no fugging kidding either. All the ones im with are just pussys though .... bah

If you give up on men, they'll give up on you too. Just keep digging for that right dude and I'm sure you'll be flying. Besides, you got nice boobs and that's really all that matters.

 

[Frisky]

You know I like her, but she seems to be turning into a Bmom/BW. I hope it is all for show.

oh fucking please.... check yourself! If you can't understand my fucking humor then don't read my posts. If you are that fucking shallow then maybe you should give up the internet

 

[Frisky]

If you give up on men, they'll give up on you too. Just keep digging for that right dude and I'm sure you'll be flying. Besides, you got nice boobs and that's really all that matters.

I don't give up on men... hell no.. i just expanded my horizon a bit. I was a bit shallow for a while and limited myself.. not anymore.

 

[seizer]

I don't give up on men... hell no.. i just expanded my horizon a bit. I was a bit shallow for a while and limited myself.. not anymore.

way to be, way to be.

 

[EnderJE]

We should save this threads and the responses for next week. That's the next time the "I'm gonna analyze F..." thread is gonna come up. It's like a quota or something.

 

[swole]

We should save this threads and the responses for next week. That's the next time the "I'm gonna analyze F..." thread is gonna come up. It's like a quota or something.

i have absolutely no idea what you just said

 

[EnderJE]

i have absolutely no idea what you just said

don't worry, I'm talking engrish kanadian...

 

[Frisky]

We should save this threads and the responses for next week. That's the next time the "I'm gonna analyze F..." thread is gonna come up. It's like a quota or something.

lmao

peeps take me to seriously... when im pissed expect a whole paragraph of insults and bashing...

Come on guys, roll with me, take some light hearted humor every now and again. Lets grab a guiness and kick it every now and again. Yea sure.. ya not used to a chick that can actually roll with the flow. But come on, I am not your typical chick here. Don't take me so damn serious for christ sake. You either love me or you hate me... either way doesn't matter to me, I am who i am and can give a flying fuck less what you think. If you write me off then well your loss cause im a fucking blast to hang with

 

[Lestat]

you called it swole, you should go into psychology.

 

[EnderJE]

lmao

peeps take me to seriously... when im pissed expect a whole paragraph of insults and bashing...

Come on guys, roll with me, take some light hearted humor every now and again. Lets grab a guiness and kick it every now and again. Yea sure.. ya not used to a chick that can actually roll with the flow. But come on, I am not your typical chick here. Don't take me so damn serious for christ sake. You either love me or you hate me... either way doesn't matter to me, I am who i am and can give a flying fuck less what you think. If you write me off then well your loss cause im a fucking blast to hang with

Hmm. This is a new one.

Nope. Wait. We've already had this post. I should of saved it from the last time and beat her to the punch.

I doubt that anyone hates you in here. It's like were all a bunch of D&D nerds and you're the only "chick" around, Shadow. Hence, all the flirting with you.

The more desperate bastards even send you stuff! The losers.

 

[Frisky]

you called it swole, you should go into psychology.

don't swell that boys head dammit... he's swole already

get it.... swole... tee hee

damn i rock

 

[Lestat]

don't swell that boys head dammit... he's swole already

get it.... swole... tee hee

damn i rock

he's really maturing into a nice young man.

 

[swole]

he's really maturing into a nice young man.

i appreciate it bro, i'm just trying to make sense out of what i see as well as finding my place in this world

and getting pussy/money while i do it

 

[saint808]

Yeah but she fucks like a beast.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

lol Bikinifrisky. bahhahahaha

 

[Mr. dB]

Frisky.

Frail, naive girl who got hurt by men.

She took up some combat shit, woman does some sort of karate. This was to make her feel physically superior. See also bodybuilding.

Now she fronts with this hardcore attitude (WALL).

Sexual prowess is her way of hiding her inability to maintain an equal relationship with a man. It also serves as a method to getting close with her man while her emotional wall is still up. See also, "little girl wanting daddy's attention and approval."

Discuss.

What, are you Division now?

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

What, are you Division now?

DIV nugga

 

[pintoca]

what is the deal with the geigh e-gangsta geighatars? a e-gangwar about to erupt any moment now?

 

[gotmilk]

what is the deal with the geigh e-gangsta geighatars? a e-gangwar about to erupt any moment now?

yes

 

[Frisky]

what is the deal with the geigh e-gangsta geighatars? a e-gangwar about to erupt any moment now?

yes

 

[mrdeeznuts]

she only came to this thread because she read nuts

 

[Frisky]

she only came to this thread because she read nuts

true.. true

 

[gotmilk]

she only came to this thread because she licks nuts

Yes

 

[Frisky]

Yes

yes that too

 

[jack sparrow]

I need me a good e-gansta avatar.

