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ever feel left out?

Sushi X

Sushi X

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not like getting left out of a game or something. i mean feel left our socially. like you just can't seem to find a guy or girl to be with(date)? you see people all around with someone and you don't have anyone and worse yet you never go out. i've been thinking about this. all i do is work, work out, go to class and get on the pc. i don't like the club scene as i always end up in the corner alone downing some hard lemonade. my friends don't help at all. i'm not trying to whine or maon but give you a decsription. anyone else feel the same way or have the same problem? just curious. i'm not saying i'm depressed but there's more i'd like to get out of life. and yes there is a girl i am interested in at work but i just can't seem to get myself to make a move or anything. grrrrrr.
 
I almost do. I am always reluctant to go out to clubs because I simply do not belong in clubs, although I do like to DANCE, but not party(as in partake in drugs or drink heavily). if I am at a club, the only chicks that appeal to me are the ones that can dance, not like stripper style, but that can throw down on the floor. I just aint out there for a fuck, although I should change that attitude...

:(
 
I feel like that sometimes. I have a pretty large crew of friends from hockey. As much as I feel like I'm part of the gang, I feel twice as alone on the inside at times. I can't stand club scenes, refuse to act like a thug, prep, freak etc. I just keep telling myself it'll be better when I'm in my 20s...I hope.
 
you seem nice enough,

maybe your just afraid of rejection.

i am sure others will appreciate your personality, if you are willing to go out on a limb and try.

the best medicine for a man.....is a good woman.

you just have to take some risks to get the girl you want and deserve
 
That was a joke. When I get that feeling I usually end up watching others and see whats going on.
 
yeah.. that is why I quit trying. I only do shit to make myself happy. If you need nobody else.. you will miss nobody else. Just try to think of anyone you would rather spend your cash on than yourself.... besides your Mom or Dad
 
I can fake sociable really well, it's just playing a role, but I prefer to be alone too often. Working on it though. Can't PC all the time.
Lately I'm thinking of finding a yoga class... all chicks, all flexible :D

SushiX, try a "heyyy, how u doing dreamX? Listen, I was at this place a couple blocks away, they've got a great pasta special, it tasted soo good, you gotta try it. let's head over for lunch on Friday?"
stop being such a pussy! Do I have to kick your ass??
 
Sushi X said:
not like getting left out of a game or something. i mean feel left our socially. like you just can't seem to find a guy or girl to be with(date)? you see people all around with someone and you don't have anyone and worse yet you never go out. i've been thinking about this. all i do is work, work out, go to class and get on the pc. i don't like the club scene as i always end up in the corner alone downing some hard lemonade. my friends don't help at all. i'm not trying to whine or maon but give you a decsription. anyone else feel the same way or have the same problem? just curious. i'm not saying i'm depressed but there's more i'd like to get out of life. and yes there is a girl i am interested in at work but i just can't seem to get myself to make a move or anything. grrrrrr.
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You just described my life... Work and workout, the clubscene... It all matches me :(
 
It's strange, but my roomate asked me the other day if I was lonely. I don't think I am. I think it's possible to be alone but not lonely.

I know quite a few people, but I don't really connect with them. They're fun to get ripped with once a month, but I don't call 'em during the week and they don't call me.

Anyway, I try not to worry about it.

Sushi X, take Island Son's advice and just ask the girl out. Look at me...even though I'm a hermit who rarely leaves the house, I can still get the occasional date.
 
Sometimes I feel just the way you described. I also work three jobs right now, 65 hours a week. I've been doing that for the past six months, so my social network is pretty much shot. I've still got lots of friends, but the time just isn't there to hang out. Sometimes I feel alienated even when in a group of people, however.
 
Who cares? I know that I don't care about what other people think of me. That's their opinion and they are entitled to it. I just don't want to hear them hatin' on someone they don't even know, because how could you know really anything about that person if you don't know shit about them. All y'all haters know who you are on this board and I don't have to name any names either. If you don't have anything nice to say to anyone about anything then don't say it at all. Just shut the fuck up for once please, becase I don't want to hear you talking shit about someone you don't know at all.
 
FyreWomanGoddess said:
Who cares? I know that I don't care about what other people think of me. That's their opinion and they are entitled to it. I just don't want to hear them hatin' on someone they don't even know, because how could you know really anything about that person if you don't know shit about them. All y'all haters know who you are on this board and I don't have to name any names either. If you don't have anything nice to say to anyone about anything then don't say it at all. Just shut the fuck up for once please, becase I don't want to hear you talking shit about someone you don't know at all.
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yeah.. really if you are gonna say somthing, make sure that before you start to say it, you are sure that you are gonna say. Too many people are saying things that are not. To start with, people are not gonna say this anyhow... so that is why YOU should think to say somthing in the first place. So shut the fuck up for once please.......

Do I make myself clear???
 
FyreWomanGoddess said:
Who cares? I know that I don't care about what other people think of me. That's their opinion and they are entitled to it. I just don't want to hear them hatin' on someone they don't even know, because how could you know really anything about that person if you don't know shit about them. All y'all haters know who you are on this board and I don't have to name any names either. If you don't have anything nice to say to anyone about anything then don't say it at all. Just shut the fuck up for once please, becase I don't want to hear you talking shit about someone you don't know at all.
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wow! what brought that on????????? :confused:
 
thanks for the replies yo. omega you hit it on the head, i am afraid of rejection. the other problem is this girl has a boyfriend though i don't see it as a stable relationship. island, you are right i just need to go for it.

am i the gaming sushi x or the ice slinging ninja? both really, i love video games and i also have ice slinging abilities.
 
Sushi X

Everyone feels left out at some point in there life's but there is one thing u have to remember ( my mum gave me this advice when I was a kid) SHY PEOPLE NEVER GET ANY WHERE IN LIFE. And every time I face a difficult hurdle I remember that and just go for it. And it has really helped me, I have wonderful friends, I go to d gym and strangers want to train with me. IT IS ALL ABOUT BELIEVING IN YOURSELF, BUT MOST OF ALL BEEN COMTABLE OF WHO U ARE. FUCK WHAT EVERY ONE ELSE SAYS OR THINK OF U.

KEN343
 
i'm selectively shy. i can make friends with ease but certain women i find it hard to talk to. there's this one fine looking girl who worked with us for a bit this last summer, she works at another one of our chains about an hour away, i can talk to her like nothing. i'd go out with her for sure, but the girl at work i just can't seem to tell her what i need to tell her. go figure.
 
Sushi X said:
thanks for the replies yo. omega you hit it on the head, i am afraid of rejection. the other problem is this girl has a boyfriend though i don't see it as a stable relationship. island, you are right i just need to go for it.

am i the gaming sushi x or the ice slinging ninja? both really, i love video games and i also have ice slinging abilities.
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With all due respect man, maybe you oughtta leave it alone until she's single. If she was dating you while she had a boyfriend, how much could you trust her not to do the same to you if you guys ever had a relationship?
 
casavant said:


With all due respect man, maybe you oughtta leave it alone until she's single. If she was dating you while she had a boyfriend, how much could you trust her not to do the same to you if you guys ever had a relationship?
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H to the motherfuckin izm.
 
well i've decided to just let thing happend as they will. i'll ask her out and if she agree we'll go do something. i'm gonna just wait til they break up before i make a serious move.
 
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