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Dear Britney lovers,

MattTheSkywalker said:
When I lived in Louisiana there was much that was not discussed. Kentwood, LA is not a classy place. This is not surprising.


Yep!

But hey.. she can dance :verygood:
 
gotmilk said:
Yeah...when he gets tired and bored of her crossed-eyes, he'll find a new sugar momma.
Kfudd can be exchanged.

Sperm donors can make great money in Los Angeles.
i seriously doubt that guy can hit the lottery twice in one lifetime
 
hamstershaver said:
i dont need 3 pages, just a sentence or two, and im not knocking you for your opinion, i just want to know why you have that opinion
or do you just think she is a trashy whore because as you just said, you dont like her


yea, and I'm extremely jealous of her too :verygood:


LOL
 
Spears has never really done it for me ,i've always liked the slutty looking Aguilera. :p

Either way if you take the makeup off of 90% of women and see them right after they get out of bed in the mornings it won't be much difference
from those pics of Britney.The difference is Britneys going out in public like that.
I have to agree with Velvet about her maybe being depressed.It very common for women to have postpartum depression after child birth.
 
KillahBee said:
God I bet she's a filthy little disease-ridden bag of filth in the sack though.

Every Louisiana woman is good in the sack bor. They're a different species from the nonsense and pretense one sees in the Northeast.

Take this advice:

Spend a night with a Louisiana girl - ideally a Cajun girl - but any Louisiana girl will do in a pinch. Better yet...the whole weekend.

Then, when you're with a girl from the NYC area, you'll probably want to stop, get up, go in the bathroom and finish yourself off, because after Louisiana girls, experience with NYC / NJ / CT / Long Island women will bore you to sleep.

Take my word on this. For real.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Every Louisiana woman is good in the sack bor. They're a different species from the nonsense and pretense one sees in the Northeast.

Take this advice:

Spend a night with a Louisiana girl - ideally a Cajun girl - but any Louisiana girl will do in a pinch. Better yet...the whole weekend.

Then, when you're with a girl from the NYC area, you'll probably want to stop, get up, go in the bathroom and finish yourself off, because after Louisiana girls, experience with NYC / NJ / CT / Long Island women will bore you to sleep.

Take my word on this. For real.

Well I'll be damned. I'm gonna have to keep this in mind.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Every Louisiana woman is good in the sack bor. They're a different species from the nonsense and pretense one sees in the Northeast.

Take this advice:

Spend a night with a Louisiana girl - ideally a Cajun girl - but any Louisiana girl will do in a pinch. Better yet...the whole weekend.

Then, when you're with a girl from the NYC area, you'll probably want to stop, get up, go in the bathroom and finish yourself off, because after Louisiana girls, experience with NYC / NJ / CT / Long Island women will bore you to sleep.

Take my word on this. For real.

lol
 
KillahBee said:
Well I'll be damned. I'm gonna have to keep this in mind.

You do. Because whatever it is you THINK you're doing with women in the Northeast...it's amateur hour.

I didn't believe it until I saw it. I MOVED to Cajun country...thus was the power of the spell I was under.

Be warned...but be adventurous.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
You do. Because whatever it is you THINK you're doing with women in the Northeast...it's amateur hour.

I didn't believe it until I saw it. I MOVED to Cajun country...thus was the power of the spell I was under.

Be warned...but be adventurous.

are you some sort of god?
 
Phaded said:
are you some sort of god?

If I am, I'm a weak one, because I could barely manage to escape Louisiana women.

I made it though.
 
Erzulie said:
Her younger sister won't be far behind her either... She's already imitating big sister.

You mean she also will become a mult-millionaire pop star by the time she is 21, will get married, settle down and have children?

What a loser.
 
Longhorn85 said:
You mean she also will become a mult-millionaire pop star by the time she is 21, will get married, settle down and have children?

What a loser.

No she'll just marry a loser like her sis.
 
Longhorn85 said:
You mean she also will become a mult-millionaire pop star by the time she is 21, will get married, settle down and have children?

What a loser.


:lmao:

Me saying I think Brittany is trashy has nothing to do with her being married with children. I said she was trashy years before she was married. Its my opinion!

There are plenty of trashy women that are married with children, So how does that statement fit here anyway?
 
How is she following in her sister's footsteps? We are all expressing opinion, that's a given. You don't seem to be able/willing to explain or elaborate on yours.
 
Longhorn85 said:
How is she following in her sister's footsteps? We are all expressing opinion, that's a given. You don't seem to be able/willing to explain or elaborate on yours.


lol

I said its my opinion, I'm not here to convince you to change your opinion.. You seem bored and you want to debate.

Read a few posts up, I'm jealous of her and all her money and I want her hot husband... Thats just how we women are.
 
