do girls want a guy who worships them?

[polarpixie]

*shudder*

Absolutely not...well not really. Adores, yes. Worships? No. I would not want a guy who thinks I can do no wrong or never stands up for himself or voice his true opinions because he doesn't want to make me mad. I've been there before, it's frustrating and it's boring. In order for a relationship to work, both people should view each other as equals in many different aspects, most importantly intellectually and emotionally. When one person in the relationship puts the other up on a pedestal, I think that you no longer learn, challenge, or stimulate the other person.

 

[PHATchik]

Frack, I honestly don't know what to say. I've never been called dishonorable before. I can't say that I am happy with the way I have acted in the past. Some things, I wish I could take back. But I can't. I think saying I have no respect for a man's feelings goes a bit far.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

I'm still a grimy nigga.

My words still hold true.

 

[natasan]

or any guy that plays hard to get

What's wrong with playing a little hard to get?

Guys shouldn't fall all over women at the drop of a hat - regardless of how hot they are. I like when women respect that some guys are worth working for.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

What's wrong with playing a little hard to get?

Guys shouldn't fall all over women at the drop of a hat - regardless of how hot they are. I like when women respect that some guys are worth working for.

Its one thing when someone is truly hard to get, but its another thing when they are "playing" that they are.......I can't stand that

 

[pigginsly]

There has to be an initial attraction...
Then try to find the beauty within...
See how deep it goes...

 

[Franco C]

True love is folly. If you ever have intense feelings for someone I can almost bet they do not feel the same way towards you. Sure they may have feelings but not the exact same type; We're not made to love, what we are made for is no longer in practice and those that do have a little more to worry about than love. If you want sex buy a prostitute, if you want love - skip some stones and watch a movie.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

True love is folly. If you ever have intense feelings for someone I can almost bet they do not feel the same way towards you. Sure they may have feelings but not the exact same type; We're not made to love, what we are made for is no longer in practice and those that do have a little more to worry about than love. If you want sex buy a prostitute, if you want love - skip some stones and watch a movie.

wow, thats a pretty sad way to look at it.......have to say I dissagree

 

[Franco C]

I used to optimistic, joyful, oblivious - happy... Oh, my happiness was almost the end of me, I woke up and am now, a product of my environment.

-franco

 

[PinK233]

Honestly, the reason I havent been in a very serious relationship is b/c I didn't know what I wanted in a man....I opted to date and learn through dating different kinds of guys what I wanted in a man when it came time to commit to someone...I feel that I've reached that point so hopefully I can find someone who will meet those needs...HOWEVER I don't want to be "worshipped" in the sense that the guy would agree with everything I say and constantly compliment me, because to me that isn't genuine...I'd rather hear compliments when theyre coming from the heart, not b/c the guy feels he has to.