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Does your SO spy on you on here?

hardrock

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Mine does. Just called her and she's readin me my threads and replys. Says she wasn't spying on me, but has never been on here otherwise. Pisses me off. Sayin shit about the pictures of women forum and my replys. Something along the lines of "I'm not enough for you" and shit.

Anyone else's SO spy on their EF usage?
 
why did u tell her.. u just say ur ona fitness board.. don't need specifics.. whens he coems over.. deelte cookies, files and history
 
hardrock said:
Mine does. Just called her and she's readin me my threads and replys. Says she wasn't spying on me, but has never been on here otherwise. Pisses me off. Sayin shit about the pictures of women forum and my replys. Something along the lines of "I'm not enough for you" and shit.

Anyone else's SO spy on their EF usage?
Just look her in the eyes and say...

"Well, you have been porking out for the last little while..."
 
Prettylittlepest said:
why did u tell her.. u just say ur ona fitness board.. don't need specifics.. whens he coems over.. deelte cookies, files and history

She knows I go on here. She has for years. She knows it a fitness board and tha there's chat. She finally decided to check it out today while I was at work and apparently was looking for some of my threads/replys.
 
Dude, if its been years, and shes just now checking it out. Hardly seems psychotic stalker type behavior.

Ask yourself truthfully would it bother you if she were conducting herself ina similar manner?

Be careful of the answer, or she might just take you up on the suggestion
 
crak600 said:
now you gotta watch what you say or her legs will close for quite some time.


That threat don't work on me. I have a low sex drive anyway. She complains now that I don't put out enough. Fuckin Paxil ruined my sex life years ago :(
 
JerseyArt said:
Dude, if its been years, and shes just now checking it out. Hardly seems psychotic stalker type behavior.

Ask yourself truthfully would it bother you if she were conducting herself ina similar manner?

Be careful of the answer, or she might just take you up on the suggestion

First of all we just got a computer. Second, I could give a shit if she was lookin at naked dudes online.
 
Dont get all possy with me bor, you posted your personal life soliciting feedback, not me.

First of all your the one who said she has known you post here fro years.

Second of all, I was addressing the totality of your behavior, not just your looking at pics.

She's not a guy man. Stop blaming her for not being one
 
JerseyArt said:
Dont get all possy with me bor, you posted your personal life soliciting feedback, not me.

First of all your the one who said she has known you post here fro years.

Second of all, I was addressing the totality of your behavior, not just your looking at pics.

She's not a guy man. Stop blaming her for not being one

I don't know wha the fuck "possy" means, but I never said she was stalking me or being psychotic. I simply said that she had never checked the site out and when she does, she goes right to looking for my posts.

No I don't think I've done anything wrong in the totality of my behavior, but thats not the point. The point is she's fucking spying on me.

She's probably read my emails if she could. Would you want your GF doing that? How about opening your mail? Not that I have anything to hide, I never even use my email. It's the fact that she'd do it in the first place.
 
hardrock said:
I don't know wha the fuck "possy" means, but I never said she was stalking me or being psychotic. I simply said that she had never checked the site out and when she does, she goes right to looking for my posts.

No I don't think I've done anything wrong in the totality of my behavior, but thats not the point. The point is she's fucking spying on me.

She's probably read my emails if she could. Would you want your GF doing that? How about opening your mail? Not that I have anything to hide, I never even use my email. It's the fact that she'd do it in the first place.


Dude, your talking to wrong guy.

The first thing I do when I get serious with a girl is leave her alone in my home for a few hours so she can search to her hearts content.

My passwords arent secret. It isnt worth the stress of keeping them from her either. This way she can check, snoop around, reassure herself, and I donbt have to deal with the arguments about things I was never doing anyway.

But Im more practical than most.

I know, I know, shes supposed to trust you implicitly and never doubt a word yousay. She should believe you when you tell her it isnt rainging, event hough she can hear the randrops on the roof and hear/see the thunder and lightning through the window.

In the real world though people somethimes require some reassurance,e specially when your actions are often incongruent to your words.

Seperately, women get upset of their significant others looking at pron. Welcome to earth my friend. Either do a beter job of hiding it, or drop it. But telling her she shouldnt be ....well...a woman is going to egt you nothing but grief in the long run
 
JerseyArt said:
Seperately, women get upset of their significant others looking at pron. Welcome to earth my friend. Either do a beter job of hiding it, or drop it. But telling her she shouldnt be ....well...a woman is going to egt you nothing but grief in the long run


Not true. I've had gf's who would watch porn themselves. many times with me. It's the insecure one's who snoop around and spy on you or get pissed about you looking at porn on the friggin internet. That aint what I signed up for. I trust her and she should do the same.

I'm not saying she has to believe everything I say. Or believe it's not raining when she can hear it? i'm saying have a little faith in me.
 
trust no one...
You're a plat. Change your handle, don't tell her.
Learn how to cover your tracks. None of that "I know how to delete cookies and wipe the IE .DAT file" shit. Search, learn, and get gansta' on it.
 
hmmmmmmmmmm
 
Why don't you ask her if there is a problem w/ you ?

If she has to act like that... it looks like she doesn't trust you
 
Nah, my hubby could care less about what I post here, etc......actually sometimes he suggests stuff for me to post!!
 
what a dumb fucking bitch slut she should shape up an dnever do that shit again.


















