Dear God make it stop

[theoak01]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

 

[KillahBee]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

oak, man - numbers 1-3 are far from luck. number 1 and 2 WILL ALWAYS BE PRESENT IN YOUR LIFE, so best start practicing ways to deal with the crap now or you're gonna have ulcers by age 30.

Sucks about your car, but hell, weird shit will happen like that again. Not muhc you can do but watch where you park it and maybe get some headlights that work, brother.

 

[theoak01]

oak, man - numbers 1-3 are far from luck. number 1 and 2 WILL ALWAYS BE PRESENT IN YOUR LIFE, so best start practicing ways to deal with the crap now or you're gonna have ulcers by age 30.

Sucks about your car, but hell, weird shit will happen like that again. Not muhc you can do but watch where you park it and maybe get some headlights that work, brother.

ya I guess the childish bullshit will be everywhere,I just expect a little more professionalism, just isnt gonna happen.

the car thing is just shit luck,the fuckin ground looked solid but wasnt at all,broad daylight and boom sunk, fucking construction sites.

I need a beer

 

[rudeboyja]

stop feeling sorry for yourself. If you are waiting for good shit to just happen, it won't. You have to make that shit happen. sounds like all your issues are minor. Seriously, do you think you will be sweatin this shit a year from now?

 

[velvett]

Dear god,

Hope you got the letter,
And I pray you can make it better down here.
I don’t mean a big reduction in the price of beer,
But all the people that you made in your image,
See them starving on their feet,
’cause they don’t get enough to eat

From god,
I can’t believe in you.

Dear god,
Sorry to disturb you,
But I feel that I should be heard loud and clear.
We all need a big reduction in amount of tears,
And all the people that you made in your image,
See them fighting in the street,
’cause they can’t make opinions meet,
About god,
I can’t believe in you.

Did you make disease, and the diamond blue?
Did you make mankind after we made you?
And the devil too!

Dear god,
Don’t know if you noticed,
But your name is on a lot of quotes in this book.
Us crazy humans wrote it, you should take a look,
And all the people that you made in your image,
Still believing that junk is true.
Well I know it ain’t and so do you,
Dear god,
I can’t believe in,
I don’t believe in,

I won’t believe in heaven and hell.
No saints, no sinners,
No devil as well.
No pearly gates, no thorny crown.
You’re always letting us humans down.
The wars you bring, the babes you drown.
Those lost at sea and never found,
And it’s the same the whole world ’round.
The hurt I see helps to compound,
That the father, son and holy ghost,
Is just somebody’s unholy hoax,
And if you’re up there you’ll perceive,
That my heart’s here upon my sleeve.
If there’s one thing I don’t believe in...

It’s you,
Dear god.

 

[velvett]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

Serious answer.

These are signs that you need to make changes in your life.

Imagine a large pebble on your car seat, you can feel it when you drive and while it's annoying to you, you do nothing about it and yet everyday you sit on that pebble and everyday it gets your attention and you do nothing about it.

Do you need to have a rock come through your windsheild to get or keep your attention?

This what you need to ask yourself.

Sit down and be honest with yourself what is troubling you and what you can change and if you can't change it - find out who or what can and how to get it done.

Take it step by step.

And while you are writing also write down what you want you want for your future and what you think you need to get there.

Also, give yourself timeline lines to make change.

Say I will do X by May 15 - Y by May 30, etc.
Having a goal date will have keep you on track and motivated.

If you miss the date, don't freak, set a new one.

Finish each item - don't leave anything open ended.

GOOD LUCK

 

[theoak01]

velvet coming through with great advice as usual, thanks darlin, I think your right, Im really fussy and need to like my job,if Im miserable at work then it spills over into my personal time,what little there is.

interview tomorrow morning at 9,Its for security at a bank only days during the week,Ill get a life back

 

[tinytank]

Serious answer.

These are signs that you need to make changes in your life.

Imagine a large pebble on your car seat, you can feel it when you drive and while it's annoying to you, you do nothing about it and yet everyday you sit on that pebble and everyday it gets your attention and you do nothing about it.

Do you need to have a rock come through your windsheild to get or keep your attention?

This what you need to ask yourself.

Sit down and be honest with yourself what is troubling you and what you can change and if you can't change it - find out who or what can and how to get it done.