 

[Frisky]

I need me a good e-gansta avatar.

you likey mine check out my profile... I'm like bad ass

 

[alien amp pharm]

Ok this may piss her off, but honestly men don't see the dominating female as a strong confident person. We see it more as 'a controlling bitch that is impossible to get along with'.

I don't think this applies to her though...I think she puts on a front on here, because she has been nothing but a total sweetheart to me, and I've even met her in person.

p.s. I'd do her.

 

[gotmilk]

I need me a good e-gansta avatar.

You have one now.

 

[jack sparrow]

you likey mine check out my profile... I'm like bad ass

 

[Frisky]

Ok this may piss her off, but honestly men don't see the dominating female as a strong confident person. We see it more as 'a controlling bitch that is impossible to get along with'.

I don't think this applies to her though...I think she puts on a front on here, because she has been nothing but a total sweetheart to me, and I've even met her in person.

p.s. I'd do her.

lol

didn't piss me off at all... I'm not a control freak, I'm a confidant woman that knows what she wants and can get it all on her own. But that doesn't make me a bitch by any means. I'm really easy to get along with.

I don't put on a front damn you... lol. I believe most just don't know when im joking or im serious. I guess i'm just hard to read here. In person I'd be smiling the entire time I say half the things I say here.

I was only nice to you because I felt sorry for you after I whooped your ass in arm wrestling. I was gonna put you in a leg lock ... but then I saw those chicken legs and didn't want to break them...

Ya know I you sugar!

 

[Cutiebaby]

wheres my box???

 

[eat big]

lol

bitch... nobody hurts me, i can shut off emotions faster than you can shut off a light switch...

Denial.

 

[Frisky]

wheres my box???

between your legs maybe?

tee hee

shipments going out this weekend.. I have three to make. was a rough few weeks with family and such. things are getting settled... I feel bad for making you guys wait so long

 

[jack sparrow]

wheres my box???

LOL I should put that in my sig

 

[Frisky]

LOL I should put that in my sig

yes you should...

 

[Cutiebaby]

hahaha very funny dickweed..(jack)
ty frisky babe i will be waiting oh so patiently

 

[Frisky]

reading the thread title again... I don't think I could fit in a nutshell

 

[jack sparrow]

 

[musclemom]

Ok this may piss her off, but honestly men don't see the dominating female as a strong confident person. We see it more as 'a controlling bitch that is impossible to get along with'.

I don't think this applies to her though...I think she puts on a front on here, because she has been nothing but a total sweetheart to me, and I've even met her in person.

p.s. I'd do her.

What I can tell you aap, is that time does bring (at least for people who mature as they grow up) a slightly different perspective. The older you get the more you appreciate a female who IS capable, confident, self-sufficient, an equal partner.

But, unfortunately, epiphanies like this don't generally hit guys until they're in their 40s and finally realize they don't need to spend every day of their life proving themselves to someone and being in control of everything 24/7

My husband appreciates the fact he can just go veg and leave me in control of whatever, know it will be handled.

Why bother being harnessed to someone if it only means you're now taking over making decisions, not only for yourself, but for THEM, too! OMG, what a PITA! Why even bother being in a relationship?! The point is so that you SUPPORT each other, and know that you can slack off and your partner takes the burden off you for a while, or there is shit that you're just NOT good at and you don't have to really deal with those things anymore because your spouse is better with it and it comes easier to them.

For example, any of your turkeys who think that ONLY YOU should handle the money JUST BECAUSE you're the man, despite the fact that your partner may be more organized and have some better ideas about budgeting, you're just being prideful and foolish, and screwing up your families future

 

[Frisky]

 

[javaguru]

shutting off emotions means you were once hurt, which means you are not as open as you once were...aka WALL

and you are not equal to man on all levels, i trully believe a relationship should be more like 60/40 in terms of the man

now before you femi-nazis get on my case, i feel the man should take control of more things (decisions, direction of the relationship) ASSUMING his heart is 100% involved...i simply don't think females are capable of running a relationship due to emotional issues

and ladies, all the guys you had who were emotional fucktards and pussies don't count, those people aren't men

show me a relationship where the woman has control and both parties are happy

show me a 50/50 relationship and i will show you a party who hides some sort of frustration

show me a 60/40 man/woman relationship and i will show you a trully happy marriage

and frisky darling, every heterosexual girl is bow down and agree, it just takes the right type of guy to bring it out

Speak the word...men are programmed to take control while women are programmed to nurture. I blame the current confusion in relationships on 80's Oprahisms. Men were told women wanted an equal partner, friend with a penis, which isn't what they actually desire.They want a man and humanity has been this way since recorded history. As much as the alpha male is derided in movies, TV and pop culture, he is still desired by women. The more I tried to be what my ex wife claimed wanted the less she was attracted to me. There is a difference between being a "man" in a relationship and an insecure asshole. Ladies, find the right one and don't try to change the assholes.....just drop them...