Deterass said:
Lmao @ people saying shit like this who have no idea what those celebrities has done in the past.Anyone who's watched Paris on TV knows how dumb and slutty she acts but that doesn't mean she's had abortions.

Its people like you who get stupid ass rumors started.
First, I want to apologize for this loooooong and volatile post.

And what if a rumor got started? Whose career would get damaged? Aguilera or Paris?

Aguilera, who has great vocals...but threw that all away for her "whore" image to combat britney and jessica's "pure" (and hyppocritical) image?

Rumor-starting pales in comparison to what I would do to them in a lawless world for the sake of the embetterment of our society.

I think there's a couple things that got this thread stirred up. Mainly what most of us were complaining about was not her having children, but the whole trashiness of the situation...not to mention the hyppocritical nature of the whole thing. Plus, Erz, Matt, and I live close enough to hear stuff the media never talks about. And the reason we don't mention it is BECAUSE that would be rumor-starting. What I said before was just a hypothetical thing to put the hyppocrasy into perspective.

As for what Britney looks like, let's compare her with a woman that SHOULD be a role model for girls--Nicole Kidman...a woman that has had several children, is twice Britney's age, is not a native American, and whom survived a miscarriage and messy divorce to an A-list actor...only to keep going as a top actor in her own right and look BETTER than she did when her career begain (and all at a much lower cost than Britney). Compare that to Britney's over-produced and over-air brushed bullshit image, and you'll get a feel for why people like myself are irked over this sort of thing.

And people like Paris? There's no defense for worthless richy-bitch, talentless, gerbil-looking attention whores who waste air time when there are brilliant--yet less connected or whorish--actors out there trying to break through. Keep in mind that Paris....although wealthier than god....made a couple million from the porn tape. Why? She signed a release for it! SHE WANTED IT OUT!!!! She wanted the atttention and the money...just like every time she wrecks a car, flashes a tit, dates a new tool....to keep her otherwise meaningless 15 minutes going...and I have to see girls droning around like gucci-zombies going "that's hawt".

Now not all pop stars suck. Mandy Moore is naturally pretty...was brave enough to go back to her natural hair color...and has actually made some movies that don't gnaw at one's I.Q. like lake amoeba. But girls like her, Alicia Keys, etc....will always play second fiddle to sycophantic succubi that our culture latches onto.

Now, I'm done. Back to enjoying my time on here.
 
Longhorn85 said:
How is she following in her sister's footsteps? We are all expressing opinion, that's a given. You don't seem to be able/willing to explain or elaborate on yours.

Don't you have to run to the store to pick up some tampons for your wife?

Before you freak I'm just kidding ;)
 
novamanms said:
First, I want to apologize for this loooooong and volatile post.

And what if a rumor got started? Whose career would get damaged? Aguilera or Paris?

Aguilera, who has great vocals...but threw that all away for her "whore" image to combat britney and jessica's "pure" (and hyppocritical) image?

Rumor-starting pales in comparison to what I would do to them in a lawless world for the sake of the embetterment of our society.

I think there's a couple things that got this thread stirred up. Mainly what most of us were complaining about was not her having children, but the whole trashiness of the situation...not to mention the hyppocritical nature of the whole thing. Plus, Erz, Matt, and I live close enough to hear stuff the media never talks about. And the reason we don't mention it is BECAUSE that would be rumor-starting. What I said before was just a hypothetical thing to put the hyppocrasy into perspective.

As for what Britney looks like, let's compare her with a woman that SHOULD be a role model for girls--Nicole Kidman...a woman that has had several children, is twice Britney's age, is not a native American, and whom survived a miscarriage and messy divorce to an A-list actor...only to keep going as a top actor in her own right and look BETTER than she did when her career begain (and all at a much lower cost than Britney). Compare that to Britney's over-produced and over-air brushed bullshit image, and you'll get a feel for why people like myself are irked over this sort of thing.

And people like Paris? There's no defense for worthless richy-bitch, talentless, gerbil-looking attention whores who waste air time when there are brilliant--yet less connected or whorish--actors out there trying to break through. Keep in mind that Paris....although wealthier than god....made a couple million from the porn tape. Why? She signed a release for it! SHE WANTED IT OUT!!!! She wanted the atttention and the money...just like every time she wrecks a car, flashes a tit, dates a new tool....to keep her otherwise meaningless 15 minutes going...and I have to see girls droning around like gucci-zombies going "that's hawt".

Now not all pop stars suck. Mandy Moore is naturally pretty...was brave enough to go back to her natural hair color...and has actually made some movies that don't gnaw at one's I.Q. like lake amoeba. But girls like her, Alicia Keys, etc....will always play second fiddle to sycophantic succubi that our culture latches onto.

Now, I'm done. Back to enjoying my time on here.