Take it step by step.

And while you are writing also write down what you want you want for your future and what you think you need to get there.

Also, give yourself timeline lines to make change.

Say I will do X by May 15 - Y by May 30, etc.
Having a goal date will have keep you on track and motivated.

If you miss the date, don't freak, set a new one.

Finish each item - don't leave anything open ended.

GOOD LUCK

thats good advise !

 

[tinytank]

cheer up oak, honestly bro, we all have shitty points in our life. things will get better man..

as for shitty things that happend.. take today for instince


ok im at college like 35 mile away from home, anyway like after 2 hours at college i have to leave for a docs appointment. anyway after like almost 20 miles i pass a sign with todays date on it ! And i slammed on my brakes only to find out today is the 24th not the 25 th !! SHIT i had to drive back and phone my boss to tell him ive just wasted over an hour of his time !! and ill need a few hours off tomorrow ! he wasnt impressed

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

Don't feel bad bro. I've more or less had the first four happen in one day a while back, and as for #5, well, lets just say I had a job where a couple other guys and I did that purposely with a company work truck just so we'd have something cool to do the rest of the afternoon.
Although I'm sure your episode wasn't as fun, so.... ah hell bro I'm sorry I brought it up.

 

[biteme]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

All those things will pass bro! Except for assholes. You'll be dealing with those your whole life.

 

[EnderJE]

Here's one .... STOP FUCKING THE EX!

 

[StickFigure]

Here's one .... STOP FUCKING THE EX!

LMAO!! That reminds me of the scene in Liar Liar when he screams in the phone, "STOP BREAKING THE LAW...ASSHOLE!!!". :Flol:

 

[digimon7068]

I just finished the worst busy season of my life. My server died. . .twice. My notebook died. Software issues plagued me through out. For a full month, I worked everyday until about 2AM and got back up at 6AM to do it all over again in a vain attempt to get caught up. . .I failed. The only thing that kept me sane was hitting the gym 4 or 5 times a week and sneaking home at lunch time to tear one off with the little missus 4 or 5 times per week. . .stress sends my hormones through the roof!

Right now, I still feel like I'm on the edge of a breakdown. . .this past weekend I slept for 3 or 4 hours, a couple of times a day and I still slept 8 hours each night. On the bright side, my abs already look great (stress. . .natures original fat burner) and beach time is still almost two months away. . .every cloud has a silver lining.

 

[cboogsrun]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

I buy a couple hundred gallons of deisel a week. Its $3 a gallon again. My dump truck dropped the transmission going 55mph while I was driving. It fucked up everything underneath. Its taken 2 weeks to fix due to delivery problems. The truck only has 15k on it. So warrantee is good. Its rained for 2 days making work really fucking muddy and I've fallen down twice in a filfth of mud. The chip in my gmc 2500 hd duramax is acting up so I have to take it out. It improves my mpg about 6mpg. More fucking deisel. I'm trying to build a spec home, but my VA loan is taking forever. Last year I moved from a nice home to a prefabricated home, which is much smaller, while I wait on my VA loan to get approved so I can build a very nice home. I'll live in it for 2 years and sell it for capital gains. I had to trade my 2 cat skidsteer loaders in and lost over $60k in maintenance and depreciation. I just found out from my partner our material bill is over a 150k and they screwed up on prices. So now we have to fight over that. With all the rain my deadline to get my partners spec home finished before parade of homes this weekend is looking fucked. The good news is that I'm the asshole at work. LOL!

 

[theoak01]

I buy a couple hundred gallons of deisel a week. Its $3 a gallon again. My dump truck dropped the transmission going 55mph while I was driving. It fucked up everything underneath. Its taken 2 weeks to fix due to delivery problems. The truck only has 15k on it. So warrantee is good. Its rained for 2 days making work really fucking muddy and I've fallen down twice in a filfth of mud. The chip in my gmc 2500 hd duramax is acting up so I have to take it out. It improves my mpg about 6mpg. More fucking deisel. I'm trying to build a spec home, but my VA loan is taking forever. Last year I moved from a nice home to a prefabricated home, which is much smaller, while I wait on my VA loan to get approved so I can build a very nice home. I'll live in it for 2 years and sell it for capital gains. I had to trade my 2 cat skidsteer loaders in and lost over $60k in maintenance and depreciation. I just found out from my partner our material bill is over a 150k and they screwed up on prices. So now we have to fight over that. With all the rain my deadline to get my partners spec home finished before parade of homes this weekend is looking fucked. The good news is that I'm the asshole at work. LOL!

damn bro must suck,but I guess things will get better.