Frisky has a "caretaker" personality which makes her vulnerable to the "assholes" who have nothing going for them but an attitude with women. People can take advantage of that and she has built walls to protect those close to her, the children, but she doesn't see that frisky needs to be happy for the homestead to be happy.

 

[Cutiebaby]

i am sooo damned sig worthy lately.
must be lack of sleep, oh hell who am i kidding!!!! its all natural blondness

 

[jack sparrow]

What I can tell you aap, is that time does bring (at least for people who mature as they grow up) a slightly different perspective. The older you get the more you appreciate a female who IS capable, confident, self-sufficient, an equal partner.

But, unfortunately, epiphanies like this don't generally hit guys until they're in their 40s and finally realize they don't need to spend every day of their life proving themselves to someone and being in control of everything 24/7

My husband appreciates the fact he can just go veg and leave me in control of whatever, know it will be handled.

Why bother being harnessed to someone if it only means you're now taking over making decisions, not only for yourself, but for THEM, too! OMG, what a PITA! Why even bother being in a relationship?! The point is so that you SUPPORT each other, and know that you can slack off and your partner takes the burden off you for a while, or there is shit that you're just NOT good at and you don't have to really deal with those things anymore because your spouse is better with it and it comes easier to them.

For example, any of your turkeys who think that ONLY YOU should handle the money JUST BECAUSE you're the man, despite the fact that your partner may be more organized and have some better ideas about budgeting, you're just being prideful and foolish, and screwing up your families future

Do you have any sisters you could set me up with ?

 

[mountain muscle]

what is the deal with the geigh e-gangsta geighatars? a e-gangwar about to erupt any moment now?

I wouldn't worry, Swole can't aim his bb gun for shit, check the avatar.

 

[Frisky]

Speak the word...men are programmed to take control while women are programmed to nurture. I blame the current confusion in relationships on 80's Oprahisms. Men were told women wanted an equal partner, friend with a penis, which isn't what they actually desire.They want a man and humanity has been this way since recorded history. As much as the alpha male is derided in movies, TV and pop culture, he is still desired by women. The more I tried to be what my ex wife claimed wanted the less she was attracted to me. There is a difference between being a "man" in a relationship and an insecure asshole. Ladies, find the right one and don't try to change the assholes.....just drop them...

Frisky has a "caretaker" personality which makes her vulnerable to the "assholes" who have nothing going for them but an attitude with women. People can take advantage of that and she has built walls to protect those close to her, the children, but she doesn't see that frisky needs to be happy for the homestead to be happy.

Am I that easy to read Really that is me to a T.. caretaker.. do'er, giver.. and i've been taken advantage of one to many times so yea.. walls up and i'm shell shocked when it comes to relationships. I feel one bit of emotion and I am running like Forest!

I have however, thanks to the insight of my friends here that have tuned into me so well..., started to take steps twords finding peace and happiness within myslelf and trying to let my guard down and maybe allow someone to touch my core again. Just alot more careful this time in the pickings.

 

[javaguru]

What I can tell you aap, is that time does bring (at least for people who mature as they grow up) a slightly different perspective. The older you get the more you appreciate a female who IS capable, confident, self-sufficient, an equal partner.

But, unfortunately, epiphanies like this don't generally hit guys until they're in their 40s and finally realize they don't need to spend every day of their life proving themselves to someone and being in control of everything 24/7

My husband appreciates the fact he can just go veg and leave me in control of whatever, know it will be handled.

Why bother being harnessed to someone if it only means you're now taking over making decisions, not only for yourself, but for THEM, too! OMG, what a PITA! Why even bother being in a relationship?! The point is so that you SUPPORT each other, and know that you can slack off and your partner takes the burden off you for a while, or there is shit that you're just NOT good at and you don't have to really deal with those things anymore because your spouse is better with it and it comes easier to them.

For example, any of your turkeys who think that ONLY YOU should handle the money JUST BECAUSE you're the man, despite the fact that your partner may be more organized and have some better ideas about budgeting, you're just being prideful and foolish, and screwing up your families future

Here is my point...My mother was allowed to make all the decisions about the family. She still respected his opinion on major issues and if he wanted something to happen financially it always did. My father was always very frugal with HIS needs and allowed my mother a lot of discretionary power. However, every major purchase went through him first, this is what we're talking about. I never agreed with the "allowance" theory, it comes from the controlling asshole school of relationships.

 

[javaguru]

Am I that easy to read Really that is me to a T.. caretaker.. do'er, giver.. and i've been taken advantage of one to many times so yea.. walls up and i'm shell shocked when it comes to relationships. I feel one bit of emotion and I am running like Forest!

