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blueta2

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Had a new client 4 weeks ago, who since our consult, calls me, txt me and tries to skype me all the time.
He asks me out for dinner, coffee etc.

He's never said anything inappropriate, but his invites are out of line.
I'm short and to the point with him, but I worry that when he has his follow up in a few weeks, he will get even more aggressive.

Dump him? Discuss
 
Had a new client 4 weeks ago, who since our consult, calls me, txt me and tries to skype me all the time.
He asks me out for dinner, coffee etc.

He's never said anything inappropriate, but his invites are out of line.
I'm short and to the point with him, but I worry that when he has his follow up in a few weeks, he will get even more aggressive.

Dump him? Discuss

Refer him to an ophthalmologist?


Damn... couldn't resist!
 
Be straight up and say no, tell him that this is your job and that clients are off limits or that your seeing someone...

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Be straight up and say no, tell him that this is your job and that clients are off limits or that your seeing someone...

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this, claim professional boundaries..if they can't respected fire him as a client
 
My certification clearly states that any relationship outside of a professional stand point is unethical. You can always rely on that but as far as getting him to lay off, I don't know what to tell you :P


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Had a new client 4 weeks ago, who since our consult, calls me, txt me and tries to skype me all the time.
He asks me out for dinner, coffee etc.

He's never said anything inappropriate, but his invites are out of line.
I'm short and to the point with him, but I worry that when he has his follow up in a few weeks, he will get even more aggressive.

Dump him? Discuss

tell him your hubby doesn't allow you to date
 
Had a new client 4 weeks ago, who since our consult, calls me, txt me and tries to skype me all the time.
He asks me out for dinner, coffee etc.

He's never said anything inappropriate, but his invites are out of line.
I'm short and to the point with him, but I worry that when he has his follow up in a few weeks, he will get even more aggressive.

Dump him? Discuss

Seriously that pisses me off, men are pathetic like that
 
Tell him you dont support evil corporations that pillage the environment by going out to dinner at big chain restaurants and drinking corporate made coffee
 
tell him coffee stresses your adrenals!

LOL....I really LOL at this!! hahahah!


I almost feel shy to tell him he's crossing the line. When I'm professional and short with him when he asks, I figure he'll get it.
He has a wife and kids as well, but who knows, maybe he's just lonely and needs to talk, but I feel uncomfortable.

Dropping him would mean losing good money also. He buys a lot of supplements from me as well.
 
LOL....I really LOL at this!! hahahah!


I almost feel shy to tell him he's crossing the line. When I'm professional and short with him when he asks, I figure he'll get it.
He has a wife and kids as well, but who knows, maybe he's just lonely and needs to talk, but I feel uncomfortable.

Dropping him would mean losing good money also. He buys a lot of supplements from me as well.

Make yourself unnattractive and you wont have that problem anymore
 
Exactly...professional boundaries is the correct play here...it doesn't leave the door open at all.

How do you claim boundaries without making the guy not feel uncomfortable.
I keep it so very professional. He knows many of my mutual friends so I think he feels he can be a "bud" and I've never talked to him in a bud way.

I mean hell, we talked for 30 mins about his bowel movements and prostate ;-) How unsexy can it get?!
 
LOL....I really LOL at this!! hahahah!


I almost feel shy to tell him he's crossing the line. When I'm professional and short with him when he asks, I figure he'll get it.
He has a wife and kids as well, but who knows, maybe he's just lonely and needs to talk, but I feel uncomfortable.

Dropping him would mean losing good money also. He buys a lot of supplements from me as well.

just don't get all emotional in it. continue to treat it like a business relationship. next time he asks, turn it into a double date with his wife and he will probably back off, maybe
 
I have been good at treating it professional, but when he comes to see me for his follow up, I worry about him asking me again. I want to say something like "thanks for the offer, but I need to keep our relationship professional"
Or "My boyfriend is HUGE and has a crazy temper and he will be here in 5 mins to mess you upppppp" ;-)
 
i'd go with telling him the "keep professional" and keep making money off his dumb ass
 
I never had issues with reading the "riot act" to clients when I had my other business, but this is a business where you need to be gentle.
 
it still applies kinda. just due to it being your business, and you really need business doesn't mean you should let shit slide. You may not want to upset him. But if you don't nip this one, imagine rumors about you. "pixie dust chic is also a homewrecker" that could be bad for business
 
Ekkk, no home wrecking here! I'm way above that! Now if he looked like Hugh Jackman maybe ;-)

thanks xoxo
 
If you would allow him to have at least a 10 minute casual conversation with you about your interest and ideas im sure he would quickly change his mind.
 
Hey Momma, you looking for some new clients. I don't know what you selling, but I'm in. :)
 
Make him your bitch.

Tell him that you'll accept nothing less than unquestioning, unconditional surrender. Emotionally, sexually, and financially.

Probably scare him off but you might get lucky.

Damn, why can't I get a stalker?
 
^^ agree. Make him suck on your clit and finger bang your g spot until you squirt a half gallon right in his faggot mouth.
 
I mean hell, we talked for 30 mins about his bowel movements and prostate ;-) How unsexy can it get?!


That depends...some doods are into prostate stimulation...maybe he's hoping you'd offer if you were on a more 'friendly' basis?

(how creeped out are you going to be the next time he comes in with THAT in the back of your head? You're welcome :) )
 
Make him your bitch.

Tell him that you'll accept nothing less than unquestioning, unconditional surrender. Emotionally, sexually, and financially.

Probably scare him off but you might get lucky.

Damn, why can't I get a stalker?

He's not a stalker, just really in my face!

Not sure that would scare him off, I think he would like it
 
That depends...some doods are into prostate stimulation...maybe he's hoping you'd offer if you were on a more 'friendly' basis?

(how creeped out are you going to be the next time he comes in with THAT in the back of your head? You're welcome :) )

hahaha.....well, I will try to think of rainbows and butterflies next time ;-)
 
You will get the best health of your life ;-) How do we do lunch?

The best sex of my life sounds awesome, PM me your number. :verygood:
 
Exactly...professional boundaries is the correct play here...it doesn't leave the door open at all.

Exactly. If one of the excuses is that you're seeing someone, he'll always be asking you if you're still seeing that person.

What if you say you need to keep it professional so he fires you and asks you out?
 
Exactly. If one of the excuses is that you're seeing someone, he'll always be asking you if you're still seeing that person.

What if you say you need to keep it professional so he fires you and asks you out?

In the US you're required to wait 3 years after you've last treated someone. I doubt she even counts towards real policies etc from a governing board though. I say she sets up a 3 some.
 
My sinuses are plugged up, I have a horrible headache, and a phlegm producing cough.

How much ginger should I snort?


A 10 piece boneless wing platter with atomic sauce from wing stop should fix you right up. Make sure you order an extra side of blue cheese and a pint of shock top.
 
i would have said hydros, but i would say woodyo's approach would probably work fine
 
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