Not any more mang, but I did for a while. I miss Louisiana. I am thinking of coming back and starting a biz in New Orleans.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
You do. Because whatever it is you THINK you're doing with women in the Northeast...it's amateur hour.

I didn't believe it until I saw it. I MOVED to Cajun country...thus was the power of the spell I was under.

Be warned...but be adventurous.




dullboy will have to remind himself that it's only amateur hour tonight as he gets his weekly prostate massage and then proceeds to blow multiple loads deep inside his model girlfriends super hot ass.

love,

dullboy in nyc.
 
dullboy said:
dullboy will have to remind himself that it's only amateur hour tonight as he gets his weekly prostate massage and then proceeds to blow multiple loads deep inside his model girlfriends super hot ass.

love,

dullboy in nyc.

hey man, if you're into your g/f pounding your ass with a strap on, have at it. I'm not here to tell you how to excite yourself.

I was born in Brooklyn and still have a place in NYC. NYC is the greatest city in America, but is IS amateur hour when you talk about things like drinking, benders, and dirty, raw sex.

Have fun with the strap on.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
hey man, if you're into your g/f pounding your ass with a strap on, have at it. I'm not here to tell you how to excite yourself.

I was born in Brooklyn and still have a place in NYC. NYC is the greatest city in America, but is IS amateur hour when you talk about things like drinking, benders, and dirty, raw sex.

Have fun with the strap on.



lol - dullboy says put away your guns.

nyc is hardly amateur hour when it comes to all things - dullboy just thinks that you couldn't play in the majors.

dullboy isn't gay - but finds your duplicity facsinating - meaning that you profess to being so sexually adventurous - but thinking that it's an insult to question someone preferred sexual practices. says a lot about your character, or lack thereof.

regardless, a prostate massage is performed with fingers, not a "strap-on" - dullboy figured that such a sexually experience man stud like yourself would know this.

have a nice day, weirdo. :)
 
dullboy said:
lol - dullboy says put away your guns.

nyc is hardly amateur hour when it comes to all things - dullboy just thinks that you couldn't play in the majors.

dullboy isn't gay - but finds your duplicity facsinating - meaning that you profess to being so sexually adventurous - but thinking that it's an insult to question someone preferred sexual practices. says a lot about your character, or lack thereof.

regardless, a prostate massage is performed with fingers, not a "strap-on" - dullboy figured that such a sexually experience man stud like yourself would know this.

have a nice day, weirdo. :)

You've invented wholesale the themes of my post so you could respond to it, and called me a weirdo. Heh.

There are many ways to massage the prostate. I've always referred to that act, however performed, as "magic".

I've lived in NYC and still have a place there, visit about once a month. I've lived in Louisiana, too. They each have their own charms.

I've shared my opinions. You've shared yours. I really don't care what you do, though, so I shall not be responding any further.

Have a nice day and magic night.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Not any more mang, but I did for a while. I miss Louisiana. I am thinking of coming back and starting a biz in New Orleans.
Keep me up to date. I'll come work for you, and we can make mad cash and slurp up some Cajun chicks.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
You've invented wholesale the themes of my post so you could respond to it, and called me a weirdo. Heh.

There are many ways to massage the prostate. I've always referred to that act, however performed, as "magic".

I've lived in NYC and still have a place there, visit about once a month. I've lived in Louisiana, too. They each have their own charms.

I've shared my opinions. You've shared yours. I really don't care what you do, though, so I shall not be responding any further.

Have a nice day and magic night.



all better now. cheers~!
 
dullboy said:
lol - dullboy says put away your guns.

nyc is hardly amateur hour when it comes to all things - dullboy just thinks that you couldn't play in the majors.

dullboy isn't gay - but finds your duplicity facsinating - meaning that you profess to being so sexually adventurous - but thinking that it's an insult to question someone preferred sexual practices. says a lot about your character, or lack thereof.

regardless, a prostate massage is performed with fingers, not a "strap-on" - dullboy figured that such a sexually experience man stud like yourself would know this.

have a nice day, weirdo. :)

Dullboy really must watch his rhetorical flourish and self-aggrandizing tones ;) ;) ;)
 
velvett said:
Eh?

I thought you were a Long Island boy?

Family is LI now, but we're from Bay Ridge. I was born at Brooklyn General hospital, lol.

I still have a place in Brooklyn. I don't get there as much as I would like.
 
MattTheSkywalker said:
Family is LI now, but we're from Bay Ridge. I was born at Brooklyn General hospital, lol.

I still have a place in Brooklyn. I don't get there as much as I would like.


I was always under the impression you were from LI from all the discussions we've ever had. That said, I can totally see Brooklyn - I just accepted LI - LOL Bay Ridge - figures, if you were older I'd probably know you I spent a lot of time there.
 
nycgirl said:
Really?? I never thought that. I was not shocked when he told me he was from Brooklyn.