I have however, thanks to the insight of my friends here that have tuned into me so well..., started to take steps twords finding peace and happiness within myslelf and trying to let my guard down and maybe allow someone to touch my core again. Just alot more careful this time in the pickings.

Well, your personality being what it is you're vulnerable to "needy" men. The ones you can "save." Unfortunately, you can never save them, they have to save themselves. The strong males offer you nothing as a caretaker so you see nothing in them. Knowing yourself and you failings is the first step, I was always attracted to the "broken ones" so I know where you are coming from and you can't fix them.

 

[seizer]

I'll shall kill you all, one time, for each and every good point you made...

first person to die on my list...of people to die....is....


....ALL OF YOU!!!

 

[Frisky]

Well, your personality being what it is you're vulnerable to "needy" men. The ones you can "save." Unfortunately, you can never save them, they have to save themselves. The strong males offer you nothing as a caretaker so you see nothing in them. Knowing yourself and you failings is the first step, I was always attracted to the "broken ones" so I know where you are coming from and you can't fix them.

so damn true (btw I hate you for figuring this out ) I think Ill be more fulfilled when I can actually take care of someone, provide..etc. But in the end I end up in a miserable situation. I've done it time and time again. I have NEVER been with someone that actuall took control... someone that dominated me, etc... it was always me that was the caretaker, the one making things happen, taking care of everything. I need to find me a good man that will be more of the 60% and let me be the 40%

I know alot of my personality has to do with the way i was raised and the fact that I was out on my own at a very young age... forced to do alot on my own and not able to rely on anyone else to put supper on the table or clothes on my back. I've never relied on anyone to 'do' for me because I couldn't .. and now I just have a hard time putting trust that if I give all that up to someone, then things just won't get done.

I need to break free from that wall and put my guard down. I'm sure if i'd allow it to happen I'd find so much more peace and traquility in my life. Its allowing it to actually happen that is a slow process.

 

[javaguru]

so damn true (btw I hate you for figuring this out ) I think Ill be more fulfilled when I can actually take care of someone, provide..etc. But in the end I end up in a miserable situation. I've done it time and time again. I have NEVER been with someone that actuall took control... someone that dominated me, etc... it was always me that was the caretaker, the one making things happen, taking care of everything. I need to find me a good man that will be more of the 60% and let me be the 40%

I know alot of my personality has to do with the way i was raised and the fact that I was out on my own at a very young age... forced to do alot on my own and not able to rely on anyone else to put supper on the table or clothes on my back. I've never relied on anyone to 'do' for me because I couldn't .. and now I just have a hard time putting trust that if I give all that up to someone, then things just won't get done.

I need to break free from that wall and put my guard down. I'm sure if i'd allow it to happen I'd find so much more peace and traquility in my life. Its allowing it to actually happen that is a slow process.

Nothing wrong with who you are....you just need to find someone with the same values. I know it's hard finding backwoods cajun men with those attributes who aren't brewing bathtub meth.
A little brevity in the thread....

 

[Frisky]

Nothing wrong with who you are....you just need to find someone with the same values. I know it's hard finding backwoods cajun men with those attributes who aren't brewing bathtub meth.
A little brevity in the thread....

you make a joke about it ... but its so true.. LOL! I've been told more than one time that I am intimidating Not sure how to take that or what to do to be less intimidating. I can't be someone I'm not, and quite frankly I just refuse to change me to gain aceptance from anyone.

Maybe one day my frankenstein will come around and sweep me off my feet. And then .......hmph... maybe I'll die an old maid

 

[Cutiebaby]

well i couldnt say where is my package! LOL

 

[javaguru]

you make a joke about it ... but its so true.. LOL! I've been told more than one time that I am intimidating Not sure how to take that or what to do to be less intimidating. I can't be someone I'm not, and quite frankly I just refuse to change me to gain aceptance from anyone.

Maybe one day my frankenstein will come around and sweep me off my feet. And then .......hmph... maybe I'll die an old maid

Some men appreciate overtly aggressive to passive aggressive women. My ex is passive aggressive and it never worked for us. I prefer people who "tell me how it is" because I can deal with the issue.

 

[Frisky]

Some men appreciate overtly aggressive to passive aggressive women. My ex is passive aggressive and it never worked for us. I prefer people who "tell me how it is" because I can deal with the issue.

I think agressive men are a huge turn on.. but for some reason I always end up with the passive aggressive men I guess its due to the fact that someone has to give? Not sure...

With my attitude and personality, I need someone to 'put me in my place' every now and again. Someone that is willing to take control.. etc. I prolly would rebuke it at first but I know I'd love every minute of it

 

[Tytan]

lol

bitch... nobody hurts me, i can shut off emotions faster than you can shut off a light switch... thats how im made up. I like being superior.. fuck yes! I love being in control.. esp in the bedroom... which most men can't handle so to the curb they go!

