Do you cheat??

[avenirup]

Don't you think you might be "overrating" yourself when you talk of your charm and charisma around women?

No

 

[BileStew]

lol, good job.

So, you ask a question, then tell everyone that doesn't answer in compliance with your ideals that they are lying. .

Paulo, why even bother? It's painfully apparent this imbecile cannot grasp the irony. Especially when his retorts attempting to deflect the fact that his idea of cheating is ok, fall flat on their face with a constant stream of illogical conclusions.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Who cares what people think of you. Honor and intergrity are both overrated.



I don't.

At least you're not a hypocrite.

 

[Paulo]

Paulo, why even bother? It's painfully apparent this imbecile cannot grasp the irony. Especially when his retorts attempting to deflect the fact that his idea of cheating is ok, fall flat on their face with a constant stream of illogical conclusions.

Well, because the full service island at the gas station I work at just doesn't get that many customers anymore, so I have to entertain myself somehow.

 

[avenirup]

Well, because the full service island at the gas station I work at just doesn't get that many customers anymore, so I have to entertain myself somehow.

Exactly.

And BileStew = Chaos Mage wanna be.....

 

[Paulo]

yawn

 

[avenirup]

yawn

Shouldn't you and BileStew be in Plat Chat stroking Superqt's ego??

 

[Paulo]

Shouldn't you and BileStew be in Plat Chat stroking Superqt's ego??

Shouldn't you be off leg-humping triplevirgin?

 

[BileStew]

Shouldn't you and BileStew be in Plat Chat stroking Superqt's ego??

That's funny, one would soon to believe you were gearing up to commence leg humping all the ladies of EF, then starting a poll, then mentioning how you're good looking, intelligent and rich.

One thing though, if you're so intelligent and also claim to be a writer, wouldn't you be able to easily distinguish when to use "your' and "you're" in a sentence correctly?

 

[avenirup]

Shouldn't you be off leg-humping triplevirgin?

Not a virgin for long. Another woman who wants to be devirginized by me. So many woman so little time. I guess you cannot relate.

 

[wend]

Well, because the full service island at the gas station I work at just doesn't get that many customers anymore, so I have to entertain myself somehow.

And Av, intimacy and caring and trust may not happen in EVERY marriage, but it happens in mine, and it's certainly NOT going to happen in the sort of "relationship" you engage in.

And there is no way I can believe that you're actually that charming in real life, when you're this much of an goon online. My impression is that all this bluster is to cover up the fact that you stutter, you're either fat or skinny, with acne, bad clothes, and a really little wee wee.

 

[avenirup]

you're good looking, intelligent and rich.

Thank you. Yes I am. And I never said I was rich.

One thing though, if you're so intelligent and also claim to be a writer, wouldn't you be able to easily distinguish when to use "your' and "you're" in a sentence correctly?

Woooooo...you got me, because you know writers never do anything like that This is EF, I don't grammar or spell check. No one pays me to write here, unless you want to get your checkbook out--but I doubt you could afford me..

 

[Paulo]

Not a virgin for long. Another woman who wants to be devirginized by me. So many woman so little time. I guess you cannot relate.

okay.

seeing as I have little interest in deflowering virgins, you are right, I cannot relate.

Anyways, so you're the dude that parks his IROC outside the middle school looking for fresh meat.

 

[avenirup]

intimacy and caring and trust may not happen in EVERY marriage, but it happens in mine, and it's certainly NOT going to happen in the sort of "relationship" you engage in.

My apologies, I always thought you were a guy. I am sure you think that your marriage has all those things, but he is probably just lying to you.

And there is no way I can believe that you're actually that charming in real life, when you're this much of an goon online. My impression is that all this bluster is to cover up the fact that you stutter, you're either fat or skinny, with acne, bad clothes, and a really little wee wee.

What because I am honest. I am actually very charming...and much like your marriage you have the wrong impression of me. I have really good skin, not fat or skinny, really good clothes and sense of style (I would imagine a pair of pants I buy would probably be half you car payment), above average wee wee. So sugarbear, you are way off. If you ever are in Philly and need a real man, look me up..

 

[avenirup]

okay.
seeing as I have little interest in deflowering virgins, you are right, I cannot relate.

