Dumped!!!

[Techbaseball]

Son of a bitch..... I just got dumped over EMAIL!!! Took me completely by surprise. I am all kinds of messed up now... i was actually falling for her. Sunday she came over and we had a crazy good time..... ending the night with great sex.

Tuesday rolls around and I get an email at work.... this is what she wrote:

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."


I've never been dumped!!!! See... this is my luck. I usually don't get attached, but decided that this one was worth it... and see what happens. Women Suck!


--Techbaseball

 

[theoak01]

who are you?

 

[cyrex]

That sucks to hear. I'm sorry. I'd hit you up with some karma but I just bet it all on duke and Vanderbilt
Don't let it end over email. Make her say it in person. Also ask the name and address of the guy she cheated on you with.

 

[nycgirl]

Welcome to EF. There are many jaded and bitter men here just like you.

Too bad you are a non-plat, I would say pull-up all of Awitty's "Women are Scandalous & Evil" posts, read them & work on healing.

 

[cyrex]

haha nycgirl... how come you aren't plat anymore? (you were at one time weren't you?)

 

[Techbaseball]

That sucks to hear. I'm sorry. I'd hit you up with some karma but I just bet it all on duke and Vanderbilt
Don't let it end over email. Make her say it in person. Also ask the name and address of the guy she cheated on you with.

Man..... I really don't think she cheated on me....but who knows now. I did play this girl differently than i normally do. I was the "nice" and "sweet" guy. Never again. Guess it's time to go back to playing the stupid artificial games.


--Techbaseball

 

[theoak01]

Man..... I really don't think she cheated on me....but who knows now. I did play this girl differently than i normally do. I was the "nice" and "sweet" guy. Never again. Guess it's time to go back to playing the stupid artificial games.


--Techbaseball

the nice sweet guy eh? sounds like me, read every post ive ever made on here about women,and do the exact opposite and you will be good

 

[cyrex]

Man..... I really don't think she cheated on me....but who knows now. I did play this girl differently than i normally do. I was the "nice" and "sweet" guy. Never again. Guess it's time to go back to playing the stupid artificial games.


--Techbaseball

Well it didn't sound like she gave you a real reason she wanted to break up. If you guys had some amazing sex a few nights ago, she must be feeling guilty for cheating and wants to breakup to fix/remove the guilt . . .

Unless you did something wrong, she wants out cause she's got another pony to ride.

 

[Tytan]

she`s cheating fo `sho.....

 

[Dunk]

is your vagina sopping wet? we need to know.

 

[Lestat]

fuck man, that really sucks.. I know the feeling too well.

 

[cyrex]

If it makes you feel any better the first girl I dumped, I did it using a tape recording and calling her up, not saying a word when she answered but played the tape...

back when email wasn't so popular

 

[Techbaseball]

Problem is she is hot has hell. So I "ignored" a few red flags on our first couple of dates.

1 red flag: Shes's 24 years old.... not saying that's too young... but she's just at a different stage of life as me. (i'm 31)

2nd red flag: I met her 6 weeks after she broke off a 5 year relationship.

Of course it was a physical attraction at first so I could careless about the flags. But she actually turned out to have a great personality.

So yeah..... she's probably cheating... or doesn't want to be tied down.

again.. Women Suck. and yes... my vagina is wet.

--Techbaseball

 

[slat1]

That sucks. Been there before. You will get over it. Go to a strip club and have a good time.
I would also highly recomend have a lot of meaningless, unprotected sex with tons of girls. That always made me feel better.

 

[alien amp pharm]

If you need relationship advice I am here for you.

 

[Techbaseball]

That sucks. Been there before. You will get over it. Go to a strip club and have a good time.
I would also highly recomend have a lot of meaningless, unprotected sex with tons of girls. That always made me feel better.

Hellz yeah. Best advice yet. I don't have a problem with meeting the ladies... i'm just bummed cuz I thought I found a good one. I guess it's payback for all the hearts i've broke. Dam Karma.

Question: What of she calls me a few weeks from now and wants big daddy back? Man.... im so whipped... i may consider it.

--Techbaseball

 

[cyrex]

That sucks. Been there before. You will get over it. Go to a strip club and have a good time.
I would also highly recomend have a lot of meaningless, unprotected sex with tons of girls. That always made me feel better.