Equal relationship... well .. hmmm... no fucking such thing. I've never found a man that would accept that I am equal to him on all levels. Guess thats why im single

and well approval......... bah fucking ha... If i had to wait for approval from anyone I'd be waiting for a long long miserable time because I'm far from your typical bow down and agree chick... It takes a damn confidant strong man to tolerate me and I know that.

I turn you on don't I?

God yes..........

 

[javaguru]

I think agressive men are a huge turn on.. but for some reason I always end up with the passive aggressive men I guess its due to the fact that someone has to give? Not sure...

With my attitude and personality, I need someone to 'put me in my place' every now and again. Someone that is willing to take control.. etc. I prolly would rebuke it at first but I know I'd love every minute of it

Yeah, that's why women are so damned confusing. Men expect people to say what they want and mean it. Women are different, what you say isn't necessarily what you mean. There is hope, some of us strong men need saving too....

 

[Frisky]

Yeah, that's why women are so damned confusing. Men expect people to say what they want and mean it. Women are different, what you say isn't necessarily what you mean. There is hope, some of us strong men need saving too....

lol

I actually tell them to put me in my place.. tell them to take control etc and then of course they try and I buck it then they cower away. Kinda like a test for me I guess...

I believe both men and women are equally confusing at times. Maybe its age, maturity.. I dunno. But I've realized that men don't actually know what they want either... and i've had one to many instances where they can't make up thier fugging mind for shit. LOL

Gosh I wish all this relationship shit was just simple. Give me a good man that will please me in the bedroom, take control of some major decisions, yet keep me intune as to what is going on... Actually have some emotions every once and a while, Appreciate everything I do for him and reciprocate with the same. He needs a good sense of humor, and some patience. Someone that takes pride in his work and in his self, is confidant and independant.

I think they ran out of those in 1990

 

[javaguru]

lol

I actually tell them to put me in my place.. tell them to take control etc and then of course they try and I buck it then they cower away. Kinda like a test for me I guess...

I believe both men and women are equally confusing at times. Maybe its age, maturity.. I dunno. But I've realized that men don't actually know what they want either... and i've had one to many instances where they can't make up thier fugging mind for shit. LOL

Gosh I wish all this relationship shit was just simple. Give me a good man that will please me in the bedroom, take control of some major decisions, yet keep me intune as to what is going on... Actually have some emotions every once and a while, Appreciate everything I do for him and reciprocate with the same. He needs a good sense of humor, and some patience. Someone that takes pride in his work and in his self, is confidant and independant.

I think they ran out of those in 1990

It may seem funny but Oprah is a perfect example of the confused gender roles that cause this, Steadman? Men are told to be like women to please women..so they do it and women hate it!There is a book written about this very issue, something about the feminization of men...women don't want a feminine man. They want a "man" and all that being a real man entails. Our society is killing masculinity based on the claims of what women want, which are untrue! Sure, you don't want an insecure asshole but that isn't a "real man." A "real man" doesn't beat his wife and isn't controlling, he controls the situation based on his competence, leadership, and the desire to do the "right thing" for everyone and not his "needs."

 

[Frisky]

It may seem funny but Oprah is a perfect example of the confused gender roles that cause this, Steadman? Men are told to be like women to please women..so they do it and women hate it!There is a book written about this very issue, something about the feminization of men...women don't want a feminine man. They want a "man" and all that being a real man entails. Our society is killing masculinity based on the claims of what women want, which are untrue! Sure, you don't want an insecure asshole but that isn't a "real man." A "real man" doesn't beat his wife and isn't controlling, he controls the situation based on his competence, leadership, and the desire to do the "right thing" for everyone and not his "needs."

will you marry me?

 

[javaguru]

will you marry me?

Bitch, a PM is the appropriate place for a marriage proposal.
God, you're so insensitive to my needs.....

 

[jack sparrow]

Give me a good man that will please me in the bedroom, take control of some major decisions, yet keep me intune as to what is going on... Actually have some emotions every once and a while, Appreciate everything I do for him and reciprocate with the same. He needs a good sense of humor, and some patience. Someone that takes pride in his work and in his self, is confidant and independant.

I think they ran out of those in 1990

No they didn't.

jack_schitt at your service

 

[Frisky]

Bitch, a PM is the appropriate place for a marriage proposal.
God, you're so insensitive to my needs.....

I think you still have me blocked dammit

besides I figured it would be more romantic.. kinda like going to the game and having it displayed on the big screen


I already have the ring... approx 3k's and platinum... Got to love a chick that buys her own wedding ring eh?

 

[jack sparrow]

Java's got some mad game over here...

 

[sublime35]

damn we're going to have two weddings in Lousy-anna this year. I'm only a few hours away, I better be getting an invitation to one of these, dammit.

