Do I have the right to be uneasy/ and or upset?

[ricco561]

So I talked to him today, he sent me nasty messages last night because I didn't call to say goodnite. Then he told me he's allowed to hang out with Kyle but I'm not because it's not right for me to hang out with another guy alone. He is assuming we're back together.

So it gets even weirder. I realized we left some stuff at the beach when we were there this weekend. It's 40 mins from here, but an old ex of mine (5yrs ago) lives down the same street. I told him I would call him to go check and see if it was there and he freaked out because he doesn't think I should be able to talk to my ex. I didn't want a wasted trip if the stuff wasn't there anymore. He sent me some nasty messages and blah blah, and he ended up driving out there to get my stuff. He found it.

He just sent me a text. This is the conversation:

Tim: Whatcha doin?
Rach: Just got home from the gym, running and out later for a bit.
Tim: Where out to?
Rach: To meet with some friends
Tim: Anybody I know?
Rach: Nope
Tim: I see
Rach: I will call you tomorrow I have to get moving and go run
Tim: No need.

I don't even have plans tonight, just not dealing with him.

I would say possessive and a future stalker.
And I concur with the Bi.
And Razorguns has a good point.

 

[mustang_00]

he's cheating on you... with a dude...


now

 

[Beachboy6294]

So I talked to him today, he sent me nasty messages last night because I didn't call to say goodnite. Then he told me he's allowed to hang out with Kyle but I'm not because it's not right for me to hang out with another guy alone. He is assuming we're back together.

So it gets even weirder. I realized we left some stuff at the beach when we were there this weekend. It's 40 mins from here, but an old ex of mine (5yrs ago) lives down the same street. I told him I would call him to go check and see if it was there and he freaked out because he doesn't think I should be able to talk to my ex. I didn't want a wasted trip if the stuff wasn't there anymore. He sent me some nasty messages and blah blah, and he ended up driving out there to get my stuff. He found it.

He just sent me a text. This is the conversation:

Tim: Whatcha doin?
Rach: Just got home from the gym, running and out later for a bit.
Tim: Where out to?
Rach: To meet with some friends
Tim: Anybody I know?
Rach: Nope
Tim: I see
Rach: I will call you tomorrow I have to get moving and go run
Tim: No need.

I don't even have plans tonight, just not dealing with him.

Way to much drama!!!

 

[ceo]

Here's the situation. Some of you know I was dating Tim, my photographer. Tim loves to get along with everybody and everybody loves him. He has a ton of friends, most of which are much younger than he (as am I). About a month or so ago I invited Tim to stop by for a drink on a Friday when I was out with some work people. I'm still relatively new, have been there since Feb. The CEO's son happened to be out that day, I don't know him well, he's 22, talks a lot, and has gotten himself into some trouble in our company but still works there. We have about 150 employees. Well Tim hit it off with him, they exchanged phone numbers, and have talked a bit. Now they are out for drinks? Kyle, the CEO's son tried to get me to go out when I was at the gym earlier, and then after, and I said nah, I'm going home and going for a run I won't have tim. (wouldn't have anyway). So he calls Tim? And Tim accepts?

I'm concerned for a few reasons. Tim is the spin instructor at one of my gyms, and goes in there and talks about me all the time. He has no filter to his mouth, he talks way too much about personal things, and I don't need the gym peeps knowing my business. Now he's talking to somebody else that's involved in my other "domain" so to speak. It sucks!

I just don't see the point.

Why you gotta drag me and my son into this, bish??

 

[ceo]

oh god, gym, pictures, nudes, CEO... bad wtf did I get myself into.

WTF??

 

[Cutiebaby]

Like that Tim and I went to the nude beach over the weekend.

So like you don't want people to know that you go to a nude beach but you dont mind people seeing you nude???

That is not a big deal at all. If it were something more serious than yeah that would be fucked up.Just ask Tim to keep your name out of his mouth, or better yet if he cannot be trusted to hold things confidential than find better!

 

[walliwalibus]

Guys rubbing pee pee's. Ah nothing to fear, just making him wear a watch and condom. Pfft, it could get you a little further in whatever it is you do. Enjoy yourself, don't let pee pee play bring ya down.

 

[pdaddyII]

I started reading your post and realized there were no nudes and stopped reading, so I have no idea what advice to give you.

+1

 

[pdaddyII]

On a side note I fucking hate Grand Rapids, the weather there sucks something horrible. I think they get three times the precipitation Detroit does. There isn't JACK SHIT to do there but go cruise 28th street like grazing cows looking for a place to eat...because that's all there is to do!

Oh wait, they have the B.O.B., located downtown...where "clubber's" gather to pretend they are high rollers and rock 12" cawks.

Frederick-Meyer's Gardens is alright though for the kiddies.

 

[RachelEFC]

On a side note I fucking hate Grand Rapids, the weather there sucks something horrible. I think they get three times the precipitation Detroit does. There isn't JACK SHIT to do there but go cruise 28th street like grazing cows looking for a place to eat...because that's all there is to do!

Oh wait, they have the B.O.B., located downtown...where "clubber's" gather to pretend they are high rollers and rock 12" cawks.

Frederick-Meyer's Gardens is alright though for the kiddies.

Agreed, not a whole lot going on around here.