I love your advice Slat..

are strip clubs that great? I need to suck it up and go to one sometime. My wife gave me permission . . .

 

[cyrex]

just hit it a few times if she calls back up and then send her an email . . .

 

[awittyusername]

Problem is she is hot has hell. So I "ignored" a few red flags on our first couple of dates.

1 red flag: Shes's 24 years old.... not saying that's too young... but she's just at a different stage of life as me. (i'm 31)

2nd red flag: I met her 6 weeks after she broke off a 5 year relationship.

Of course it was a physical attraction at first so I could careless about the flags. But she actually turned out to have a great personality.

So yeah..... she's probably cheating... or doesn't want to be tied down.

again.. Women Suck. and yes... my vagina is wet.

--Techbaseball

It happens to all of us.

Sounds like you were the rebound guy. But, you got to think positive. You banged a hot chick for awhile, and now she is gone without hassling you.

Pretty soon you will find yourself looking for another girl to be the rebound guy, and just ride it out.

 

[Techbaseball]

just hit it a few times if she calls back up and then send her an email . . .

Good shit... Will do. I'll copy and paste her email and change the names.

 

[Techbaseball]

Pretty soon you will find yourself looking for another girl to be the rebound guy, and just ride it out.

Too funny. Hell.... sounds like a better role then the "perfect" guy. Yep... that's what she called me. "You are just so perfect.... u know exactly what to say and do." Makes me puke thinking about what a dumbass I was.

--Techbaseball

 

[Alpine]

Man..... I really don't think she cheated on me....but who knows now. I did play this girl differently than i normally do. I was the "nice" and "sweet" guy. Never again. Guess it's time to go back to playing the stupid artificial games.


--Techbaseball

See what happens? Nice guys never win! Be a dick all the way.......she'll love ya for it!

 

[SlimJim52]

Well it didn't sound like she gave you a real reason she wanted to break up. If you guys had some amazing sex a few nights ago, she must be feeling guilty for cheating and wants to breakup to fix/remove the guilt . . .

Unless you did something wrong, she wants out cause she's got another pony to ride.

Sounded more like she just out of one relation and needs to think things out before getting involved again.

 

[Dial_tone]

She's cheatin on ya, bro

 

[Frisky]

She's cheatin on ya, bro

yowza Dt, thats a big bootay

 

[EnderJE]

Dude. Over email? That's AWESOME.

 

[velvett]

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."

Ahhhhhhhh I've done this - and I can tell you that when I did it I meant what I said.

It really isn't a you problem it's a her problem and yes, email does suck ass and you have the right to be mad but just be you and don't purposely be a dick to girls because of the actions of another girl.

Good Luck.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Son of a bitch..... I just got dumped over EMAIL!!! Took me completely by surprise. I am all kinds of messed up now... i was actually falling for her. Sunday she came over and we had a crazy good time..... ending the night with great sex.

Tuesday rolls around and I get an email at work.... this is what she wrote:

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."


I've never been dumped!!!! See... this is my luck. I usually don't get attached, but decided that this one was worth it... and see what happens. Women Suck!


--Techbaseball

i was gunna bomb u with a "who are u"

i bet she had aids

 

[EnderJE]

Got it. Take a picture of yourself giving the finger and send it back.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Got it. Take a picture of yourself giving the finger and send it back.

or write something like.

"i really loved you...and you broke my fucking heart"

then never write/talk/see her again, and guilt will destroy her, thus making her easier for the next guy

 

[EnderJE]

or write something like.

"i really loved you...and you broke my fucking heart"

then never write/talk/see her again, and guilt will destroy her, thus making her easier for the next guy

Better yet.

Buy a toothbruth that looks exactly like hers. Take pics of it in shit, in a whore's ass, in a garbage dumpster. Then send'em to her.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Better yet.

Buy a toothbruth that looks exactly like hers. Take pics of it in shit, in a whore's ass, in a garbage dumpster. Then send'em to her.

or call in a bomb threat to her building and as shes running out punch her in the face

 

[EnderJE]

or call in a bomb threat to her building and as shes running out punch her in the face

Or post her name, number, email address and picture on EF.

 

[H_T_]

whole lotta whipped bitches up in this post. why don't you guys read some of your poetry & share your feelings some more?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Got it. Take a picture of yourself giving the finger and send it back.