 

[swolenole]

What I can tell you aap, is that time does bring (at least for people who mature as they grow up) a slightly different perspective. The older you get the more you appreciate a female who IS capable, confident, self-sufficient, an equal partner.

But, unfortunately, epiphanies like this don't generally hit guys until they're in their 40s and finally realize they don't need to spend every day of their life proving themselves to someone and being in control of everything 24/7

My husband appreciates the fact he can just go veg and leave me in control of whatever, know it will be handled.

Why bother being harnessed to someone if it only means you're now taking over making decisions, not only for yourself, but for THEM, too! OMG, what a PITA! Why even bother being in a relationship?! The point is so that you SUPPORT each other, and know that you can slack off and your partner takes the burden off you for a while, or there is shit that you're just NOT good at and you don't have to really deal with those things anymore because your spouse is better with it and it comes easier to them.

For example, any of your turkeys who think that ONLY YOU should handle the money JUST BECAUSE you're the man, despite the fact that your partner may be more organized and have some better ideas about budgeting, you're just being prideful and foolish, and screwing up your families future

I wouldn't go to Veg.....I would go to the airport get on a plane and fly far..far away...

 

[javaguru]

I think you still have me blocked dammit

besides I figured it would be more romantic.. kinda like going to the game and having it displayed on the big screen


I already have the ring... approx 3k's and platinum... Got to love a chick that buys her own wedding ring eh?

Sorry, box was full...

You buying the ring is expected....that means you're the "good one" in the relationship? Relax and let the man make it happen.....apparently backwoods cajun men are like in "The Waterboy." :wink:

 

[Frisky]

damn we're going to have two weddings in Lousy-anna this year. I'm only a few hours away, I better be getting an invitation to one of these, dammit.

Well its offical... Nick(aka Java) and Jessica are done.. so I figured I'd better make my move while hes vulnerable.

teehee

It will be the EF meat up of the Decade.

 

[musclemom]

lol

I actually tell them to put me in my place.. tell them to take control etc and then of course they try and I buck it then they cower away. Kinda like a test for me I guess...

I believe both men and women are equally confusing at times. Maybe its age, maturity.. I dunno. But I've realized that men don't actually know what they want either... and i've had one to many instances where they can't make up thier fugging mind for shit. LOL

Gosh I wish all this relationship shit was just simple. Give me a good man that will please me in the bedroom, take control of some major decisions, yet keep me intune as to what is going on... Actually have some emotions every once and a while, Appreciate everything I do for him and reciprocate with the same. He needs a good sense of humor, and some patience. Someone that takes pride in his work and in his self, is confidant and independant.
I think they ran out of those in 1990

Can't have it all honey

Alright, yeah, you can, but you have to give up certain things, and it's actually shit you didn't list so maybe you won't miss it:

Short and sweet, you can't have all that AND have "macho." IMO, your standard model "macho dude" guy doesn't come equipped with the reciprocity/compassion/empathy that it sounds like you're looking for (I personally think the empathy chip plugs into the sports chip slot, so they either have one or the other, but that's JMO ...)

If you want a man who's compassionate you can't call him a pussy if he should cry over something that would seem perfectly acceptable for YOU to cry over ...

If you want a guy to who is more empathetic don't freak if he has some female friends ...

And don't be surprised that a guy who is a touch more "in touch" with his feelings isn't this gung-ho charge ahead cut throat mutherfucker, because he actually takes the time to think about the consequences of his actions and how they affect others ... he may very well be successful, but he's going to have a slightly broader view of things (anyone remember how John Kerry was lambasted because he actually THOUGHT about what he was going to say whereas Bush just blurted out the first thing that came to mind?)

 

[jack sparrow]

Howly cow I aint reading this.

 

[sublime35]

Well its offical... Nick(aka Java) and Jessica are done.. so I figured I'd better make my move while hes vulnerable.

teehee

It will be the EF meat up of the Decade.

LOL yeah I'm sure there would be lots of meating going on.

 

[Frisky]

Can't have it all honey

Alright, yeah, you can, but you have to give up certain things, and it's actually shit you didn't list so maybe you won't miss it:

Short and sweet, you can't have all that AND have "macho." IMO, your standard model "macho dude" guy doesn't come equipped with the reciprocity/compassion/empathy that it sounds like you're looking for (I personally think the empathy chip plugs into the sports chip slot, so they either have one or the other, but that's JMO ...)

If you want a man who's compassionate you can't call him a pussy if he should cry over something that would seem perfectly acceptable for YOU to cry over ...

If you want a guy to who is more empathetic don't freak if he has some female friends ...

And don't be surprised that a guy who is a touch more "in touch" with his feelings isn't this gung-ho charge ahead cut throat mutherfucker, because he actually takes the time to think about the consequences of his actions and how they affect others ... he may very well be successful, but he's going to have a slightly broader view of things (anyone remember how John Kerry was lambasted because he actually THOUGHT about what he was going to say whereas Bush just blurted out the first thing that came to mind?)

