Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Well, last night I fooled around with my roomate/good friend's girlfriend. I knew it was going to happen, too. He was in Minnesota at one of his fights(he does that UFC stuff) so her and I went out together because we've become pretty good friends and all considering she's always at the house. We've been flirty and whatnot ever since she's been coming over and I knew there was a mutual attraction. Anyway, so after the bar we went to some afterhours and then I walked her to her dorm. Well, her roomate was "busy" so I told her that she could stay at my sister's house with me(due to some shit, I'm staying there right now). So, we came here, ate some ice cream and then she started giving me a massage. I could kind of tell that something was probably going to happen, but I ignored it and tried to be good. That's when the "badness" really comes into play. When she finished I should have gotten up from the bed and went to the couch, but I couldn't do it. Instead, I got under the covers and she followed. She said "Just so you know, I'm a cuddly person and it doesn't mean anything." I thought Ok, that's cool, nothing's going to happen. Well, she proceeded to start scratching my arm and my stomach, chest, hips and whatnot. I couldn't help myself and I started rubbing her arms, too. Then, I caught some wood and she happened to put her leg on it. I thought "Well, so much for pretending that I don't like her." Really, I tried to go to sleep. I did, for real. But, instead, we ended up rubbing noses and next thing you know, of course, we started kissing and the rest followed. Is that bad? I mean, I know it's not something that should have been done, but does it make me evil? Normally, I wouldn't feel so badly, but my roomate thinks he's going to marry this girl, despite the fact that he treats her pretty poorly sometimes. The worst part is that I can't even say that I was wasted. I was stone cold sober, since I just started some d-bol and I didn't drink because of it. There goes the "drunken mistake" excuse. What do you people think?
Does this make me a bad person?
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Stanknogger
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I think
1) Do you value his friendship greatly? Then goto 3, or else goto 2.
2) It was a shitty thing to do. End.
3) Tell him, he's gotta know this girl is sleeping around.
4) It was a shitty thing to do. End.
Of course you're no better than she.
1) Do you value his friendship greatly? Then goto 3, or else goto 2.
2) It was a shitty thing to do. End.
3) Tell him, he's gotta know this girl is sleeping around.
4) It was a shitty thing to do. End.
Of course you're no better than she.
Bigsatan13
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Two scumbags betraying the trust of a friend!
your a person of low moral character. You have next to no integrity and that is about the worst thing I can say about a man. No offense bro, just calling like I see it. You couldve avoided the whole thing, but went in thinking something was gonna happen. You the worst kinda guy that gives us all bad names. She of course is a total pig who will probably tell your friend just to cause problems cause that gives her the power over the two of you and your actions.
Have a nice day.
Have a nice day.
gottagetbig
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ALL THAT EXPLANATION TO TELL US YOU ARE A TRAMP...how can you even think that after doing sonthing like that and even talking to him one more day,not tell him then call him a friend .you most certinally are not.
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Nope - it's not certain , but you certainly have provided evidence to suggest that you are a shit. However , spillin the beans on the guy's girl will redeem you a little : consider it like this , you betrayed your bro , she betrayed her lover - no contest which is the more important relationship.
You do deserve a kickin tho (maybe two).
You do deserve a kickin tho (maybe two).
damn
Damn bro start writing porno stories i got a wood just reading that shit. Now about your problem there are two diff kinds of guys, guys that bone because they love the feel of pussy. Guys who only bone virgins because slut pussy makes them limp and impossible to have sex with and would rather masterbate thinking about pure virgins who have never even kissed another dude (me). So dont fight it and love life for what it throws at you.
Damn bro start writing porno stories i got a wood just reading that shit. Now about your problem there are two diff kinds of guys, guys that bone because they love the feel of pussy. Guys who only bone virgins because slut pussy makes them limp and impossible to have sex with and would rather masterbate thinking about pure virgins who have never even kissed another dude (me). So dont fight it and love life for what it throws at you.
i've been in that spot and i can say i was a better man and walked away, despite the fact that the girl gave me huge wood and she knew cause i was poking her pussy with it...i still valued my friendship and walked away...if i was in that situation today, i would say "fuck you" to my friend and nail his girl till morning cause you don't screw with me and expect me to be nice...
you are a cheater and shouldn't be trusted, i know how the feeling is and it ain't good. oh well, shit happens.
~p~
you are a cheater and shouldn't be trusted, i know how the feeling is and it ain't good. oh well, shit happens.
~p~
Sassy69
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Grizzly -- if you already knew it was bad to get into that situation well, you know what that makes you -- you just have to live with yourself now. But the girl -- yikes -- girls KNOW when they are gonna get it and when they are gonna give it -- it doesn't "just happen". For your own peace of mind you should stay away from the girl but also you might want to take a neutral stance when the roommate asks for your opinion on his future w/ the girl. How do you know she isn't using the roommate to get to YOUR wood???
Longhorn85
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Hopefully she doesn't kiss and tell and hopefully your friend breaks up with her eventually. Take this as a lesson to steer away from your friend's girls in the future.
Longhorn85
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Sassy69 said:
I don't know if she's exactly using him to get to me, but I do know that they are having big problems due to his four year old-like attitude. I do know, however, that she says that I'm the perfect guy. I don't know if that means that she likes me better or what, but I do know that she likes me. Such a shame, too, because I really like her too, but I couldn't very well up and start dating her. That would just not work out right at all.
gottagetbig
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the lack of depth that you dissplay is unreal.if you don't get that it is JUST WRONG!!!!! there is little hope for you.no matter how things are with them you should never have become part of the equation.what do you think life is a soap?gottagetbig said:
Lack of depth? What kind of crazy shit are you speaking? Isn't life a soap? Sure, most people don't have that much money or free time, but doesn't this shit happen all of the time? I think it does. In fact, I know it does. I feel bad for you if you don't have any drama in your life. Actually, maybe that's a good thing. It's nice to not have any drama, but if you don't then you're not really living, now are you?