-shes gunna read this right? ;)
 
Prettylittlepest said:
why did u tell her.. u just say ur ona fitness board.. don't need specifics.. whens he coems over.. deelte cookies, files and history


I wasn't expecting this to come from a girl. :evil:
 
I hate spying. My SO posts on other fitness forums, but i would never spy. if he has something to say i hope he would say it to my face. and the stuff he wouldn't say to my face i probably wouldn't want to hear in the first place!
 
JerseyArt said:
Dude, your talking to wrong guy.

The first thing I do when I get serious with a girl is leave her alone in my home for a few hours so she can search to her hearts content.

My passwords arent secret. It isnt worth the stress of keeping them from her either. This way she can check, snoop around, reassure herself, and I donbt have to deal with the arguments about things I was never doing anyway.

If the guy is acting suspicious then I totally understand why she is doing this, no offence to the guy!

I was left alone in the guy's home many a times before and I decided to search the place one fine day...oh God..I found some horrid & shocking stuff...I basically entered the "man's brain" - letters, photos etc (stuff he tried to hide from me about himself and his male/female friends). This was around Xmas time - I felt like all my Xmases came down at once. WHAT A TURN OFF THAT WAS!

Obviously if a guy hides stuff he must be guilty of something which arises suspicion and DISTRUST!
 
If you call it "snooping" and not trusting your partner that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Fact is do NOT trust anyone..... EVER!! Please spare me the bullshit "you're insecure and should trust me" line. Everytime I hear such a line I laugh my ass off. People lie so much nowadays I don't think honesty exists anymore.

If you think none of your other girlfriend's have ever "snooped" you are sadly mistaken. Everyone wants some kind of reassurance... EVERYONE. Some just hide the "snooping" better then others. We're living in a day and age where infidelity, cheating, lying and decieving are at an all-time high it seems.

Never trust anyone.
 
wutangnomo said:
If you call it "snooping" and not trusting your partner that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Fact is do NOT trust anyone..... EVER!! Please spare me the bullshit "you're insecure and should trust me" line. Everytime I hear such a line I laugh my ass off. People lie so much nowadays I don't think honesty exists anymore.

If you think none of your other girlfriend's have ever "snooped" you are sadly mistaken. Everyone wants some kind of reassurance... EVERYONE. Some just hide the "snooping" better then others. We're living in a day and age where infidelity, cheating, lying and decieving are at an all-time high it seems.

Never trust anyone.


NOT EVERYONE wants reassurance...if you are comfortable with yourself reassurance is not that important unless you are new at a particular task!!

what pepole want is loyalty - someone to trust
 
wutangnomo said:
If you call it "snooping" and not trusting your partner that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Fact is do NOT trust anyone..... EVER!! Please spare me the bullshit "you're insecure and should trust me" line. Everytime I hear such a line I laugh my ass off. People lie so much nowadays I don't think honesty exists anymore.

If you think none of your other girlfriend's have ever "snooped" you are sadly mistaken. Everyone wants some kind of reassurance... EVERYONE. Some just hide the "snooping" better then others. We're living in a day and age where infidelity, cheating, lying and decieving are at an all-time high it seems.

Never trust anyone.
I agree 100%
 
Yasmina said:
NOT EVERYONE wants reassurance...if you are comfortable with yourself reassurance is not that important unless you are new at a particular task!!

what pepole want is loyalty - someone to trust

Reassurance and trust go hand in hand. Trust is earned through reassurance.
 
wutangnomo said:
Reassurance and trust go hand in hand. Trust is earned through reassurance.

one of your points was that everyone needs reassurance ....IMO not everyone needs reassurance to do something
 
SoMoney said:
I hate spying. My SO posts on other fitness forums, but i would never spy. if he has something to say i hope he would say it to my face. and the stuff he wouldn't say to my face i probably wouldn't want to hear in the first place!

SoMoney, this is your SO. I want to break up with you for posting lame advice.


Hardrock, How is the relationship. Has she been acting differently lately. I have had girls start looking for shit after we were in the relationship some time. They were looking for reasons to justify dumping my ass. (even though they ahd found someone higher on the food chain)
 
I generally resolve this issue by never getting close enough to someone that I'd have to worry about trust. and yeah, I know, its a two way road.

nonetheless Trust is a virtue rare upheld.


I'm also rather secretive sometimes, doesn't mean I am guilty of jack shit.


what was this thread about again?
 
awittyusername said:
Hardrock, How is the relationship. Has she been acting differently lately. I have had girls start looking for shit after we were in the relationship some time. They were looking for reasons to justify dumping my ass. (even though they ahd found someone higher on the food chain)


Other than that she's cool. I'm not worried about that.
 
Paulo said:
I generally resolve this issue by never getting close enough to someone that I'd have to worry about trust. and yeah, I know, its a two way road.

nonetheless Trust is a virtue rare upheld.


I'm also rather secretive sometimes, doesn't mean I am guilty of jack shit.


what was this thread about again?


i love this post...wow that was good...best post i have read in loooooooong time
 
So how do I clear my history in AOL? I went to explorer then tools, then internet options. Cleared cookies, history and one other, but when on AOL, I hit the arrow down button(history) and everything is still there. WTF? What else do I need to do?
 
hardrock said:
So how do I clear my history in AOL? I went to explorer then tools, then internet options. Cleared cookies, history and one other, but when on AOL, I hit the arrow down button(history) and everything is still there. WTF? What else do I need to do?

If you have zone-alarm there is an option to wipe those files, in the privacy section. Explorer itself will not remove all history and form fills. If your gf/bf is a nerd you need to do a clean space eraser program to really remove the data afterwards.

My gf broke into my email account so I have leaned my lesson.
 
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