 

[Gambino]

i would def pour the sauce to ease the pain

 

[Techbaseball]

Better yet.

Buy a toothbruth that looks exactly like hers. Take pics of it in shit, in a whore's ass, in a garbage dumpster. Then send'em to her.

Ah shit.... she actually did leave her toothbrush behind. I was wondering what I was going to do with it.

Yeah... i was the rebound guy. Like I said.. im a dumbass. And women bashing is perfect remedy for my stupid broken heart. I'm sure Ill go out Friday and be just fine.... but till then.... women suck ass.

--Techbaseball

 

[The Bigdawg]

Question: What of she calls me a few weeks from now and wants big daddy back? Man.... im so whipped... i may consider it.

--Techbaseball

IF that is true then this will happen over and over again for you.

Just might as well tattoo "Doormat" on your forehead.

Don't let this happen to you bro!!

 

[Techbaseball]

IF that is true then this will happen over and over again for you.

Just might as well tattoo "Doormat" on your forehead.

Don't let this happen to you bro!!

I hear ya bro. But reading the email... i don't think she will be ever calling again.

Wanna hear something really F'd up? Last Saturday my boys and I went out. 6 strong. All of us confident, out-going, and have crazy rhythm. I met this gorgeous brunette who says she's a Maxim Model. We hit it off and she invites my boys and I to join her friends at a near by dance club. Anyways....she was showing me much love and I got her number, but felt bad the next day and deleted it from my cell phone Once again.. im a dumbass.

--Techbaseball

 

[The Bigdawg]

I hear ya bro. But reading the email... i don't think she will be ever calling again.

Wanna hear something really F'd up? Last Saturday my boys and I went out. 6 strong. All of us confident, out-going, and have crazy rhythm. I met this gorgeous brunette who says she's a Maxim Model. We hit it off and she invites my boys and I to join her friends at a near by dance club. Anyways....she was showing me much love and I got her number, but felt bad the next day and deleted it from my cell phone Once again.. im a dumbass.

--Techbaseball

You didn't!

You made a mistake, just make sure you don't do this again. Go live your life and be happy for yourself.

 

[SlimJim52]

or write something like.

"i really loved you...and you broke my fucking heart"

then never write/talk/see her again, and guilt will destroy her, thus making her easier for the next guy

Da bomb idea really sucked.

BUT, I like this. hmm I may even like you for posting this.

 

[vinylgroover]

(i'm 31)

2nd red flag: I met her 6 weeks after she broke off a 5 year relationship.

bro that's a black flag not a red flag.

i won't get involved with anyone who has just come off a long term relationship.

it's just shame that she was too much of a selfish c*nt to get involved with someone when she knew she wasn't emotionally available yet. people need to get their own shit in order before playing with other people's lives like that

 

[SlimJim52]

Ah shit.... she actually did leave her toothbrush behind. I was wondering what I was going to do with it.

Yeah... i was the rebound guy. Like I said.. im a dumbass. And women bashing is perfect remedy for my stupid broken heart. I'm sure Ill go out Friday and be just fine.... but till then.... women suck ass.

--Techbaseball

Stick it up our ass, brush and send it home!

 

[Techbaseball]

It really isn't a you problem it's a her problem and yes, email does suck ass and you have the right to be mad but just be you and don't purposely be a dick to girls because of the actions of another girl.

Nah... I'm never a dick. BUT there is definetely something to be said about playing the "game." I'm always a geniune person.... but the experienced "dater" or "player" or whatever knows that there are rules that should be followed. I decided not to follow them this time and be completely open and honest. Didn't work. Won't be trying that approach for awhile.

Then again..... she probably wasn't ready for a relationship.... or like a few bros have mentioned... she could of been cheatin.

--Techbaseball

 

[H_T_]

who cares? Opening Day is like 40 days away......

 

[B0ARDIN087]

Hellz yeah. Best advice yet. I don't have a problem with meeting the ladies... i'm just bummed cuz I thought I found a good one. I guess it's payback for all the hearts i've broke. Dam Karma.

Question: What of she calls me a few weeks from now and wants big daddy back? Man.... im so whipped... i may consider it.

