Exes

[MrsMuscle]

My Ex is pissing me off. Will not leave me alone. Max he has gone is a week of no contact.

Mutal decision to split but he just will not leave me alone.

Do I just ignore him till he leaves me along, tell him to politiely do one, or just be a bitch? Im pretty mad right now and want to go with the latter.

 

[JoJo1980]

Start dating someone, that should send the right message. If you happen to live in near Toronto I can help you out, haha

 

[MrsMuscle]

I was previously - it still didnt stop him.

In the Uk - bit of a trek!!

 

[JoJo1980]

UK you say?? Wow, you are right that is a long way across the pond. Just tell him to piss off and leave you alone.

 

[*ebony*]

if it gets outta hand and you feel unsafe, go to the police, at least get a restraining order. make it clear to him that its over and no hope of getting back together, delete his number, facebook, other places with connections.

 

[cindylou]

Sometimes you have to be a bitch. Any amount of polite contact gives them hope. If you've told him to leave you alone and he won't he is not respecting you and your boundaries. You should be mad. Block his number, change your email and start documenting it if if keeps up after that.

 

[*ebony*]

Sometimes you have to be a bitch. Any amount of polite contact gives them hope. If you've told him to leave you alone and he won't he is not respecting you and your boundaries. You should be mad. Block his number, change your email and start documenting it if if keeps up after that.

that's not being a bitch at all. other than that agreed!

Take charge, be upfront, decisive and firm about this. its your life, don't let him aggravate or manipulate the way you run it as he has no business there any more.

 

[MrsMuscle]

Firm route has been taken. Have told him in no uncertain terms to leave me alone for good. Number, fb, email all blocked. Let's hope that's the last of it!

 

[Caitlin]

So are there any updates?

 

[MrsMuscle]

All has been very quiet! Weirdly quiet infact, but im not going to complain!!