I was talking about ever in your lifetime....but I still doubt you could relate.

Anyways, so you're the dude that parks his IROC outside the middle school looking for fresh meat.

Actually it is a 350z and I prefer high schools....

 

[chesty]

If you cheat you have killed the relationship period. Whether or not they know. And if found out you had better do what you can to repair the damage. finding out you have been cheated on is equivelant to being raped at gunpoint from one study that I have read on cheating and the consequences.

No, I will never repeat that one incident from my past, ever again.

 

[wend]

My apologies, I always thought you were a guy. I am sure you think that your marriage has all those things, but he is probably just lying to you.





What because I am honest. I am actually very charming...and much like your marriage you have the wrong impression of me. I have really good skin, not fat or skinny, really good clothes and sense of style (I would imagine a pair of pants I buy would probably be half you car payment), above average wee wee. So sugarbear, you are way off. If you ever are in Philly and need a real man, look me up..

I have every confidence that he's not lying to me, unlike my confidence in YOUR honesty, little one.

And I have a real man...the kind that doesn't cheat. He's way generous in bed, he's massively muscular (unlike you, I'm sure), he's intelligent (a doctor, in fact), and he's a funny guy who loves to make me laugh.

The big question in my mind is why you feel the need to cheat. Does your ego need that much fortification that you've got to get new stuff all the time to bolster your underlying lack of confidence?

You may think that you're real macho to be "pleasing" all these women you say you "explore," but the real challenge is to actually please just one woman, for good. You couldn't do that, I bet, because you're too insecure to keep it in your pants. And something tells me that your personality wouldn't let a woman with any brains hang around long enough for you to try.

And btw, if you're hanging around high schools to scam on girls, I hope you get caught and prosecuted for statutory rape.

 

[velvett]

I think people should look at why they remain in certain relationships and/or certain types of relationships.

 

[Dial_tone]

I'm in a relationship where monogamy is appreciated but not really owed.

 

[tuc biscuit]

why are you being such a dick avinerup?

 

[avenirup]

I have every confidence that he's not lying to me, unlike my confidence in YOUR honesty

Tell yourself that if it makes you sleep better.

And I have a real man...the kind that doesn't cheat.

I am sure all those long hours are actually caring for patients..

He's way generous in bed, he's massively muscular (unlike you, I'm sure), he's intelligent (a doctor, in fact)

I prefer not be massively muscular-I think it is unattractive...but if you like it-good for you. Being a doctor doesn't impress me...wow he can read books and take tests, which = good memory, not intellgence...

The big question in my mind is why you feel the need to cheat. Does your ego need that much fortification that you've got to get new stuff all the time to bolster your underlying lack of confidence?

Read bluepeter's post that I quoted earlier. Not lack of confidence--I just need more choices. I get tired of all things very easy--not just partners.

And something tells me that your personality wouldn't let a woman with any brains hang around long enough for you to try.

Doing you really think I talk to woman I am dating like this???? Get real......You have no idea what my personality is like when I am not on EF. Whatever that thing is that tells you things is wrong....it is probably the same thing that tells you your husband is faithful. Actually most woman I date a very smart and successful.

if you're hanging around high schools to scam on girls, I hope you get caught and prosecuted for statutory rape.

That was sarcasm and by the way the legal age in PA is 17--so high schools are all good. Don't you have to go make dinner for the good doctor--which I would assume is now apart of your job....

 

[avenirup]

I think people should look at why they remain in certain relationships and/or certain types of relationships.

 

[avenirup]

why are you being such a dick avinerup?

The turth hurts sometime Tuc-I am not being a dick and why do you even care what I say-I already know you don't agree...

 

[Paulo]

I'm just happy that the honor hath been bestowed upon me being qouted in someone elses sig!

My life is complete now.

 

[wend]

You're right that some doctors are simply good at memorizing things, but Majutsu, as many here know, is also intelligent. And we've got it too good for him to cheat...if he wants something "different," he knows I'm game for just about anything that two humans can do with each other!

What makes me have to laugh at you, Av, is that you started this poll in the first place, obviously in hopes of having your belief that everyone cheats verified. When you were proven wrong, you simply changed the rules ("those who say no are lying").