Grizzly,
How do you feel about it bro?
Next question do you think you can keep from doing it again?
How does she feel about it?
Inotherwords,
A mistake is a mistake. If you and her know it was a mistake keep it to yourselves and don't tell your friend. It will just tear him up inside. If ya'll are starting to have "feelings" for each other then shit is going to get alot deeper.
How do you feel about it bro?
Next question do you think you can keep from doing it again?
How does she feel about it?
Inotherwords,
A mistake is a mistake. If you and her know it was a mistake keep it to yourselves and don't tell your friend. It will just tear him up inside. If ya'll are starting to have "feelings" for each other then shit is going to get alot deeper.
TheGame2001
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hmmm
Only thing you did wrong was you should have rolled that tramp over and plugged her in the ass.
Bitches know all we are is fuck hounds so its her fault not yours pal.
Shes the whore.
You just got a boner and all the blood went to the boner so you couldn't think straight.
If she comes over again, bang that ragged whore again and again and again.
Whaz her number?
Only thing you did wrong was you should have rolled that tramp over and plugged her in the ass.
Bitches know all we are is fuck hounds so its her fault not yours pal.
Shes the whore.
You just got a boner and all the blood went to the boner so you couldn't think straight.
If she comes over again, bang that ragged whore again and again and again.
Whaz her number?
Your friend should kick the shit out of you for that.
What a pussy thing to do. Sleep with your roommates woman when he's not around. I mean, I bang my roommates bitch, but we're cool like that. Sneaking around, fucking this girl that your FRIEND think's he is going to marry... well, you're a little bitch.
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What a pussy thing to do. Sleep with your roommates woman when he's not around. I mean, I bang my roommates bitch, but we're cool like that. Sneaking around, fucking this girl that your FRIEND think's he is going to marry... well, you're a little bitch.
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Crazier said:
Well, the whole marriage thing wasn't divulged until the next day when he got back. Secondly, I did't sleep with her. We just fooled around. At first, I didn't want to and then, when I changed my mind, she changed hers. So, all we did was fool around. Not that that is all too different or anything.
curling said:
Well, I feel kind of bad about it. Yet, I feel kind of good about it, too, because...well, I won't think about that part. (See third paragraph)
I could keep from doing it as long as she doesn't come onto me. I won't push the issue, but I'm helpless when she's scratching me.
That's the real kicker in the crotch. I think it's safe to say that we both have feelings for each other. I like her and she straight told me that if she wasn't with him then she would be with me and she kind of wishes that she would have met me first. Boy, I love complicated situations. Not!
3 WORDS ....DENI DENI DENI
ALSO IF HE FINDS OUT YOU ASS IS GRASS....
ALSO FUCK A BITCH IF SHE CHEATED ON HER BOYFREIND SHE IS THE WHORE NOT YOU....
ITS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO STAY FAITHFUL ITS HER SLUTY ASS....
OTHER THAN THAT YOU BETTER KEEP FUCKING HER SO SHE WONT TELL.....
IF SHE DOES .......RUN......
ALSO IF HE FINDS OUT YOU ASS IS GRASS....
ALSO FUCK A BITCH IF SHE CHEATED ON HER BOYFREIND SHE IS THE WHORE NOT YOU....
ITS NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO STAY FAITHFUL ITS HER SLUTY ASS....
OTHER THAN THAT YOU BETTER KEEP FUCKING HER SO SHE WONT TELL.....
IF SHE DOES .......RUN......
Sheesh Grizzly,
I don't know what to tell you now. That is a bad situation. It sounds like you are going to lose a friend and get a new girlfriend at the same time to me bro. Last ditch effort to save your friendship with your roommate. Do you have another girl right now? If yes, then do her. The best way to forget a woman is to get another one.
I don't know what to tell you now. That is a bad situation. It sounds like you are going to lose a friend and get a new girlfriend at the same time to me bro. Last ditch effort to save your friendship with your roommate. Do you have another girl right now? If yes, then do her. The best way to forget a woman is to get another one.
da big thinker
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duckman said:
DID HE NOT MENTION THAT IT'S HIS FRIENDS GIRL?BRO,tell your friend right away...like sassy said,she knew what she was getting into...and,in all honesty,so did YOU...your friend might be pissed at first and you might have to take a punch or two...but your FRIEND will thank you when he realizes what a mistake it would've been to marry some girl like that...what if this sucker marries her,only forhim to find out later???!!!---hope the bone was worth it...IMO it never is...
Dean Kuntz
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Why not to take advantage.... to me it sounds she and the boyfriend are no angels. I feel bad every time I turn down a chance to fuck. Everytime I swear to be faithful I feel testosterone escaping my body.
solidspine
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At one point in my life I made a similar mistake,
Ended up losing two friends and splitting them up!
Ended up losing two friends and splitting them up!
PinK233
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You both suck....she's trash for cheating on her boyfriend and you're trash for knowingly being "the other man"...the way he treats her is none of your business and does NOT excuse the cheating....apparently the way he treats her doesnt bother her much if the stupid bitch is still with him....
Let's just put it this way....would you have wanted your friend to do that to your girlfriend that you thought you were going to marry? Probably not. Both of you were in the wrong. Everyone has hormones, if I screwed a guy everytime I thought he was hot, I wouldn't be married right now.
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