LOL

OH believe me I know I can't have my cake and eat it too. I know of two men that have crossed my path in life that are fucking perfect! I mean seriously perfect, they have it down to a tee... but they are my long time friends. Gosh I should have clenched onto one of them when given the opportunity back in the day LOL!

 

[javaguru]

Can't have it all honey

Alright, yeah, you can, but you have to give up certain things, and it's actually shit you didn't list so maybe you won't miss it:

Short and sweet, you can't have all that AND have "macho." IMO, your standard model "macho dude" guy doesn't come equipped with the reciprocity/compassion/empathy that it sounds like you're looking for (I personally think the empathy chip plugs into the sports chip slot, so they either have one or the other, but that's JMO ...)

If you want a man who's compassionate you can't call him a pussy if he should cry over something that would seem perfectly acceptable for YOU to cry over ...

If you want a guy to who is more empathetic don't freak if he has some female friends ...

And don't be surprised that a guy who is a touch more "in touch" with his feelings isn't this gung-ho charge ahead cut throat mutherfucker, because he actually takes the time to think about the consequences of his actions and how they affect others ... he may very well be successful, but he's going to have a slightly broader view of things (anyone remember how John Kerry was lambasted because he actually THOUGHT about what he was going to say whereas Bush just blurted out the first thing that came to mind?)

Don't underestimate experience, I was always considerate and thoughtful. My ex-wife describes me as "the kindest person she's ever known." However, combat and business taught me a lot in regard to making decisions "for the greater good." I wish that I never saw combat but it probably balanced my personality more than anything. Extremes are never good, personality or not....

 

[javaguru]

LOL

OH believe me I know I can't have my cake and eat it too. I know of two men that have crossed my path in life that are fucking perfect! I mean seriously perfect, they have it down to a tee... but they are my long time friends. Gosh I should have clenched onto one of them when given the opportunity back in the day LOL!

what's stopping you? They already want to tap it and are "perfect" so why not pursue these "perfect men." Are you really afraid they are as imperfect as the rest of us and want them on a pedestal?

 

[Frisky]

LOL yeah I'm sure there would be lots of meating going on.

yep! all the closet homos will be there.. aka lestat, aap and few others

 

[sublime35]

It's only 3.5 hrs from me to you Friskers......so incase things don't work out with you and Java, let me know...

 

[swolenole]

Can't have it all honey

Alright, yeah, you can, but you have to give up certain things, and it's actually shit you didn't list so maybe you won't miss it:

Short and sweet, you can't have all that AND have "macho." IMO, your standard model "macho dude" guy doesn't come equipped with the reciprocity/compassion/empathy that it sounds like you're looking for (I personally think the empathy chip plugs into the sports chip slot, so they either have one or the other, but that's JMO ...)

If you want a man who's compassionate you can't call him a pussy if he should cry over something that would seem perfectly acceptable for YOU to cry over ...

If you want a guy to who is more empathetic don't freak if he has some female friends ...

And don't be surprised that a guy who is a touch more "in touch" with his feelings isn't this gung-ho charge ahead cut throat mutherfucker, because he actually takes the time to think about the consequences of his actions and how they affect others ... he may very well be successful, but he's going to have a slightly broader view of things (anyone remember how John Kerry was lambasted because he actually THOUGHT about what he was going to say whereas Bush just blurted out the first thing that came to mind?)

and when I got off that airplane...I would change my name ,throw away my cell phone....and never look back.

 

[Frisky]

what's stopping you? They already want to tap it so why not pursue these "perfect men." Are you really afraid they are as imperfect as the rest of us and want them on a pedestal?

I said back in the day... these said men are now happily married

besides, I have the ring already and I just booked the hall.. really nice place out on the island.. gonna do it mid spring when all the flowers are blooming. I hope you are ok with pollen.. if not Ill get you one of those face mask thingy's. Dress is already picked out, and the colors are that of EF.. black, white and blue. (figured it suiting ya know)

Flowers will be calla lillies, and we'll dance to that song that your x remade.. whats the name of it? ... 'Take my Breath away'

 

[sublime35]

and when I got off that airplane...I would change my name ,throw away my cell phone....and never look back.

"A one way ticket was a pretty good sign"

 

[Frisky]

It's only 3.5 hrs from me to you Friskers......so incase things don't work out with you and Java, let me know...

Be there at the wedding... you never know whats gonna happen

 

[javaguru]

I said back in the day... these said men are now happily married

besides, I have the ring already and I just booked the hall.. really nice place out on the island.. gonna do it mid spring when all the flowers are blooming. I hope you are ok with pollen.. if not Ill get you one of those face mask thingy's. Dress is already picked out, and the colors are that of EF.. black, white and blue. (figured it suiting ya know)

Flowers will be calla lillies, and we'll dance to that song that your x remade.. whats the name of it? ... 'Take my Breath away'

See, a reason they're married....hopefully happily? For normal listening I'm a big fan of rock and metal but for a wedding I go country; "Amazed" or "Shameless" probably catch my loving style best....but I also have the Berlin song on my hard drive...(closet romantic).