Well in 5 years he's never mentioned Brooklyn but LI fairly often and visiting there - so what's a girl to think?
 
Hmmmmmmmmm we should pity Britney Spears because she is married to a loser and is pregnant with her second child from him? She "let herself go", "isnt wearing makeup" and "appears depressed in photos that the media prints" - stolen private moments.

puh-lease

OK - I was married to a loser with whom I had four children. (MY BAD - TOTALLY) and no matter how hard I try I can not shake the bastard. He will torture us till the day we die.

She has more money than God.

I am about to get evicted.

Would I trade places with her?

IN A HEARTBEAT.

Britney Spears could give two shits about anyone posting on this thread, including yours truly. Why on earth anyone would waste a second's thought about her or her "plight" is beyond me.

And as a sidebar if a female child sees Britney Spears as any sort of role model that has zero to do with anything that Ms Spears could ever do and everything to do with what that little girl's mother failed to do. PERIOD.

...just my .02

Agree or disagree it is what it is.
 
velvett said:
I'm not sure what you mean by that - unless you were trying to be funny.

She can't be happy, I mean look at her, she has the money for a trainer and a chef to feed her and train her back into shape, she can also hire someone to dress her and make outfits for her that don't make her look like America's trash does Disney.

She's not washing her hair, she's not putting any make up on - the girl is clearly depressed and as long as she is weak and as long as she stays with that loser she married she had no long term future.

In general that is just a sad situation and that photo just captures the sadness that could be in anyone of us.
the medai and poperastzy have a way of twisting it.take a hand full of pics where she looks like shit and make a story that evry one wants to here and see.evry one has shityy days wear they look and feal like shit.take those days and only show them to some one and they would think you were misrable and wight trash.
 
As a celebrity, at least a successful one, your job is to look good and behave in a way that enhances your celebrity. I have no sympathy for the celebs who take the fame and fortune but whine they have no privacy. It's part of the job description and has been for a long time. Most celebs got into the business because they like attention but once they "make it" they want it on their terms? It doesn't work that way....stop working, move to podunk USA and the papparazi won't bother you!
 
JavaGuru said:
As a celebrity, at least a successful one, your job is to look good and behave in a way that enhances your celebrity. I have no sympathy for the celebs who take the fame and fortune but whine they have no privacy. It's part of the job description and has been for a long time. Most celebs got into the business because they like attention but once they "make it" they want it on their terms? It doesn't work that way....stop working, move to podunk USA and the papparazi won't bother you!
true but you can see how they can make or brake you.as a celeb you should try to allways look youre best but thats all it takes is one or two times and they will make you pay.
 
needtogetas said:
the medai and poperastzy have a way of twisting it.take a hand full of pics where she looks like shit and make a story that evry one wants to here and see.evry one has shityy days wear they look and feal like shit.take those days and only show them to some one and they would think you were misrable and wight trash.

I am so painfully conservative - it would a hot day in hell before someone mistook me for white trash.

Oh the flipside I have been caught on film looking miserable and you know what it was because I was miserable.

So we're right back where we started.

:artist:

( I DO AGREE ABOUT THE MEDIA THOUGH)
 
needtogetas said:
true but you can see how they can make or brake you.as a celeb you should try to allways look youre best but thats all it takes is one or two times and they will make you pay.
Britney could afford a personal chef, trainer and a mental health expert. We "commoners" have to look good because we like it and do all the work.
 
JavaGuru said:
As a celebrity, at least a successful one, your job is to look good and behave in a way that enhances your celebrity. I have no sympathy for the celebs who take the fame and fortune but whine they have no privacy. It's part of the job description and has been for a long time. Most celebs got into the business because they like attention but once they "make it" they want it on their terms? It doesn't work that way....stop working, move to podunk USA and the papparazi won't bother you!

thank you!!!!

I've said this a bazillion times.

Want privacy? Don't become an entertainer or politican.
 
velvett said:
thank you!!!!

I've said this a bazillion times.

Want privacy? Don't become an entertainer or politican.
Even the law recognizes the differences between a public figure and a private citizen when it comes to libel and slander.
 
tiger88 said:
who the hell what she does? you arent her mother
why do ppl care when celebs have an eating disorder? big deal? dont worry about it
coke heads? big deal

and who the hell would fuck MTS?
Honest answer, because people "like" to see successful people fail.
 
needtogetas said:
youre right.lets bern her at the stake.

No, it's just sad.
I mean why?

She has the time and money at her fingertips to throw at her set backs and get her life together and please don't tell me she doesn't think she has problems - no woman wants to be a fat version of themselves and no woman wants a man like the one she married.
 
velvett said:
No, it's just sad.
I mean why?

