Does She Have someone on the Side??????????

[theoak01]

guys i have a major reason to suspect my so called "girlfriend" has someone on the side,tonite i took her out to the movies which was cool and all,i paid like a gentlemen would,things did seem a little off and i couldnt put my finger on it,then the movie ended and i told her i would walk her home cuz it was getting late,she said ok,so about half way there in a neighbourhood i do not know she sees these two guys looks at me and says bye,then walks over to them,at this point im fuming cuz i dont know where i am and i just brokedown i cant explain it but she has my mind kinda fucked up,i think she is cheating but claims our relationship is fine,another reason i believe this is last weekend she told me she only wants to see me three times a week most,someone give me some input here,its driving me nuts and im back at the bottle

 

[rushx79]

let me get this straight. she spots two guys and w/o any hesitation gives you a quick goodbye then walks off to the other guys? she is also dictating exactly how many times a week you can see her? sorry to say it , but save yourself the heartache and get out now. i was just in a relationship where the girl was acting funny like your girl is. she was acting like she was hiding something. i kept asking her what was wrong and she kept saying "nothings wrong, its all in your head." if im not getting the respect i deserve ill break it off , so i did. come to find out a month later, she was seeing someone else the whole time she was seeing me. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!

 

[Frackal]

Fuck her one last time and dump her immediately afterwards, the bitch.

 

[Shrebly]

Is she in school? What the age difference? Have you given her anything personal [jewlery, clothing etc] .. if so, does she still wear it or have it?

 

[lincoln]

This is really tacky but true:

Deep down you always know. Your head always tries to convince you otherwise. But you know.

 

[MaGilicuti]

I agree with frackal, just bang her and kick her ass out.

And I also agree with Lincoln. You just know what's gonna happen deep down inside but refuse to believe it.

 

[McBainXVII]

thats a bitch of a problem, dont hit the bottle man, its not worth all the friggin hassle, prolly time to eject.

 

[danielson]

what frackal said...

i hope this wasnt the gurl u were chatting about vefore wh u said ur friend liked her. however u might ave just saved him some pain. but dont hit the bottle. girls like her dont deserve to be drank over.

 

[Thick dog]

Even if she isn't cheating on you, that was downright inconsiderate and deserves soem sort of explanation. Blow her off for a couple of days, then if she comes crawling back, ask her what the hell that episode was all about.

 

[JustinM]

forget here, even if she isnt cheating she is a bitch...forget about her and play it off cool and she'll want you back

peace

 

[Milhouse]

Sounds like you need to tell her to piss off if you want to keep any dignity.

Doing this will give you one of 2 things

1- You say piss off and then she straightens out and wants you more.
Or..
2- You move on and find a nice honey who will respect you.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Yea....what THEY SAID!

Whether she is cheating or not, she is rude and bitchy. FUCK HER. There are so many other girls who will treat you with more respect.

 

[1bigpitbull]

OAK tell that little biatch to fucken get lost have some pride my friend.And stay away from the bottle that will just fuck you up more.PM me if you need anything.

 

[Liberator]

dont dump her now, wait til youve been paid, that way at least you'll have money for porn

get rid of her, but shag her first

she obviously believes that she has you wrapped around her little finger, hence the complete lack of respect for you, she thinks she can get away with anything and yet you'll always still be there like the loyal little dog

dump that bitch

dump the bottle too, you dont need that shit either

 

[THeMaCHinE]

It doesn't really sound like that person is so much on the side... Dude, you're young, expect shit like this for the next couple years. You should be out mixing it up with as many hotties as possible anyway.

As far as drinking, you're just using this as an excuse to feel sorry for yourself and give yourself permission to do something you know is wrong -- you know better. Really, it's your life though. Do you want to be a 16 (or is it 17) year-old drunk? Or do you want to be the guy who works out, has respect for himself, confidence, and knows that if one girl doesn't work out, there are many others out there for him? Your choice bro.

 

[rudedawg]

Fuck her one last time and dump her immediately afterwards, the bitch.

