Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below ON SAT IM AT MY NEW LADIES PAD ITS ABOUT 2:30 IN THE MORNING AND WE ARE TOGEATHER EVERYNIGHT WHEN HER EX-BOYFRIEND CALLS HER THEY ARE STILL FRIENDS BUT SHE SAID HE IS HAVING PROBLEMS EXCEPTING THAT SHE HAS MOVED ON AND HOW SERIOUS SHE IS WITH ME. ANYWAY SHE DOES'NT ANSWER THE PHONE AND MAYBE ABOUT 10 MIN LATER THERE IS A KNOCK AT THE DOOR NOW IM PISSED. WE KNOW ITS HIM SHE SAID HE IS DRUNK BECAUSE OF THE MESSAGE HE LEFT WELL THE GUY HAS NEVER SEEN ME BEFORE AND I THINK HE GOT A LITTLE LIQUID CORUAGE IN HIM AND THOUGHT HE WANTED TO CAUSE SOME DRAMA OR SCARE ME. SO I TELL HER TO ANSWER THE FUCKIN DOOR SO I CAN TALK TO HIM, SHE SAYS NO SHE DOES'NT WANT ANY DRAMA CAUSE HE IS DRUNK. WELL THE DUDE FUCKIN POUNDS ON THE DOOR AND THEN I LOSE IT I GO TO THE DOOR TELL HIM THROUGH THE DOOR THAT IM GONNA FUCKIN BEAT HIS ASS IF HE DOES'NT LEAVE AND THE IDIOT POUNDS ON THE DOOR SOME MORE. MY GIRL IS BETWEEN ME AND THE DOOR SO I CAN'T OPEN IT BUT WHEN HE SAID THAT I FUCKIN WENT INTO MY OLD WAYS AND REALLY LOST MY COOL WENT TO HER KITCHEN PULLED OUT A BUTCHER KNIFE AND WENT TO THE DOOR. MY GIRL WHO IS A PHYCOLOGIST DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO SHE HAS NEVER HAD SOMETHING LIKE THIS HAPPEN. I'M NOT THE TYPE TO SIT THERE AND HAVE SOME IDIOT POUND ON MY GIRLS DOOR. SHE GOT FREAKED OUT SAID WHEN I PUT THE KNIFE DOWN SHE'LL OPEN THE DOOR. SO I PUT THE KNIFE DOWN AND THEN SHE OPENED THE DOOR, YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN THE LOOK ON HOMEBOYS FACE WHEN HE SAW ME HE WENT FROM TOUGH GUY TO LITTLE BITCH IN A MATTER OF THE DOOR OPENING TO ME STANDING THERE IN JUST MY SHORTS. FIRST WORDS OUT OF HIS MOUTH WAS THERES NO TROUBLE WITH YOU MAN IM JUST HERE TO GET MY STUFF, SO I SAID TO THIS GUY GET WHATEVER YOU NEED TO GET GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE AND IF YOU CALL MY LADY AGAIN OR SHOW UP HERE I''L FUCKIN KILL YOU NEXT TIME AND SHE AGREED BUT I WAS REALLY PISSED HE WAS EVEN COMIN OVER AT HER TOO HE SAID OK GOT HIS SHIT AND LEFT. I WAS STILL PISSED AND NOW MAD AT HER I FELT LIKE SHE DID NOT LET ME TAKE CARE OF THE SITUATION THE RIGHT WAY BY NOT LETTING ME OPEN THE DOOR TO BEGIN WITH IT MADE ME FEEL LIKE A BITCH LIKE I COULD NOT PROTECT HER SO I WENT HOME PISSED OFF WE HAVE SINCE MADE UP BUT DID I HAVE ANY RIGHT TO BE MAD AT HER FOR NOT LETTING ME OPEN THE DOOR AND HANDLE THE SITUATION IN THE VERY BEGINING LIKE A MAN PROTECTING HIS LADY???
Did I Overreact??? Help
- Thread starter WIDELAT
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protecting his lady is one thing
flying off the handle and grabbing a knife is another....he handt posed that much of a threat to u other than harrasment right?
u were right in telling him to back the fuck off. 2.30 am is not an acceptable time to pull that shit. but a knife.....its a no-no.
i dunno.....u got the job done so i guess it all turned out right. but if she hadnt stpped u with the knife wha would have happened. i;d just bust out my cricket bat and have thatwhen i open the door
flying off the handle and grabbing a knife is another....he handt posed that much of a threat to u other than harrasment right?
u were right in telling him to back the fuck off. 2.30 am is not an acceptable time to pull that shit. but a knife.....its a no-no.
i dunno.....u got the job done so i guess it all turned out right. but if she hadnt stpped u with the knife wha would have happened. i;d just bust out my cricket bat and have thatwhen i open the door
You over reacted. (Can I have some karma).
Man, I would have pulled Mary's beads off and stomped them around. Then ran out and with a high pitched shriek, keyed the hell out of her car.
Don't worry about it. Hope your girl will forgive you. That was fucking bad on his part calling that late. He brought it on himself.
(can I have some karma?)
Man, I would have pulled Mary's beads off and stomped them around. Then ran out and with a high pitched shriek, keyed the hell out of her car.
Don't worry about it. Hope your girl will forgive you. That was fucking bad on his part calling that late. He brought it on himself.