--Techbaseball

you sound like me

 

[jnevin]

Other fish. I know it sucks, but you knew there were flags, you ignored them, she's hot and could suck your prostate through your pee-hole, etc. It sucks. Advice can be given until you're blue in the face, but in the situation, it's a bitch.

Just do what I did when I got divorced. Drink waaaay too much, be a semi-regular user of the white devil, find some dumb slut girlfriend that wants to have threesomes with strippers, (and can actually set them up), and let your health and self respect go down the drain. Over a chick.

Shit works.

 

[Mammoth2500]

Other fish. I know it sucks, but you knew there were flags, you ignored them, she's hot and could suck your prostate through your pee-hole, etc. It sucks. Advice can be given until you're blue in the face, but in the situation, it's a bitch.

Just do what I did when I got divorced. Drink waaaay too much, be a semi-regular user of the white devil, find some dumb slut girlfriend that wants to have threesomes with strippers, (and can actually set them up), and let your health and self respect go down the drain. Over a chick.

Shit works.

Some sound advice right there ^

 

[markshark]

Son of a bitch..... I just got dumped over EMAIL!!! Took me completely by surprise. I am all kinds of messed up now... i was actually falling for her. Sunday she came over and we had a crazy good time..... ending the night with great sex.

Tuesday rolls around and I get an email at work.... this is what she wrote:

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."


I've never been dumped!!!! See... this is my luck. I usually don't get attached, but decided that this one was worth it... and see what happens. Women Suck!


--Techbaseball

thats the way they are. one day they want one cock, a different one another day. and then they try to spill some emotional bullshit on you about how they are going through a "tough time". they are just selfish, ungratefull whores and most guys should realize that. good luck man.

 

[seizer]

A chillidog...somehow, it seems to center and warm a man's soul.

Get a chillidog...it werkt fur m3.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Just might as well tattoo "Doormat" on your forehead.

Have it done artistically tho, with tribal shit, & a black pnther pissing on the corner.

 

[SlimJim52]

who cares? Opening Day is like 40 days away......

GO JANKEES

 

[Techbaseball]

who cares? Opening Day is like 40 days away......

Yep Yep..... the Rockies will never leave me.

 

[nycgirl]

who cares? Opening Day is like 40 days away......

I'm actually looking forward to it. I'm getting tickets to some Washington National games.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

if the 5 year relationship wsnt enough to put you off the relationship, her ending it by EMAIL (gutless. calibre of this girl = somewhere betwen dog poop and genital warts) should be

and who gives a shit how hot she is. there are lots of hot girls. some of them even have style

cheerios

 

[Destroyer1986*]

if the 5 year relationship wsnt enough to put you off the relationship, her ending it by EMAIL (gutless. calibre of this girl = somewhere betwen dog poop and genital warts) should be

and who gives a shit how hot she is. there are lots of hot girls.some of them even have style

cheerios

Liar!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Liar!

come up to darwin man. youll see girls with balls down to their knees. none of this email breakup shit. theyll tell you that you were a dead root while swigging from a VB and kicking a stray abo out of their way with their spurs.

not pretty, but very stylish

 

[Destroyer1986*]

Lolllllll

 

[alien amp pharm]

At least you knew about the 5 year relationship before you got involved, so you should have known what was coming. At least you got to tap it.

 

[velvett]

Nah... I'm never a dick. BUT there is definetely something to be said about playing the "game." I'm always a geniune person.... but the experienced "dater" or "player" or whatever knows that there are rules that should be followed. I decided not to follow them this time and be completely open and honest. Didn't work. Won't be trying that approach for awhile.

Sounds like you're a good solid person - and no matter the situation - the best "revenge" is always moving on successfully and never looking back.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

At least you knew about the 5 year relationship before you got involved, so you should have known what was coming. At least you got to tap it.

lol doesnt it piss you off when everything reminds you of your situation

 

[pintoca]

Techbaseball bor, can I ask you a question?

 

[alien amp pharm]

lol doesnt it piss you off when everything reminds you of your situation

and to add insult to injury, he at least got to have sex with his girl.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

and to add insult to injury, he at least got to have sex with his girl.

lol i know i found it rather amusing, because for once, im on the right side of it

 

[manny78]

Son of a bitch..... I just got dumped over EMAIL!!! Took me completely by surprise. I am all kinds of messed up now... i was actually falling for her. Sunday she came over and we had a crazy good time..... ending the night with great sex.