She has the time and money at her fingertips to throw at her set backs and get her life together and please don't tell me she doesn't think she has problems - no woman wants to be a fat version of themselves and no woman wants a man like the one she married.
I love you.
 
velvett said:
No, it's just sad.
I mean why?

She has the time and money at her fingertips to throw at her set backs and get her life together and please don't tell me she doesn't think she has problems - no woman wants to be a fat version of themselves and no woman wants a man like the one she married.

Come on now, "no woman" is a bit much (just think about what I'm trying to say).
 
velvett said:
No, it's just sad.
I mean why?

She has the time and money at her fingertips to throw at her set backs and get her life together and please don't tell me she doesn't think she has problems - no woman wants to be a fat version of themselves and no woman wants a man like the one she married.
I luv ya but i will disagree aboit what a woman wants. I've had some very smart and together friends who intentionally choose retards....maybe it's the motherly instinct thing...a lot of women like loser bad boys...
 
JavaGuru said:
I luv ya but i will disagree aboit what a woman wants. I've had some very smart and together friends who intentionally choose retards....maybe it's the motherly instinct thing...a lot of women like loser bad boys...


You don't think they out grow it?
Or maybe it's not that they don't want better - they just don't think they deserve better?

I mean I agree with you and NYCgirl but I have to be hopefully that this sort of behavior is temporary in people.


:(
 
velvett said:
You don't think they out grow it?
Or maybe it's not that they don't want better - they just don't think they deserve better?

I mean I agree with you and NYCgirl but I have to be hopefully that this sort of behavior is temporary in people.


:(
I've seen it in 40+ year old women...The smart one's do but.....
 
perkele said:

OK - I am sorry but I have to say something here.

If I did not know that the woman in THESE particular photographs was the wealthy but tacky trailer trash queen Britney Spears - i would think she was a young momtobe on vacation at the beach and think - DAMN SHE LOOKS GOOD FOR A MOMTOBE!

Look at her body - how toned she is. She has a belly.... so? She is pregnant with her second child shortly after giving birth to her first.

AND?!?! :rolleyes: I didnt realize that the site of a pregnant woman was so shockingly repulsive to so many.

I didnt even see a hint of cellulite on her ass (probably good lighting - or she might just not have it because of her youth). Her back is extremely well defined. Look at her freaking shoulders and legs!!!

*heavens*

She is daring to expose her bare pregnant abdomen.... ON THE FUCKING BEACH!!!

Why should YOU care that loser Mr Kevin Spears is the father? I am certain that YOUR life will not ever be affected because of any of it.

Get a life people...

This is really getting sort of... well.... pathetic.

I am NOT supporting or condoning anything Ms Spears does. I dont know her or anything about her and could give a shit about her or how she conducts her life.

As mother of four female children I can tell you that there isn't a freaking thing that this or any other "media personality" has ever done that has influenced my daughters in any fashion - AT ALL. Why is that? Because I always made it a point to explain to my girls that just because this young entertainer made more money then God pandering to the sexual desires of most men that didnt make it right or something that they should remotely consider emulating. On the flip side I also pointed out that there are many more conservative women (like my exhusband's attorneys for example) that have made an equivalently obscene amount of money keeping ALL of their clothing on but harming innocent children to the Nth degree.

But society dictates that these women should get more respect.... why? Because of the clothing they wear? Yea, that makes a wholelotta sense to anyone who is just a tad bit more than a mere provincial thinker.

Who should they emulate?

Nothing for nothing... but if my girls only had TWO ROUTES (yes, it is a very silly hypothetical situation, but one that I think drives my point home) to earn a buck, which route would I have them choose?


Trashy, media created sex kitten that doesnt hurt anyone (unless of course those young people have no role models and that is not the fault of the entertainer but TOTALLY the fault of the mother).

or

Ruthless soulless conservative attorney that damages countless innocent children and literally destroys their lives. But hey, you wont catch anyone calling you a trashy whore, you will get to wear all sorts of fine designer shoes and plenty of money to stuff that fine silk pillow case that you rest your head on at night. Good thing you wont have a soul, otherwise no amount of makeup would hide the circles underneath your eyes.


Thoughts that make you go Hhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmm
 
For one she was considered a role model in the Mickey Mouse club, she held on to that 'good girl' image for a short time... by that time alot of young girls did look up to her.


I think we should just banned Brittany from Elite!

:lmao:
 
Erzulie said:
For one she was considered a role model in the Mickey Mouse club, she held on to that 'good girl' image for a short time... by that time alot of young girls did look up to her.


I think we should just banned Brittany from Elite!

:lmao:

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh the beauty of NOT having a TV!


.... and people look at me like I have three heads. LOL
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Ahhhhhhhhhhhh the beauty of NOT having a TV!


