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Do you always make eye contact?

Frisky

Frisky

~QUEEN BITCH~
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You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
 
redguru said:
Maybe it's because they were staring at your tits and are embarrased.
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LOL

maybe so
 
I agree, with you, eye contact is a simple courtesy just like a smile or a “good morning”. You live here in California, people are basically very polite.




However when lifting I never make eye contact or speak with anyone, different circumstances, and focus.
 
I always make eye contact, but for different reasons depending on the situation. It shows confidance but also respect. Nobody wants to talk with someone that is looking everywhere but at you.

I don't stare though because I frigin hate that. I find most people when you look into their eyes....they grow vvveeerrryyyy sssllleeeeppppyyyy. :)
 
solidspine said:
I agree, with you, eye contact is a simple courtesy just like a smile or a “good morning”. You live here in California, people are basically very polite.




However when lifting I never make eye contact or speak with anyone, different circumstances, and focus.
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I agree lifting is different... once I'm with the iron thats my focus. Sometimes I'm so zoned I think they think I'm wacked LOL
 
rykertest said:
I always make eye contact, but for different reasons depending on the situation. It shows confidance but also respect. Nobody wants to talk with someone that is looking everywhere but at you.

I don't stare though because I frigin hate that. I find most people when you look into their eyes....they grow vvveeerrryyyy sssllleeeeppppyyyy. :)
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exactly, confidence and respect. Just like a hand shake tells alot about a person. The way you walk or your posture... etc. I was also taught to shake a person hand with both my hands. Sounds weird I know, but was taught that it shows a sense of warmpth and hospitality and that you are genuine.
 
It depends. Sometimes I'll walk right past people and not really even notice. Sometimes I'll nod, and if it's a hot chic I'll do this :licker: but like I said it depends on my mindstate at the time and how many people are in the area I'm walking through. The more people, the less likely I am to pay attention to any of them.
 
I make eye contact with all dudes as a sign of respect and to show I ain't to be messed with and as for women. I make a short eye contact and then look down. It is a southern thing and I can't do anything about it cause my mother taught me to never stare at a lady. If I didn't do it she would slap me from the grave I am sure.
 
solidspine said:
I agree, with you, eye contact is a simple courtesy just like a smile or a “good morning”. You live here in California, people are basically very polite.




However when lifting I never make eye contact or speak with anyone, different circumstances, and focus.
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Did you say people in CA are very polite? It must be different in Kal-eeh-fornia than when I lived there. Nothing but pricks EVERYHWERE. I'm used to southern hospitality though so that may be it.
 
rykertest said:
Did you say people in CA are very polite? It must be different in Kal-eeh-fornia than when I lived there. Nothing but pricks EVERYHWERE. I'm used to southern hospitality though so that may be it.
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lol Have you been to New Jersey? I hate it here.


Anyway, I never look at anyone. Too many people around to waste my time. You get nothing in return anyway. I tried but it sucks. On the other hand, when travekling to other states than NJ, I've found people genuinly nice and I'm the same way back. Makes you want to.... look up and see them, and smile.
 
SOME insecure guys consider male eye to eye contact as being "geigh".
 
Tres Huevos said:
I make eye contact with all dudes as a sign of respect and to show I ain't to be messed with and as for women. I make a short eye contact and then look down. It is a southern thing and I can't do anything about it cause my mother taught me to never stare at a lady. If I didn't do it she would slap me from the grave I am sure.
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your momma "raised you right".
 
I was raised to look people in the eye when making contact, it's just plain good manners. It also shows that you are aware of your surroundings and confindent type of person who embraces life not shrugg away from it
 
Frisky said:
You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
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If you did that to me in the grocery store I would think you wanted me! It is wierd looking at people in cars at the stoplight. Interesting question.
 
CO B-man said:
If you did that to me in the grocery store I would think you wanted me! It is wierd looking at people in cars at the stoplight. Interesting question.
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LOL

I guess, I don't just stare over at them but I am always aware of my surronding and I notice little things like that.
 
i like this question. i think about eye contact a lot. i do that often enough, because i'm curious. i'm always looking at other people, and eye contact creates a momentary connection of some kind. i prefer to look at women, naturally. however, it's not usually natural or comfortable for me, and i often look away after a split second.

this is something that i 'work on'. it is a question of confidence, certainly. i don't, however, consider any of this in terms of respect or courtesy.
 
the closer I am to whom I'm attracted to,the more I emphasize eye contact
 
jackangel said:
i like this question. i think about eye contact a lot. i do that often enough, because i'm curious. i'm always looking at other people, and eye contact creates a momentary connection of some kind. i prefer to look at women, naturally. however, it's not usually natural or comfortable for me, and i often look away after a split second.

this is something that i 'work on'. it is a question of confidence, certainly. i don't, however, consider any of this in terms of respect or courtesy.
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the respect and courtesy part more comes in during a conversation.
 