I spent all day playing with my little cousin and realized Im blessed with a great family and it made me appreciate the little things like him laughing carefree

 

[Razorguns]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

Yeah? Well i've been battling 5 losers on the board for 2 days now. That ain't shit bucko! Live in MY world!

 

[theoak01]

lol the board? cant say Ive ever been stressed from elite

 

[feisty11975]

Oak, just take it easy buddy! Things will get better!

 

[biteme]

Yeah? Well i've been battling 5 losers on the board for 2 days now. That ain't shit bucko! Live in MY world!

I'm racking em up myself. And just to think, people really thought I was the super nice type. I got it from my mom, I can be mean as hell when the other person starts it.

 

[HiDnGoD]

My life sucks. I'm 43.
That's it.

 

[HiDnGoD]

Just kidding. Oak, just know, however bad it gets, or good it gets, it's not permanent, so plan accordingly.
When you get a little older, your priorities will change & all this will be so unmentionably trivial, you'd laugh if you're reminded of it.
good luck, maing.

 

[theoak01]

thanks bro,I got a job interview tomorrow which could help get things in the right direction,then ill be in your neck of the woods 5 days a week working and we will have to get that coffee I owe ya

 

[HiDnGoD]

thanks bro,I got a job interview tomorrow which could help get things in the right direction,then ill be in your neck of the woods 5 days a week working and we will have to get that coffee I owe ya

Right on. Lookin forward to it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

Could be worse. You could have been e-rejected by one of the board's biggest losers.

 

[Maverick]

oak, man - numbers 1-3 are far from luck. number 1 and 2 WILL ALWAYS BE PRESENT IN YOUR LIFE, so best start practicing ways to deal with the crap now or you're gonna have ulcers by age 30.

Sucks about your car, but hell, weird shit will happen like that again. Not muhc you can do but watch where you park it and maybe get some headlights that work, brother.

ulcers are not caused by stress, they are caused by bacteria and genetics.

not being a dick, but thought I would mention it.

Oak relax and stop being a drama queen.

as long as you have your health, everything else is trivial

 

[cboogsrun]

damn bro must suck,but I guess things will get better.

I spent all day playing with my little cousin and realized Im blessed with a great family and it made me appreciate the little things like him laughing carefree

Yeah kids help. They are very innocent. Plus you can tell them to go say silly things to someone and they do it. Kids are just fun. I have a 4 year old so when I get home from work its play time.

 

[manny78]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

 

[blueta2]

My luck has been fucking horrible lately,I need other people to post the fucked up shit thats been happening to them lately so I dont feel so bad.

my list has been

1 getting stressed out from assholes at work
2 dealing with work and barely making it money wise
3 debt brining my down
4 my car gets dented when a fight happens at my second job then the mirror gets broke off later in the night
5 last night at work I drove on what I thought was solid ground,but it was loose gravel that was like quick sand and I sunk the car right down to the frame

fuck Im going nuts here

My 12 yrd niece is dying of an illness.....so your life is a vacation!
Put it in perspective. All your woes are fixable!

 

[theoak01]

they are,I just dont destress well anymore,ive lately been letting shit build up and then going off.

but Ive got my shit together now and am working at moving things in the direction I want.

so locker up hoss this thread is dead

 

[slat1]

I have low test. 302 ng/dl. I believe that takes the cake.

 

[DraytonsMuse]

My 12 yrd niece is dying of an illness.....so your life is a vacation!
Put it in perspective. All your woes are fixable!

Really sorry to hear that.There is nothing worse than when the children suffer.

 

[DraytonsMuse]

ulcers are not caused by stress, they are caused by bacteria and genetics.

not being a dick, but thought I would mention it.

Oak relax and stop being a drama queen.

as long as you have your health, everything else is trivial

That,and your family.As long as you have those two things,the rest is minor.