Tuesday rolls around and I get an email at work.... this is what she wrote:

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."


I've never been dumped!!!! See... this is my luck. I usually don't get attached, but decided that this one was worth it... and see what happens. Women Suck!


--Techbaseball

Read it the other way: Dear XXXXX, as of today, i no longer need your cock since I found some bad boys and that's what I'm looking for. You've been very useful and I wish you the best.



In other words, she used you.

 

[Raptorex]

Face it bro, she was a whore, slut, hussy, coquette, flirt, libertine, siren, tempter, temptress, wench, cock-smoking harlot...

Any chick that has sex with a guy and then breaks up the next day is not worth knowing.

 

[stilleto]

Face it bro, she was a whore, slut, hussy, coquette, flirt, libertine, siren, tempter, temptress, wench, cock-smoking harlot...

Any chick that has sex with a guy and then breaks up the next day is not worth knowing.

true.
and if she had sex with a guy she'd break up with in an email, she's probably had sex with hundreds of others.
maybe thousands.

 

[Raptorex]

true.
and if she had sex with a guy she'd break up with in an email, she's probably had sex with hundreds of others.
maybe thousands.

I feel bad for the guy actually, but hopefully he learns from it - it's women like her that make every nice woman out there pay the price (ie., the man will no longer give his all and feel insecure so they cheat).

 

[stilleto]

Tech, stay genuine and don't play any game. maybe it didn't work this time, but in the long run, it will.

 

[Raptorex]

Tech, stay genuine and don't play any game. maybe it didn't work this time, but in the long run, it will.

Stilleto,

After further thinking, perhaps he just has a small dick and can't perform in bed, maybe I was too harsh?

 

[stilleto]

Stilleto,

After further thinking, perhaps he just has a small dick and can't perform in bed, maybe I was too harsh?

i didn't think of that. now i kinda feel bad for the girl.

 

[Techbaseball]

Stilleto,

After further thinking, perhaps he just has a small dick and can't perform in bed, maybe I was too harsh?

Penis size above average. And she had one within the first 2 minutes so I got to do whatever I wanted after.

Been talking to my boys about the whole situation. I think she came over on Sunday wanting to break up... but decided not to. She actually paid for dinner that night. I usually never let her pay but she was adamant about paying (guilty conscience maybe). When we got home...no delay.. we mad a b-line to my bed. She normally stays the night.... but left around 2 in the morning. I got played!!!!! kind of feels good though... lol.

--Techbaseball

 

[Techbaseball]

Techbaseball bor, can I ask you a question?

Sure... what's up?

 

[KBEKQT]

Problem is she is hot has hell. So I "ignored" a few red flags on our first couple of dates.

1 red flag: Shes's 24 years old.... not saying that's too young... but she's just at a different stage of life as me. (i'm 31)

2nd red flag: I met her 6 weeks after she broke off a 5 year relationship.

Of course it was a physical attraction at first so I could careless about the flags. But she actually turned out to have a great personality.

So yeah..... she's probably cheating... or doesn't want to be tied down.

again.. Women Suck. and yes... my vagina is wet.

--Techbaseball

She got back with her ex...I'd bet on it! Sorry hun, that really suks...

 

[mrdeeznuts]

Son of a bitch..... I just got dumped over EMAIL!!! Took me completely by surprise. I am all kinds of messed up now... i was actually falling for her. Sunday she came over and we had a crazy good time..... ending the night with great sex.

Tuesday rolls around and I get an email at work.... this is what she wrote:

"I have tried to be as honest as possible with you about how I feel and what I want in a relationship but I have come to the conclusion that I need to be alone. You have been so understand...you gave me space when I needed it...you were there when I needed you, and I am so grateful for all that you have done.

There was nothing that either one of us could have done to change thing except maybe meeting at a different time. I am so sorry for everything.

I know this is extreamly sucky to do over e-mail but I need to end this."


I've never been dumped!!!! See... this is my luck. I usually don't get attached, but decided that this one was worth it... and see what happens. Women Suck!


--Techbaseball

dude ur the luckiest guy on earth, i'd give anything for girls to ditch me over email.

i'd be like fuck ya time for the next puss