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Just helpin my brother put it into perspective.
The marriage was over eons ago and still he is stuck in something that is relatively inconsequential in the grand scheme of things.... is it not?
"Who is he hurting by wallowing in the events of the past? His ex?
NO
He is hurting himself by his inability to move on.
I have been cheated on (by my exhusband AND also an exboyfriend that I loved very deeply). And?
You mourn for the loss. You feel your pain by allowing it to wash over you and then you MOVE ON.
I have no sympathy for people who choose to wallow in their own misery and refuse to even TRY to move ahead. They are victims in prisons of their own design."
she keeps bringing up her own life, its hilarious, biteme has it hard "Look at me look at me, look how bad i have it, hello, over here, i got beaten"
no wonder u got beaten, shit....man biteme should beat u for taking over his thread like that and getting it locked
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=476543&page=2&pp=20
The marriage was over eons ago and still he is stuck in something that is relatively inconsequential in the grand scheme of things.... is it not?
"Who is he hurting by wallowing in the events of the past? His ex?
NO
He is hurting himself by his inability to move on.
I have been cheated on (by my exhusband AND also an exboyfriend that I loved very deeply). And?
You mourn for the loss. You feel your pain by allowing it to wash over you and then you MOVE ON.
I have no sympathy for people who choose to wallow in their own misery and refuse to even TRY to move ahead. They are victims in prisons of their own design."
she keeps bringing up her own life, its hilarious, biteme has it hard "Look at me look at me, look how bad i have it, hello, over here, i got beaten"
no wonder u got beaten, shit....man biteme should beat u for taking over his thread like that and getting it locked
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=476543&page=2&pp=20