.... and people look at me like I have three heads. LOL


True, and its very uncommon in todays society to not have a TV! I monitor what my kids watch, BUT I don't try to shun the world from them. They sometimes see worse skanks walking around the mall on a Sunday afternoon after church.

Her younger sister also had a role on the MMclub, and now has her own TV show, Zoie 101 or something like that.

I have a TV but I believe that the only channels it catches are Disney and The Cosby Show.
 
Erzulie said:
True, and its very uncommon in todays society to not have a TV! I monitor what my kids watch, BUT I don't try to shun the world from them. They sometimes see worse skanks walking around the mall on a Sunday afternoon after church.

Her younger sister also had a role on the MMclub, and now has her own TV show, Zoie 101 or something like that.

I have a TV but I believe that the only channels it catches are Disney and The Cosby Show.

Feel you, but not having a TV does not keep them in a bubble. It only limits the amount of garbage that goes into their minds.

We dont need to go to the mall to see little girls dressed up like 2 dollar streetwalkers. I only need send my children to school.

If I could homeschool my children... I soooooooooooo would!
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Feel you, but not having a TV does not keep them in a bubble. It only limits the amount of garbage that goes into their minds.

We dont need to go to the mall to see little girls dressed up like 2 dollar streetwalkers. I only need send my children to school.

If I could homeschool my children... I soooooooooooo would!


I find my kids also get alot of GREAT information from TV, History Channel and such. But I also understand your reasons.

I'm SO happy we have mandatory uniforms from preK to 12th grade
 
Erzulie said:
I find my kids also get alot of GREAT information from TV, History Channel and such. But I also understand your reasons.

I'm SO happy we have mandatory uniforms from preK to 12th grade

If I could only have TLC and History Channel - I Would have a TV. But since that isn't possible (if it is, somebody please tell me how to go about that) I just dont want to deal with the nonsense.

Many braindamaged parents send their KINDERGARTEN-AGED daughters to school dressed like little Britney Spears wannabes... It is sickening. By the time they are 11 and just on the brink of puberty these girls are more provocative then I EVER WAS even in my sexiest shoots.

It is sad that little girls are socialized from such a young age to "show off" their bodies. There is a time and a place for everything and kindergarten/grade school and even the beginning of high school aint it.

My exhusband actually thinks that there is something wrong with my 12 y/o because she is rejecting these ideas (unlike her 13 1/2 y/o sister *sigh*). He asks her, "Gee Kristina... what's wrong with you? Aren't all the girls wearing makeup, getting their brows waxed, dying their hair and wearing low-rise jeans?" And my Nini retorts with, "Ummmm so? What if I said that all the girls were screwing boys and smoking pot. Would that be normal for me too?"

Of course he didnt have an answer but I would have paid money to be a fly on the wall that day!!!

I told the kid that I was so proud of her for standing up to peer pressure and speaking her mind!

My job is to try and help her older sister see what her younger sisters (all three) clearly CAN see.

So hard to do when my exhusband and his family actually encourage such behavior.
 
I was pretty blown away the day I walked into "La Senza Girl" and saw sparkly thongs on the table. They looked big enough to fit a five year old. There are no boundaries anymore.
 
spongebob said:
for the record i would like to state, i did not have sex with that women.......britney spears.


Please give your definition of 'sex'
 
jujubes said:
I was pretty blown away the day I walked into "La Senza Girl" and saw sparkly thongs on the table. They looked big enough to fit a five year old. There are no boundaries anymore.

Yeah and have you noticed how the companies dress the Brat dolls? They should just market the dolls as "Sluts in Training" and be more honest about it.
 
ironbabe said:
Yeah and have you noticed how the companies dress the Brat dolls? They should just market the dolls as "Sluts in Training" and be more honest about it.

I stood in Walmart and made a fuss out loud because I couldn't believe how incredibly slutty those dolls are. My niece wanted one for Christmas and there was not one girl doll that I could find that didn't look like a hooker. I ended up choosing a boy brat because they weren't as bad. It's the consumer's fault. If nobody bought them and complained to the manufacturer, then it would change. My sister is already having problems with her eight year old. I don't agree with how she lets her dress, it's obscene to me. Using a bandana for a top on a little girl??? Not my daughter, that's for sure.
 
I take every opportunity to point these things out to my children and my sister does the same for hers. She also has two sons in addition to my niece.

I am frankly - HORRIFIED - at these dolls.

What person in their right mind would give A CHILD these dolls as playthings? Yet, so many of my children's friends have not one or two... but rooms FULL of them. Please dont get me started on how too many parents spoil their children with gobs of material things and deprive them of the one thing they truly need: their attention.
 