 

[Frisky]

See, a reason they're married....hopefully happily? For normal listening I'm a big fan of rock and metal but for a wedding I go country; "Amazed" or "Shameless" probably catch my loving style best....but I also have the Berlin song on my hard drive...(closet romantic).

I'm cool with 'Shameless' I also like that song by Allison Krauss "When you say nothing at all"


I'm thinking George the spellman himself for your best man, and AAP for my maid of honor. Flower girl to be no other than lil aap.. all the other ef hookups will of course make up the wedding party. (We'll have to hide the booze from Angel and Needto)

Gosh.. this wedding planning thing is so easy... I'll be done with the entire thing by this evening.

 

[Raina]

My thought is that Miss E has a lot on her plate right now. Things are rough in the moment but they'll get better....they always do. She'll wind up exactly where she's supposed to and end up happy, all of this stuff right now is just part of the path to getting there....but I have full confidence in her ability to be a tough cookie and find her happily ever after.

 

[jack sparrow]

This thread has more sap than 80 acres of Pine trees

 

[Frisky]

My thought is that Miss E has a lot on her plate right now. Things are rough in the moment but they'll get better....they always do. She'll wind up exactly where she's supposed to and end up happy, all of this stuff right now is just part of the path to getting there....but I have full confidence in her ability to be a tough cookie and find her happily ever after.

time and patience... something I fear I lack sometimes. But with age comes all of that and lord knows i'm not getting any younger. tee hee

He'll come around one day, and I'll lock him up so that he doesn't get away.

 

[sublime35]

that song "Meet me at the alter" comes to mind when reading this thread.

 

[Raina]

Just try not to get too caught up in the headaches of the moment and lose sight of all the good stuff you have going.

 

[javaguru]

I'm cool with 'Shameless' I also like that song by Allison Krauss "When you say nothing at all"


I'm thinking George the spellman himself for your best man, and AAP for my maid of honor. Flower girl to be no other than lil aap.. all the other ef hookups will of course make up the wedding party. (We'll have to hide the booze from Angel and Needto)

Gosh.. this wedding planning thing is so easy... I'll be done with the entire thing by this evening.

I hope to find.."How Do I live."...

 

[javaguru]

This thread has more sap than 80 acres of Pine trees

Yeah...it's pretty geigh.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I'm cool with 'Shameless' I also like that song by Allison Krauss "When you say nothing at all"


I'm thinking George the spellman himself for your best man, and AAP for my maid of honor. Flower girl to be no other than lil aap.. all the other ef hookups will of course make up the wedding party. (We'll have to hide the booze from Angel and Needto)

Gosh.. this wedding planning thing is so easy... I'll be done with the entire thing by this evening.

omg i dont drink any more....i quit, havent you noticed? No fear! It's needto u need to worry about.
I find other things to do with my time than to make myself an ass because of a few drinks.drinking is petty and stupid.....i like coffee and soda now.....i have a goal to meet her and i will not be weak on the inside.....mark my words woman, it will be a long time before i drink again if even at all.

 

[Frisky]

Just try not to get too caught up in the headaches of the moment and lose sight of all the good stuff you have going.

Lately my focus has been on my Family, finishing up what I have to do to better my life, and then my training. I've been pretty straight forward and motivated on making these three things the top of my list. Priorities are in line and I'm not gonna go off my path, I can't allow that to happen again. I don't even think I could allow a man in my life right now because I'm not stable enough myself and I have way to much going on to focus on any relationship.

I decided that I have to train to do my comp, if not i'll just stay in this slump that i've been in since before the accident. I am a woman that need to set goals daily to drive me, without a goal I have no umph!

 

[velvett]

Frisky.

Frail, naive girl who got hurt by men.

She took up some combat shit, woman does some sort of karate. This was to make her feel physically superior. See also bodybuilding.

Now she fronts with this hardcore attitude (WALL).

Sexual prowess is her way of hiding her inability to maintain an equal relationship with a man. It also serves as a method to getting close with her man while her emotional wall is still up. See also, "little girl wanting daddy's attention and approval."

Discuss.

That's incorrrect.

 

[Frisky]

I hope to find.."How Do I live."...

I also found the handcuffs and the shackels... All you have to do is nod

 

[Megalomaniac]

What does it cost to get Frisky in a nutshell?

 

[Cutiebaby]

I also found the handcuffs and the shackels... All you have to do is nod

screw the nod just cuff and shackle him any ways