I think you're mental.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

I think you're mental.

You make this sound like a bad thing

 

[avenirup]

if he wants something "different," he knows I'm game for just about anything that two humans can do with each other!

It (meaning you as a person) still gets old after so long.

What makes me have to laugh at you, Av, is that you started this poll in the first place, obviously in hopes of having your belief that everyone cheats verified. When you were proven wrong, you simply changed the rules ("those who say no are lying").

I was just bored sweetlips...that's all. You know kinda like you must be being a stay at home wife. And now you are also starting to bore me.

I think you're mental.

Just because you are married to a doctor (for money I am sure), doesn't mean you can diagnose people.

 

[wend]

I feel sorry for the people in your life, Av.

 

[avenirup]

I feel sorry for the people in your life, Av.

Actually, all the people in my life are well taken care of. Maybe I will just go marry a doctor, sit on my ass all day and wait for her to come home and F me......

 

[wend]

Actually, when I got engaged to Maj we were in college. I had no idea he'd end up to be a doctor. It's what I get for saying I'd never marry one. It's not all it's cracked up to be, believe me, but he's worth it.

 

[randyjones]

cheating is not ok.But it's not all black and white.I have been with my gf for 4 years and never cheated at all.The about a month ago I met one of my girlfriends younger sisters "23".After just talking we hit it off right away.it was this strange connection.We were all at the beach so after a few hours I ask her to follow me up to the bathroom area and before saying anything we just started kissing.It felt so right.Im a 27 yr old white guy and she is a 23 yr old puerto ricon girl.I got her number and called and one night that week we met at her house and after a while we slept togther and it was great.Now the next day I was filled with all these mixed emotions.I felt guilty about doing this to my girlfriend and great about this new girl that has my world spinning.Now I don't know what to do.Im not being fair to either girl right now.I think I love them both and the are like night and day.I have to say the new girl has brought a lot of joy to my life but i still love my girlfriend.I don't condone the cheating this other guy is talking about but I am doing a bad thing.I am so confused.What if you were ment to be with lots of different lovers in your life? This whole situation has me asking myself all these questions about life.When I look into this girls eyes I feel fire.We connect without talking.I have no idea what im going to do? I feel terrible and great at the same time.It's giving me an ulcer.Plus im on 750 mgs of test so that doesn't help anything.

 

[avenirup]

cheating is not ok.But it's not all black and white.I have been with my gf for 4 years and never cheated at all.The about a month ago I met one of my girlfriends younger sisters "23".After just talking we hit it off right away.it was this strange connection.We were all at the beach so after a few hours I ask her to follow me up to the bathroom area and before saying anything we just started kissing.It felt so right.Im a 27 yr old white guy and she is a 23 yr old puerto ricon girl.I got her number and called and one night that week we met at her house and after a while we slept togther and it was great.Now the next day I was filled with all these mixed emotions.I felt guilty about doing this to my girlfriend and great about this new girl that has my world spinning.Now I don't know what to do.Im not being fair to either girl right now.I think I love them both and the are like night and day.I have to say the new girl has brought a lot of joy to my life but i still love my girlfriend.I don't condone the cheating this other guy is talking about but I am doing a bad thing.I am so confused.What if you were ment to be with lots of different lovers in your life? This whole situation has me asking myself all these questions about life.When I look into this girls eyes I feel fire.We connect without talking.I have no idea what im going to do? I feel terrible and great at the same time.It's giving me an ulcer.Plus im on 750 mgs of test so that doesn't help anything.

So that would be a YES vote....karma to you for telling the truth....

 

[chesty]

So, you cheated on your gf and now you are dealing with your conscience. Check this out. That is what my wife did to me. She had all these mixed feelings and then finally decided I was a real big dick for telling her I loved her and wanted her to stay, so she wants the other guy. 6 weeks and she is in love with him and wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire. 6 weeks vs 17 years of being together good and bad. Well, that is why the call it falling in love. You fall in and you fall out.

You reap what you sow. And as I have reaped so shall she. Get it? Cheating leads you to no where but pain and anger and a total mistrust of the entire human race.