for those that have "settled down"...

[madbomber31]

how did you know it was time? how did you know that was the right person? any regrets? do you get bored? do you still look at others? get urges? etc...

 

[vixenbabe]

When I met my man I knew it was him by the way he was interacting with my best friends child at the time. The way he was playing and loving every minute with a child he hardly knew.

Something inside told me that this was a good man.

Do I look at other men, does he look at other women? Hell yes! WE ARE MARRIED NOT DEAD!

Urges to be with another man? Not on this end. Does he want another woman? I do not think so, he can hardly keep up with me..LOL Funny but true!

Tough to keep things going after all the these years..BUT worth the work! Something good ALWAYS takes MUCHO WORK!

 

[Weapon X]

As I explained it to my Dad:

I knew that I could find another woman pretty easily. But I knew that I could never find another woman who fit me in so many ways like she does. Never.
I have no regrets.
Sometimes I look at other women, but when I think of how much it would hurt my wife if I ever were to cheat on her (or how much it would hurt me if she cheated on me) I have no trouble resisting any temptations.

I also know that whatever I want to do with any other woman would be so little compared to the full depth of emotion and love I feel for my wife.

 

[WODIN]

How did you know it was time?

I was no longer getting any great deal of satisfaction out of playin the hoochies so I figured I would find a sweet thang to hook up with.

how did you know that was the right person?

Everytime I see her she makes me smile. Just seeing her...that never happened before.

Any regrets?

Sometimes I still wanna go bang hoochies....

Do you get bored?

Occasionally but we find ways to get through it. You have to keep doing new things and keep growing or else your doomed.

Get urges?

ALL THE TIME!! It's just life, you just have to make your priorities, have a little discipline and go with it.

etc...

Marriage is about having a life partner who you like more than you love. This person will become your best friend and you make a pact that no matter what other shit in life there is to deal with, in them, you have a friend who will listen. They may not always agree with you but at least the know you , understand where you are coming from and will help you find your way.

You can't get that from being a playa...

 

[Evildee]

that was beautiful Wodin!!!!

 

[Weapon X]

Wodin, excellent post, bro. It does my heart good to see good men out there respecting their wives...

 

[FrankRizzo]

I still look at other women, but the thought of how bad it would hurt my wife to cheated on her leaves me know I could never do it. I can just tell that she'd never cheat on me either. Just a string feeeling.

When I knew she was the right one for me was a gradual process. It started when she didn't want to sleep together on the first damn date. I certainly would have, I know this is screwed up, but i respected her a lot for that. Then I found out three months later that she was "untouched". It also helped when I met her family and her parents got me loaded for five straight nights during that Christmas season. Having her family accept me made me realize that it would be that much easier to make things work.

She is seven and a half years younger than me. I met her in College. Weird, huh?

 

[pauly]

My GF posts here...........

 

[madbomber31]

such a cool icon