Exes

[Colstreamer]

All has been very quiet! Weirdly quiet infact, but im not going to complain!!

You did the right thing. Completely cutting off contact is the best way to go. He kept pestering you because he wanted contact, even abusive/unpleasant contact would reinforce his behaviour. It's like when a child is naughty to get attention.

 

[MrsMuscle]

Yea I am starting to realise that now! Any attention, even bad attaention, is still attention.

 

[Colstreamer]

Yea I am starting to realise that now! Any attention, even bad attaention, is still attention.

Yeah I learnt the long way
Believe it or not for people in that (your ex's) situation it can become an obsession. Once that stimulus (attention) is removed it's like they have to go cold turkey.

 

[cindylou]

people are crazy. I've never done anything like that.

 

[jeremyng25]

These fucking guys lol it really is very very sad. Tell him to fuck off how pathetic!

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[Shehulk666]

Totally ignore him and disconnect...... That sometimes is the only way. Good luck