Do some men make a choice to be gay or are they born that way?

[needtogetaas]

I agree with everything you've said so far but think that homosexuality is more of a psychological thing than physical still. That said i don't think it's a choice...it's obvious that it's not a choice, you can't choose what you're attracted to.

Like you said, i don't think it's genetic, i think it's just learned behaviour like all attraction is really. I'm more attracted to women with nice toned calves and prefer brunettes over blondes but it's just a psychological thing really, none of that was in my genes. All that's in my genes is how my body was developed. I learnt how to behave from my environment when i grew up.

thanks for proving my point.being gay dos effect other people..

 

[jd_uk]

no but let me let you in on a secret..........taking it in the arse can lead to colon cancer and it is most commanly found in men! so lung cancer ass cancer what is the difference???? besides being 2 different organs being attacked it is still cancer

*Covers eyes in disbelief*

Come on don't be as stupid as needtogetas. Are you his alter or something?

Did you know that a hell of a lot of women like anal sex these days? I know my girlfriend does. I'm also pretty sure that it's not related to colon cancer - one of my best friends dad is a consultant surgeon dealing with colon cancer and i've discussed that before.

Did you also know that a lot of gay men don't have anal sex?

Seriously don't talk so much shit. You're wasting your life.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I agree with everything you've said so far but think that homosexuality is more of a psychological thing than physical still. That said i don't think it's a choice...it's obvious that it's not a choice, you can't choose what you're attracted to.

Like you said, i don't think it's genetic, i think it's just learned behaviour like all attraction is really. I'm more attracted to women with nice toned calves and prefer brunettes over blondes but it's just a psychological thing really, none of that was in my genes. All that's in my genes is how my body was developed. I learnt how to behave from my environment when i grew up.

it is not genetic at all.....its all in the mind (psychological).....like hid said.......i dont believe that any of this crap..such as homosexuality,alcoholism,murder,suicide,etc as being genetic......it is from what these people learn...if i have a child and go around robbing banks,killing people, am a bull dyke,and drink all day daily chances are my child will think that my negative behavior is normal and at one point in life they will persue it.....NO not all of it but they will get bits and pieces and they will not realize that it is bad untill it is too late.....

 

[jd_uk]

thanks for proving my point.being gay dos effect other people..

Right.

 

[jd_uk]

it is not genetic at all.....its all in the mind (psychological).....like hid said.......i dont believe that any of this crap..such as homosexuality,alcoholism,murder,suicide,etc as being genetic......it is from what these people learn...if i have a child and go around robbing banks,killing people, am a bull dyke,and drink all day daily chances are my child will think that my negative behavior is normal and at one point in life they will persue it.....NO not all of it but they will get bits and pieces and they will not realize that it is bad untill it is too late.....

CAN YOU READ?

 

[Cutiebaby]

*Covers eyes in disbelief*

Come on don't be as stupid as needtogetas. Are you his alter or something?

Did you know that a hell of a lot of women like anal sex these days? I know my girlfriend does. I'm also pretty sure that it's not related to colon cancer - one of my best friends dad is a consultant surgeon dealing with colon cancer and i've discussed that before.

Did you also know that a lot of gay men don't have anal sex?

Seriously don't talk so much shit. You're wasting your life.

ok here is a great idea you need to talk to another professional then come back and let me know what he says..in the fucking mean while i will go and research this debate and post up some helpful links to you.....and yes i know fems take it in the ass as well...and no i am not needtos alter...and no he is not stupid i am his wife you dumb fuck....thank you tho...
so you want to have this huge debate about faggotry i will post up as many helpful links as i can find...then you can try your hardest to fight with that....
and FYI incase you were wondering super man we are not against homosexuals..in fact i have a second cousin who is flamin and is awesome...the only gay person in my family as far back as any one knows...SO WHERE THE FUCK DOES GENETICS COME IN?????
I will be back with some links, feel free to do the same seeings how you need to feel correct...
i bet you are the type of person who has to argue constantly with people just to feel fullfilled...even though you dont know your facts........

 

[chesty]

no but let me let you in on a secret..........taking it in the arse can lead to colon cancer and it is most commanly found in men! so lung cancer ass cancer what is the difference???? besides being 2 different organs being attacked it is still cancer

How did you figure that one out? that means all them girls out there are gonna get colon cancer?

 

[seizer]

I dont really know for sure. For those who think it develops over time and it's a choice, why do you say this? Like, you're reasoning.

I always did like the age old question, if this then why? Explain if you proclaim.

Like I said, I dont really know for sure.

 

[jd_uk]

How did you figure that one out? that means all them girls out there are gonna get colon cancer?

Exactly. I bet there are more women taking it in the ass these days than men. So even if it were proven that anal sex causes cancer (which i very much doubt it will be) then that's no argument for saying being gay is harmful.

 

[Cutiebaby]

http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/homosexuality/ho0075.html

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=PubMed&list_uids=2821396&dopt=Abstract

http://www.cwfa.org/articledisplay.asp?id=3521&department=CFI&categoryid=cfreport