Women get lost in my eyes. I'm so, so sorry to say that.
 
tits and ass are relatively easy to get
to get a frame of reference you need to make eye contact
split seconds work well
 
Seriously, I'm almost blind so looking from afar or whatever means nothing to me, but when I'm close to a woman, like in bed with her, looking in her eyes, or just before I kiss her, THEN the eyes have it. or Just talking really close, intimately, smiling, talking, eyes making all these weird jestures at each other, almost making love to each other with your eyes, that's cool.


but nope, no eye contact for Hector on Main avenue on my way to Home Depot in the morning. He's probably married anyway.
 
i want a mind to bond with
proving to be a difficult assignment given my pre-requisites
 
i dominate people with eye contact. once they look away, you own them. seems around downtown the Bro's are the only ones who will give you eye contact or a nod. very interesting.
 
Frisky said:
You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
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I do the same thing.
 
Frisky said:
You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
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nope. I almost never do. It's not comfortable for me.
 
I have no problum looking into some ones eyes.if iam staring at some one and they catch me I just stare even more.or say something like ya I was looking at you want a prize.lol
 
In passing I'll glance at a person and give a nod. Full on eye contact is reserved as a sign of respect in my opinion. If you are talking to me and I don't maintain eye contact then I don't want to be talking to you.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
in normal conversation, i make regular eye contact, but always look away at regular intervals. for me, sustained eye contact is an intense and intimate thing. i would only want that with someone that i'm attracted to and out on a date with, for example. then, my eyes are pretty much locked on hers. it becomes easy, because i can't get enough of it.
 
I like to make eye contact when I pull out jizz all over her face....she don't like it so much.
 
jackangel said:
in normal conversation, i make regular eye contact, but always look away at regular intervals. for me, sustained eye contact is an intense and intimate thing. i would only want that with someone that i'm attracted to and out on a date with, for example. then, my eyes are pretty much locked on hers. it becomes easy, because i can't get enough of it.
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that was very romantic.
 
in this day and age you dont know if you make eye contact with them, if they think your inviting them to something, like a rape or carjack, i dont know. The human race has changed alot lately. i dont trust any of them
I watch oprah, i try to be aware of my surroundings when im out and about, especially by myself. i want to carry mace, but im afraid ill spray someone that is just innocent lol
 
step@half said:
I was raised to look people in the eye when making contact, it's just plain good manners. It also shows that you are aware of your surroundings and confindent type of person who embraces life not shrugg away from it
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Good post, my sentiments exactly. Now, what if they have a wondering eye? This always fucks me up. Which one do you look at? I always go to the bad for some reason. I try to tell myself, just look at their nose. But I always seem to drift to the bad eye :worried:
 
Dial_tone said:
I like to make eye contact when I pull out jizz all over her face....she don't like it so much.
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her face look like a glazed donut
 
SoKlueles said:
in this day and age you dont know if you make eye contact with them, if they think your inviting them to something, like a rape or carjack, i dont know. The human race has changed alot lately. i dont trust any of them
I watch oprah, i try to be aware of my surroundings when im out and about, especially by myself. i want to carry mace, but im afraid ill spray someone that is just innocent lol
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I feel totally different on this situation. If you are walking thru a parking lot and put your head down, show non awareness of your surrondings... then you are a predator's easy target. If you show awareness, look them straight in the eye and make sure that they know that you see them than the chance that you are a target is slimmer... not that they still won't attack.. because thats unpredictable.
 
Frisky said:
You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
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shave the mustache
 
SoKlueles said:
in this day and age you dont know if you make eye contact with them, if they think your inviting them to something, like a rape or carjack, i dont know. The human race has changed alot lately. i dont trust any of them
I watch oprah, i try to be aware of my surroundings when im out and about, especially by myself. i want to carry mace, but im afraid ill spray someone that is just innocent lol
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btw... Oprah prolly has 10 body guards surronding her, she knows nada about being alone walking thru a parking lot and having to confront people. Don't trust oprah ;)
 
I like to hold eye contact as I choke the life out of someone. The full range of emotions shows like a short film in their eyes.
 
jnevin said:
I like to hold eye contact as I choke the life out of someone. The full range of emotions shows like a short film in their eyes.
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me too... tee hee

:evil:

Eye contact is a very weird thing actually. You ever even try to make total eye contact and keep it with an animal? I do this to my little pooch often, she gets real defensive and either shys away or barks at me. LOL
 
Frisky said:
me too... tee hee

:evil:

Eye contact is a very weird thing actually. You ever even try to make total eye contact and keep it with an animal? I do this to my little pooch often, she gets real defensive and either shys away or barks at me. LOL
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That's a battle I always lose with mine. When he wants something, he'll come up and nudge me and just look me dead in the eye. For a 100 lb dobie, he can look oddly like a baby deer when he wants to turn it on. I look away, he gets right in my face until I let him out, give him a treat, a wang and peanut butter popsicle, whatever. Yep, he's spoiled.
 
