do girls want a guy who worships them?

[PHATchik]

Lately, I have put a lot more thought into what I want in a guy. I've come to one conclusion. I don't know if I will ever be sure or satisfied. I don't want a bad boy. However, I want someone that will stand up to me and argue for what he thinks is right. I love a good argument. I want someone who will treat me with respect. I want someone who will expect as much of me as I expect from them. Do I want a guy that worships me? Hell no. I would get sick of it and lose respect for him. Not to say that I wouldn't want to be treated like a queen at times though.

Lately, my love life has come under heavy speculation from me and a few others. I thought I knew what I wanted. Hell, I even compared the last guy I was with to another guy that I had had feelings about for a long time. That's why things didn't work out for me and that guy. He didn't compare. I've realized that I need to put some things to rest before I ever try to move forward in my life and get involved with a guy in a serious relationship. Will I be able to do this? Yes. Eventually. Will it be anytime soon? Who the hell knows? I'm just deciding that I have put too much emphasis on certain aspects of my life, and it's time to get over that.

 

[Frackal]

And why you're sitting there figuring out what the hell you want you've left 2 guys (1 who is a friend of mine) broken in the dust ... I understand where you are coming from but FIGURE OUT WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT, THEN GO FIND IT! This applies to all women and men as well, but men normally have a better idea of what they want. Women are notorious for not knowing.

 

[PHATchik]

I never intended for people to get hurt. And btw, in the one that I just recently stopped seeing, I ended up getting more hurt than him. He's already moved on to greener pastures. As for the other that I left "broken in the dust", I never intended for that to happen. Trust me, if I knew how to fix that, I would. Frack, it's not my intention dammit to leave a trail of heartbroken guys. I'm not that much of a bitch despite what you might think of me now.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

And why you're sitting there figuring out what the hell you want you've left 2 guys (1 who is a friend of mine) broken in the dust ... I understand where you are coming from but FIGURE OUT WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT, THEN GO FIND IT! This applies to all women and men as well, but men normally have a better idea of what they want. Women are notorious for not knowing.

YOUNG AND THE RESTLESS PART II

 

[fistfullofsteel]

I never intended for people to get hurt. And btw, in the one that I just recently stopped seeing, I ended up getting more hurt than him. He's already moved on to greener pastures. As for the other that I left "broken in the dust", I never intended for that to happen. Trust me, if I knew how to fix that, I would. Frack, it's not my intention dammit to leave a trail of heartbroken guys. I'm not that much of a bitch despite what you might think of me now.

KARTCHICK, is that you

 

[PHATchik]

That's a first.

 

[Frackal]

I never intended for people to get hurt. And btw, in the one that I just recently stopped seeing, I ended up getting more hurt than him. He's already moved on to greener pastures. As for the other that I left "broken in the dust", I never intended for that to happen. Trust me, if I knew how to fix that, I would. Frack, it's not my intention dammit to leave a trail of heartbroken guys. I'm not that much of a bitch despite what you might think of me now.

A, I know that you are not a bitch, you are one of the better women I see on here. I was surprised to learn what happened between you two, but I know that I dont know the details also.

All I'm saying is just figure out what you are interested in, THEN go find it...easier said then done I realize, and I realize sometimes you have to gain experience by dating and breaking up to learn what it is you want as well. I just think most women really need to sit down and evaluate WHAT they really want before jumping into a relationship and then jumping out again out of the BLUE like many of you do. This is not difficult or impossible. I have not dated a huge variety of women but I do have a very good idea of what I want in a woman, while most women spend a very long time figuring that out.

I dont have much sympathy for the "oh but it's not our fault because we are women and that's how we are biologically" answer, because biologically men are not programmed to be faithful and monogamous either, so deal with it.

I like you A, I just think that when you make a decision like you did, have more respect for the man's feelings and display a bit of honor in your actions. Honor means you don't blindside someone out of the blue because your hormones shifted and now you're not sure what you want anymore..

I don't think many women understand the concept of honor.

 

[velvett]

hi im just curious all you girls out there is it true all girls want a guy to worship the ground you walk on ?

No way.

I want a guy that loves to deep sea dive and and is a highly experienced and successful diver.

Heh.


Rowwwwwwwwwwwwwwrrrbaby - make me scream...


I need an equal that good in the sac, laughs at my dumb jokes and will take out the trash while I do laundry.


That is all.

as you were.

thank you.

 

[big4life]

Re: Re: do girls want a guy who worships them?

No way.

I want a guy that loves to deep sea dive and and is a highly experienced and successful diver.

Heh.


Rowwwwwwwwwwwwwwrrrbaby - make me scream...


I need an equal that good in the sac, laughs at my dumb jokes and will take out the trash while I do laundry.


That is all.

as you were.

thank you.

yo, over here.
I like your jokes.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

I would only want a guy to "whorship" me, if I did the same for him..........

I hate cocky jerks, or any guy that plays hard to get