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feisty11975
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I love a great sense of humor. A gorgeous smile does the trick too. Has to be good with my kids, good to me and appreciate me! It seems that I spoil the guy that I am with but sometimes like to be spoiled right back. My man has to support me, not really financially, but in general...work, decisions (good or bad), just life in general.
Oh and he has to be good in bed
***edit*** He has to be able to handle my blonde moments
Seem to happen pretty damn often lololol
Oh and he has to be good in bed
***edit*** He has to be able to handle my blonde moments
Seem to happen pretty damn often lololol
FEISTY11975 said:I love a great sense of humor. A gorgeous smile does the trick too. Has to be good with my kids, good to me and appreciate me! It seems that I spoil the guy that I am with but sometimes like to be spoiled right back. My man has to support me, not really financially, but in general...work, decisions (good or bad), just life in general.
Oh and he has to be good in bed
***edit*** He has to be able to handle my blonde moments
If we only lived closer babe.
feisty11975
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ortiz34 said:If we only lived closer babe.
damnit!
lol
I've been with the same guy for 5 years now. I still get butterflys when I look at him, or he looks at me. I'm attracted to him still, because he lets me be myself. I'm not afraid to tell him anything, and he makes me feel safe. I love him for many reasons -
He's honest and respectful
He's got one of those quiet, dangerous personalities - people don't mess with him (he's also BIG lolol - that might be part of it)
He's not afraid to take risks
He's like Magyver (sp) - he can fix or make anything
...those are just a few.
(He's also stubborn, sometimes cranky, and picky about his food - but I love those things, too. lolol)
He's honest and respectful
He's got one of those quiet, dangerous personalities - people don't mess with him (he's also BIG lolol - that might be part of it)
He's not afraid to take risks
He's like Magyver (sp) - he can fix or make anything
...those are just a few.
(He's also stubborn, sometimes cranky, and picky about his food - but I love those things, too. lolol)
...and what feisty said. he makes me laugh.
I think that may be a very important part of what women find attractive in men...
I think that may be a very important part of what women find attractive in men...
who gives a shit what feisty thinks. put it in her butt and get it over with.
rykertest
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this next question will come across as borderline sexist, but I don't mean it that way ok?
Do women want a guy to lead them? I mean take charge and make the decisions but in a loving way? It seems to be natural for a man to lead and a woman to follow, but yet one can't do that without the other. Not to sound cocky, but I'm the head of my household, but my world would be nothing without the woman in my life standing beside me supporting me and helping me in every area of life. Even when she leaves town, it feels odd in the house, very empty and all that. I hate it. This is a bad anaolgy but it's like a sports car. The outside may be pretty and all but it just a hunk without an engine to make it move.
When I look at her, as ubergay as it sounds, I smile. Even when I see her sleeping and remember how her morning breath will curl my hair, I still love her and all about her.
I made this post because I always wonder if what is going thru my head, the intangible warm stuff thats so hard to explain is a male thing or what. hard to explain.
Do women want a guy to lead them? I mean take charge and make the decisions but in a loving way? It seems to be natural for a man to lead and a woman to follow, but yet one can't do that without the other. Not to sound cocky, but I'm the head of my household, but my world would be nothing without the woman in my life standing beside me supporting me and helping me in every area of life. Even when she leaves town, it feels odd in the house, very empty and all that. I hate it. This is a bad anaolgy but it's like a sports car. The outside may be pretty and all but it just a hunk without an engine to make it move.
When I look at her, as ubergay as it sounds, I smile. Even when I see her sleeping and remember how her morning breath will curl my hair, I still love her and all about her.
I made this post because I always wonder if what is going thru my head, the intangible warm stuff thats so hard to explain is a male thing or what. hard to explain.
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pabloamiera
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juiceddreadlocks said:
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feisty11975
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juiceddreadlocks said:
hey juicedpussylips
how you doin?
rykertest said:
holy
that's sweet. lololol really.I can't be with a man who can't take charge or the situation. I'm by no means submssive , but to me - a lack of "leadership" (for lack of a better word) in a man = weakness.
I was having a convo with someone regarding a guy who did whatever she wanted him to. yuck. to me - that's a serious weakness.
rykertest
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the-short-one said:holy
I can't be with a man who can't take charge or the situation. I'm by no means submssive , but to me - a lack of "leadership" (for lack of a better word) in a man = weakness.
I was having a convo with someone regarding a guy who did whatever she wanted him to. yuck. to me - that's a serious weakness.
Yeah, women want a guy who isn't a jerk all the time and can be a nice and thoughful guy, but also have a backbone. Guys that are whimps make me sick and honestly I think it does women too; even if the guy is a nice guy. Nice and winmpy is a VERY bad combo.
feisty11975
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the-short-one said:holy
I can't be with a man who can't take charge or the situation. I'm by no means submssive , but to me - a lack of "leadership" (for lack of a better word) in a man = weakness.
I was having a convo with someone regarding a guy who did whatever she wanted him to. yuck. to me - that's a serious weakness.
AMEN SISTA!!!
rykertest said:
right. we want a guy who's nice and respectful, but still pulls our hair and holds us down in bed.
Sassy69
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the-short-one said:holy
I can't be with a man who can't take charge or the situation. I'm by no means submssive , but to me - a lack of "leadership" (for lack of a better word) in a man = weakness.
I was having a convo with someone regarding a guy who did whatever she wanted him to. yuck. to me - that's a serious weakness.
What you said. Exactly.
I cannot stand when I feel like I'm doing all the work keeping a conversation going, suggesting things to do, etc.