I let my daughter play dress up since she was a little girl, with dress up clothes, I guess thats a bad thing? She doens't go anywhere with her frilly shirts and fake heels... but she loves it, and we play tea party and all that fun stuff. I believe its all in how you raise them and talk to them. They can be exposed to numerous amts of things in this world and if they are taught morals and to have respect for theirselves you should never have an issue with them trying to duplicate any toy or person. On the other hand I know parents that did the exact opposite (friends of mine) and I remember going to the movies and her going in the restroom and stripping off a layer of her clothes so she could look like a slut! Her parents didn't know, they thought she was a prim and proper girl. If my parenting is so bad that a Bratz doll is gonna make my daughter dress like a 2$ whore, I didn't deserve to have children in the first place.
 
Erzulie said:
I let my daughter play dress up since she was a little girl, with dress up clothes, I guess thats a bad thing? She doens't go anywhere with her frilly shirts and fake heels... but she loves it, and we play tea party and all that fun stuff. I believe its all in how you raise them and talk to them. They can be exposed to numerous amts of things in this world and if they are taught morals and to have respect for theirselves you should never have an issue with them trying to duplicate any toy or person. On the other hand I know parents that did the exact opposite (friends of mine) and I remember going to the movies and her going in the restroom and stripping off a layer of her clothes so she could look like a slut! Her parents didn't know, they thought she was a prim and proper girl. If my parenting is so bad that a Bratz doll is gonna make my daughter dress like a 2$ whore, I didn't deserve to have children in the first place.

LOL

My girls have played dress up too. They had a steamer trunk FULL of clothes and shoes but STILL the clothing is fun - not sexy. Little girls dont NEED to learn to be sexy. They are children. Sensuality, etc comes with growing up and does not need to be rushed.

Somehow I dont think your girls were dressing up in 7" heels and glittery thongs.... where they?

And even if they were, they are your children not mine. As long as they arent hurting my kids (which I am certain from what I have seen here - they most likely would NEVER hurt a flea let alone conduct themselves in an improper fashion - why? Because they seem to have TWO parents who care bigtime.... I am quite envious - in a good way) then it's all good.

We can agree to disagree. :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
LOL

My girls have played dress up too. They had a steamer trunk FULL of clothes and shoes but STILL the clothing is fun - not sexy. Little girls dont NEED to learn to be sexy. They are children. Sensuality, etc comes with growing up and does not need to be rushed.

Somehow I dont think your girls were dressing up in 7" heels and glittery thongs.... where they?

And even if they were, they are your children not mine. As long as they arent hurting my kids (which I am certain from what I have seen here - they most likely would NEVER hurt a flea let alone conduct themselves in an improper fashion - why? Because they seem to have TWO parents who care bigtime.... I am quite envious - in a good way) then it's all good.

We can agree to disagree. :)

no of course she wasn't dressing in thongs and stilletos, though she's tried to steal my shoes from my closet and prance around the tile because she loves the sound it makes.. LOL!
 
I don't mind my girls playing dress up in my high heels, but no dress up clothes that are too short or too tight. As soon as my girls' skirts get too short for them the skirts are in the trash. They are tall and skinny with long legs so much of the clothes out there that wouldn't be too bad for a shorter child is off limits for mine.

And we don't buy Brat dolls. Seeing a beach towel with brats on them and they were all in string bikini's and high heels. Who exactly is this towel marketed towards? Older girls won't have theme towels.....guess they want to make the six - eight year olds want high heels and string bikini's to look like their role models....no thanks...

If you do buy those dolls, hey, it's up to you. It's not for us though.
 
Erzulie said:
no of course she wasn't dressing in thongs and stilletos, though she's tried to steal my shoes from my closet and prance around the tile because she loves the sound it makes.. LOL!

My girls did it too.

(Truth be told... I STILL like the sound my heels make when they click as I walk!!!)
 
There is no ONE thing that will influence a child but rather a combination of them in conjunction with lack of parenting.

Personally I limit the amount of negative influences as much as possible. As I said, I dont NEED a TV in order for my children to see little girls dressed like 2$ streetwalkers, nor do I need buy them such dolls. I need only send them to school. And I am NOT exaggerating. Makes me want to vomit when I see young girls that have barely changing bodies (when they hit puberty early it is all the more tragic) have their appearance altered just to pander to MEN.

THEY ARE CHILDREN.

A 14 y/o is NOT a woman. She is a mere woman-child who should be focusing on her education and extracurricular activities - not changing her natural beauty for something artificial in order to get the attention of a boy.

Again - my .02

Agree or Disagree.... it is what it is.
 
I've read almost all that has been said here lately in this thread...

With that said, you don't want to be overy restricting to your kids because they will go the way you don't want them to.

I think someone mentioned earlier that they explain to thier kids why they don't want them to dress a certain way. That is the best tactic that one could use and be as blunt as possible. I've seen so many catholic girls go the trashy/slut route because thier parents/church don't want them too.