Especially the immediately part..... like right after you nut... say "Wow baby that was awesome....... too bad it will never happen again..... see ya later"

 

[Bikini Mod]

Especially the immediately part..... like right after you nut... say "Wow baby that was awesome....... too bad it will never happen again..... see ya later"

See now, I can fully appreciate the brothas' point of view here, but if I had a dick, I would not want to stick it into shit.......just my .02

 

[Cleaner]

Wow,

That's harsh...being the sneaky fuk I am I would have followed them.......what's this breakdown stuff....your never lost...your always right were you are at. You found your way didn't you......have faith in yourself and your ability. You need no one!
I would have still followed them. I gotz the kinda mind that has to know.

 

[Weapon X]

Good advice all around: ditch the rude tart. You deserve respect.

 

[velvett]

Regardless of if she has anyone else or not - she doesn't respect you or doesn't know how to be respectful.

Move on to someone better.

 

[da big thinker]

OAK,

it's time for "das boot"...let her go and don't even bother w/ closure...what goes around comes around!!!hehehe

 

[theoak01]

i ended the shit this morning,she started crying on the phone and said that it was just her friends,im like then why couldnt i have met them,she made up some shit like usual,i told her that i dont need this bullshit and its over,she hung up,the turn out is i have a major sense of relief and im happier,no temptation to drink either,i honestly feel i have a depression problem,when minor shit goes wrong i go a running back to that bottle,when things are going good i have a social drink nothing more

 

[THeMaCHinE]

i ended the shit this morning,she started crying on the phone and said that it was just her friends,im like then why couldnt i have met them,she made up some shit like usual,i told her that i dont need this bullshit and its over,she hung up,the turn out is i have a major sense of relief and im happier,no temptation to drink either,i honestly feel i have a depression problem,when minor shit goes wrong i go a running back to that bottle,when things are going good i have a social drink nothing more

Try inositol at 6 grams/day + a B-complex vitamin in addition to your MV/MM. As GaryWary says, it helps straigten the head.

 

[rushx79]

isnt it amazing how they can cry at the drop of a hat? they think its some kind of weapon, like if they cry youll believe them or it somehow makes it ok.

 

[Big Johnson]

Fuck her one last time and dump her immediately afterwards, the bitch.

Bingo

 

[Celt]

Gotta be kidding...

I just read your post, and skimmed throught the replies. If this girl just walked away from you w/ no explanation, and you are in a relationship, I would say that she has a G.Damn screw loose. I would normally say, "talk and find out what is going on, in order to make sure that the level of committment is where you both want it to be."... but fuck that! There are some things that shouldn't be done, and that is definately one of them. This girl, it seems, played you on that night. You should dump her butt quick w/ no explanation. That will be hard, since I am sure you want to knock her out and at the very least, tell her off. In the long run she will get hers, and you will end up w/ someone a hell of a lot better. If you, or anybody is in a relationship, there has to be a level of respect present. If that isn't there, then tell the person to hit the street.

I wouldn't fuck her again, either. Go and fuck her best friend, lol.

"Play the game, and play it to win"

 

[manny78]

find that moron and break his legs....... believe me then she'll be impressed and wont try to do it again.

 

[madbomber31]

oak.. i know you already dumped her and all but.....

when she walked away, did she turn to you and say goodnight? give you a kiss, then walk away... or just like a "see ya later" and walk away? if she kissed you then you MIGHT have over reacted despite her rudeness... if she didnt kiss you then i think it's obvious she wants others to think she is free and somehow is hoping for attention from someone else...

either way, you did what you had to do... its tough man... i think 10% of the guys on this board have lost a "love" in the last few months... half of us still get pissed off about it but you know what? 99% of that 10% is happier now.

 

[theoak01]

thats the thing MB she didnt kiss me and say good night kind of like she was ashamed to be with me,thats why i got pissed,otherwise it woulda been cool,and yes bro im alot happier now,her bestfriend who is going out with my bestfriend told her that she is a piece of shit and doenst want to talk to her anymore,i find it all funny