Secrets are a touchy thing. Once you've had all of your secrets exposed though, it can be quite liberating.
I won't give information to people that would hurt them if somebody knew it about me. People who do this are quite selfish as they care more about lightening their load then about what is good for their friends/family.
I've been on the bad end of this because people know that I am very trustworthy, in the end when their secret was exposed I got burned because I didn't tell....
Yea, makes sense.
Since then, I keep to myself and don't get involved with people anymore.