The way I see it, you can tell anyone you want, but you'd better be sure that you will NEVER get on their bad side b/c they have dirt on you. Since noone can say things will never change between them and even the closest loved one, telling anyone about your gear use is a liability. This is not an opinion, but a fact. Now, for some in very committed relationships, the liability is limited as there is a high degree of trust and the need to maintain total honesty trumps absolute safety, but this is RARE. What good does it do you to tell anyone? People and relationships change, but once revealed you can never take it back. Stay safe by staying silent bros, imagine what a valuable tool for extracting money and kids your juicing would be in a divorce settlement with todays whacked environment. Not to mention how incredibly common it is for disgruntled loved ones to report gear stashes to the authorities during fits of anger. In almost everyone of these cases, I bet the guy thought his angel would never do that to him. Don't put youself in that position, and ladies please understand where a bro maybe coming from if he is less than forthcoming with his gear usage. No offense, but I know most women have a whole bunch of things they never tell their man no matter how close they are.