About Brittany, maybe she is happy in life and marriage. Think about it, no newspaper is going to print the photo's of her being happy or smiling anymore. Only the ones that show her looking sad and depressed since that is all that people talk about now.

On another side note, my neice was given three brats dolls for her 7th b-day, thankfully my sister thanked the parents of the kids that gave them and gave them back explaining why. That took balls!!

Whiskey
 
Whiskey said:
On another side note, my neice was given three brats dolls for her 7th b-day, thankfully my sister thanked the parents of the kids that gave them and gave them back explaining why. That took balls!!

Whiskey

That does take balls. One of my daughters will turn 7 next week and I wrote on the invitation not to give brat dolls please. Hopefully I won't have to go through the returning thing - if I do I'll probably just take them back to walmart and let her pick out something else.

The thing I tell my girls is this: 1. They don't wear enough clothes. 2. If they are bratty, it doesn't matter if they are pretty.

This daughter that's turning 7 could care less about brat dolls and fashion etc, she's like I was as a little girl - a tomboy through and through... :)
 
Whiskey said:
I've read almost all that has been said here lately in this thread...

With that said, you don't want to be overy restricting to your kids because they will go the way you don't want them to.

I think someone mentioned earlier that they explain to thier kids why they don't want them to dress a certain way. That is the best tactic that one could use and be as blunt as possible. I've seen so many catholic girls go the trashy/slut route because thier parents/church don't want them too.

About Brittany, maybe she is happy in life and marriage. Think about it, no newspaper is going to print the photo's of her being happy or smiling anymore. Only the ones that show her looking sad and depressed since that is all that people talk about now.

On another side note, my neice was given three brats dolls for her 7th b-day, thankfully my sister thanked the parents of the kids that gave them and gave them back explaining why. That took balls!!

Whiskey

Kids are going to rebel regardless, you are correct. But I truly believe that if you explain WHY it is a bad idea for A CHILD to call sexual attention to herself, then they will think twice.

IE - I walked up on my oldest and squeezed her up against the wall, my body pushing against hers, breathing heavily in her face (not to hurt her but so she understands right/wrong/indifferent - what message she is sending) and asked her, "Now what are you going to do? I am a LOT SMALLER than most boys your age and a helluva lot smaller than most MEN. You think a boy/man wont do this to you if he thinks he can get away with it?" She was stunned. Didnt know what to say.... But I certainly drove my point home.

I explained that she is very beautiful and has the body of a near woman (we are in the same pants size and she's got a full A-cup - she is only 13 1/2) and she will be attracting attention that she will NOT be able to handle.

This was not about me trying to restrict her or make her "a geek." That it was about me loving and protecting her from things that she doesnt understand.

I will teach her about makeup and how to dress and all about how to be a WOMAN as she becomes A WOMAN. She is now only a child and needs to concern herself with studies and fun kid things - NOT WITH SUCH ADULT THINGS.

And I do talk about all things sexual. I do not put my girls in a bubble but believe in intelligently preparing them for the insanity of the world.



YOUR SISTER HAS BALLS OF STEEL!!! MY HERO!!! :)
 
ironbabe said:
I don't mind my girls playing dress up in my high heels, but no dress up clothes that are too short or too tight. As soon as my girls' skirts get too short for them the skirts are in the trash. They are tall and skinny with long legs so much of the clothes out there that wouldn't be too bad for a shorter child is off limits for mine.

And we don't buy Brat dolls. Seeing a beach towel with brats on them and they were all in string bikini's and high heels. Who exactly is this towel marketed towards? Older girls won't have theme towels.....guess they want to make the six - eight year olds want high heels and string bikini's to look like their role models....no thanks...

If you do buy those dolls, hey, it's up to you. It's not for us though.

I agree. What good is giving your child a doll that he/she is not permitted to emulate? Yes, focused parenting is everything, but I'm not about to hand a girl brat to my daughter that has thigh high leather boots, leopard skin bra, blood red lipstick, and pubic bone length plaid skirt with chains and expect her to love, worship and play with it at the same time knowing that it goes against the little girl image I want to keep intact for her. That makes no sense to me. These dolls make Barbie look like Mother Theresa. I can't believe most mothers let their very young daughters attend a Britney Spears concert considering some of very sexually, agressive skits they had going. I think the more the sexual marketing towards young girls, because that's what sells in every age group, gets more and more out of hand, the more parents have a responsibility to screen it. No, you can't possibly keep your child in a plastic bubble and that's also where communication is so important, but I believe there will be many things I will not buy for my daughter, and those dolls will be one of them. There are other dolls which are appropriate for her to love and enjoy. My son is nine and although I speak to him about the many aspects of violence in the world, I still to this day have not bought him a toy gun and never will.
 
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