Feeling Guilty...

[Cal_21]

I went the revenge cheat/whilst breaking up route...very low move on my part. I feel like shit, and now I'm a total hypocrite...hrmmm. At least I learned not to let my pride overrun my heart & rational. My ex admitted to kissing a guy twice, but could have done worse, but I know I did worse. The chick was a dog too , did it just to spite the ex. Just had to vent, thanks for listening you EFers

 

[biteme]

I went the revenge cheat/whilst breaking up route...very low move on my part. I feel like shit, and now I'm a total hypocrite...hrmmm. At least I learned not to let my pride overrun my heart & rational. My ex admitted to kissing a guy twice, but could have done worse, but I know I did worse. The chick was a dog too , did it just to spite the ex. Just had to vent, thanks for listening you EFers

Ain't none of us perfect. I don't think I can cheat just to get even (doesn't make me any better). If I cheated it would more than likely be a moment of weakness.. I've cheated in the past but was never very good at it

 

[chewyxrage]

you'll be alright dude. if anything be pissed you went after a fatty, lol.

 

[calveless wonder]

yep man........

revenge is not the way to go bro. Just makes you feel as low as the other person. no need to stoop to their level

i've been in your position before (although i was fucked over alot worse)..and i completely fucked over her in retaliation.
Alot of people i know said it was justified, and they would have done worse in my shoes but i felt like shit. I did it in a pure fit of rage and pain...not thinking, but still at the end of the day its your responsibility and your actions, no matter how irrational you were.
I still think she hates me to this day...and sadly, i don't think she ever saw her OWN heartless and evil betrayal that caused the whole situation.

take it as a life lesson..don't beat yourself up too hard. just walk away next time and be the bigger person. If anything, when you commit an act of revenge you give the person their own justification for doing whatever they did to you.