Frisky said:
You know sitting at the red light, walking past someone in the parking lot at the grocery store, gas station... etc? I tend to be an eye contact person, not for intimidation puposes but I was taught to keep my head high and look a person in the eye to show confidence and awareness. I find that beit where I am... usually sitting in the car at a red light and just look over and see someone looking at me, I make it a pt to make direct eyecontact with them and at least 90% of the time they immediately look away.

I don't think I look mean or anything so I'm not sure if its just that some people are uncomfortable looking people in the eye or not.
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fucking flirt :p
 
Frisky said:
I feel totally different on this situation. If you are walking thru a parking lot and put your head down, show non awareness of your surrondings... then you are a predator's easy target. If you show awareness, look them straight in the eye and make sure that they know that you see them than the chance that you are a target is slimmer... not that they still won't attack.. because thats unpredictable.
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I agree with you on this one....cept, if you look at them too long the wheebie geebies set in and it becomes uncomfy.

If you'd just walk around in a ninja suit I'm pretty sure you're clear on being attacked. I'm just sayin'...
 
Sometimes if an ugly chick is checking me out I'll pretend she isnt there so she doesnt get the wrong idea.
 
jnevin said:
That's a battle I always lose with mine. When he wants something, he'll come up and nudge me and just look me dead in the eye. For a 100 lb dobie, he can look oddly like a baby deer when he wants to turn it on. I look away, he gets right in my face until I let him out, give him a treat, a wang and peanut butter popsicle, whatever. Yep, he's spoiled.
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Its ( and I trained dogs for 6 years, one that was 120lbs) an act of dominance when it comes to animals. I treat ALL my animals with respect and love, but they know who is their master. All I had to do is 'look' at my GS, and he would do as I commanded. I took some classes thru a local guy that trained GS's for the police force and they paid off. At any given time either of those 3 dogs could have torn me apart, but they respected me.
 
habitualhealth said:
I agree with you on this one....cept, if you look at them too long the wheebie geebies set in and it becomes uncomfy.

If you'd just walk around in a ninja suit I'm pretty sure you're clear on being attacked. I'm just sayin'...
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LOL

I tend to never look away first, dunno... i'm anal about that
 
This is an interesting question. I generally make eye contact and smile widely and bow my head as a means of greeting and acknowlegement (I am VERY old fashioned). But because I have been beaten so many times if it is a man I tend to look down out of fear.

My sister chastizes me for this all the time but she doesnt know what it is like to be me.
 
habitualhealth said:
perhaps you're the one we should be worried about... :worried:
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LOL

Its not about dominace for me, (when it comes to mortals) it's about being aware of whom is around me. I was once followed around target by three guys, all whom I turned and staired straight in the eyes, made sure I had complete description of each and ever one of them right down to eye color. I kept my head up and walked with confidence... then I went over to the sporting good section, bought a metal bat, biggest one I could find and then walked out into the parking lot, loaded my car with my goods and went on my way. :evil:

A preditor can sense weakness, believe it or not... by the way you walk, stand, look, etc. Your strength and overall is how you carry yourself.
 
Frisky said:
LOL

Its not about dominace for me, (when it comes to mortals) it's about being aware of whom is around me. I was once followed around target by three guys, all whom I turned and staired straight in the eyes, made sure I had complete description of each and ever one of them right down to eye color. I kept my head up and walked with confidence... then I went over to the sporting good section, bought a metal bat, biggest one I could find and then walked out into the parking lot, loaded my car with my goods and went on my way. :evil:

A preditor can sense weakness, believe it or not... by the way you walk, stand, look, etc. Your strength and overall is how you carry yourself.
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attacker
 
Frisky said:
A preditor can sense weakness, believe it or not... by the way you walk, stand, look, etc. Your strength and overall is how you carry yourself.
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Of this I am well-aware. If my children were in danger or even if it were my gf (who could wrassle most men to the ground LOL) I would have no trouble defending them. But for me... I just can't do it. I would cower and yield and just hope they wouldnt kill me so that I could live to see another day with my loved ones.
 
habitualhealth said:
attacker
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LOL

I'd have busted some serious nuts and what ever else my bat could hit. I'm not shy about picking up something and f**king a sob up if he's attacking me. I'm a hateful lil shit.. teehee
 
habitualhealth said:
oh i'm with you on that...i'd break all kinds of psycho ugly on tha mofo.


....nothing different from how i treat my men really.
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me either.... gotta get that act right out of them ;)
 
I for sure give eye contact and teach my son to make eye contact. I was brought up it is a sign of respect also...like you are actually listening to them. Now, just walking in local store or something, I tend not to but only because I never want to run into any of my customers. Sounds horrible but when I am not at work I don't want to discuss business.
 
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