(can I have some karma?)
vinylgroover
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I WOULD NOT HAVE LOST IT AT ALL UNTIL HE STARTED POUNDING ON THE DOOR LIKE HE WAS GONNA BRAKE IN THEN I GOT PISSED. I WOULD HAVE PUT IT TO HIS THROAT BUT I WOULD'NT HAVE CUT HIM UNLESS HE GOT CRAZY. YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER I DID NOT KNOW WHAT WAS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE DOOR I DID'NT HAVE MY 38 WITH ME I WAS TAUGHT ITS BETTER TO BE CAUGHT PREPARED THEN NOT PREPARED. SO THE WAY I WAS BROUGHT UP ( WITH THUGS) I PICTURED A BIG GUY PACKIN HEAT ON THER OTHER SIDE OF THE DOOR, EVEN THOUGH HE WAS A FAT COMPUTER GEEK WHO HAD NEVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE ME I STILL FELT LIKE I SHOULD HAVE MADE HIM SHIT HIS PANTS. TO TELL YOU ALL THE TRUTH I WOULD HAVE FELT MORE COMFOTABLE OPENING THE DOOR AND SHOVING MY GUN DOWN HIS THROAT AND ASKING HIM WHAT IS ALL THE POUNDING FOR. BUT I KNOW I CAN'T CARRY MY GUN ANYMORE I DON'T AND MY GILR WOULD PROBABLY NOT WANT TO SEE ME AFTER SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
Hmm
My first beau used to talk about me as *my girl* too so it hits a soft spot.
The knife was a bit much but no I think without that you didn't really over react. Hopefully you've been together long enough that she won't think you're just pre-over the edge.
Are you a leo by any chance?
That said I had to call the local village constable to have a drunk ex beau removed from my bedroom slider door. He too was wasted and wouldn't take no for an answer and the only reason the constable showed up was because he was a girlfriend husband.
My first beau used to talk about me as *my girl* too so it hits a soft spot.
The knife was a bit much but no I think without that you didn't really over react. Hopefully you've been together long enough that she won't think you're just pre-over the edge.
Are you a leo by any chance?
That said I had to call the local village constable to have a drunk ex beau removed from my bedroom slider door. He too was wasted and wouldn't take no for an answer and the only reason the constable showed up was because he was a girlfriend husband.
OK THEN I DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT IT THE KNIFE YEAH MAYBE A BIT MUCH BUT MOST MURDERS ARE DOMESTIC DISBUTES EX'S AND SHIT LIKE THAT AND WERE I WAS RAISED YOU DID'NT ANSWER THE DOOR WITHOUT SOMETHING IF YOU DID NOT KNOW WHO IT WAS. MORE A REACTION I THINK THEN ME LOSING MY COOL.
finabomber
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you overreacted bro...just check out this thread below....violence is not appreciated here....but the knife was kinda outta hand
http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=158264
Finabomber
http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=158264
Finabomber
ALRIGHT BUT DOES ANYONE THINK THAT I DID NOT KNOW WHAT THE PERSON ON THE OTHERSIDE OF THE DOOR LOOKED LIKE OR EVEN HAD IN HIS HAND ALL I KNEW WAS HE WAS DRUNK POUNDING ON THE DOOR TRYING TO WALK IN AND WAS AN EX BOYFRIEND I WAS THINKING OF MY SAFTEY AND OF MY GIRLS I THINK I SHOULD OF HAD A GUN AND THAT WOULD STILL BE JUSTIFIED CAUSE OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
theoak01
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i had something simalir happen,my girls ex keeps calling her inviting her out with him behind my back and she doesnt tell him to fuck off just says shes busy,and i totally lost it on her for that shit,and she hasnt told me but i heard from someone she works with that he goes in there alot,i know she isnt gonna do anything because he treated her like absolute shit but im pretty close to killing this fucker,and she knows it
i think you deserve to be mad,any normal person would be,just dont use weapons,use words and make him feel like a dumb fuck
i think you deserve to be mad,any normal person would be,just dont use weapons,use words and make him feel like a dumb fuck
THE REASON I GRABED THE KNIFE WAS WHEN HE STARTED POUNDING ON THE DOOR MY FIRST REACTION WAS DRUNK EX BOYFRIEND NEVER SEEN DON'T KNOW MANNERISM AND LOST HIS FINE GIRLFRIEND AND NOW SHE HAS A NEW BOYFRIEND= PHYSCO WITH GUN AND BOOZE IN HIM.
KNIFE= IF HE HAS SOMETHING WITH HIM I'M NOT STANDING THERE WITH JUST MY DICK IN MY HAND I WOULD IF OPENING THE DOOR AND HE HAD A GUN BE ABLE TO STAB HIM THREE OR FOUR TIMES BEFORE HE CAN GET HIS ARM UP AND A SHOT OFF.
I BELIEVE ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO THINK SOMEONE IS TRYING TO KILL YOU THEN YOUR NEVER CAUGHT OFF GAURD I'M ALWAYS ON MY TOES IN THOSE KINDA SITUATIONS.
KNIFE= IF HE HAS SOMETHING WITH HIM I'M NOT STANDING THERE WITH JUST MY DICK IN MY HAND I WOULD IF OPENING THE DOOR AND HE HAD A GUN BE ABLE TO STAB HIM THREE OR FOUR TIMES BEFORE HE CAN GET HIS ARM UP AND A SHOT OFF.
I BELIEVE ITS ALWAYS BETTER TO THINK SOMEONE IS TRYING TO KILL YOU THEN YOUR NEVER CAUGHT OFF GAURD I'M ALWAYS ON MY TOES IN THOSE KINDA SITUATIONS.
