Dating!!!

[FreakMonster]

hey guys, When you go out on dates do you always pay for everything?

I don't mind paying on the first date, I just hate it when a girl automatically assumes your gonna take care of the bill everytime and doesn't even offer.

Too many fuckin beggar girls out there looking for a free meal!!

What the fuck? Where do you draw the line? After how many dates?

 

[havoc]

I always pay, its not that big of a deal to me, however, the girl usually asks me "do you want me to get that?" or "can I pay?", hearing words like that shows respect in a way and I welcome those words, they are comforting. If you must Freak, next time the bill comes, just sit there or put the check in her region of the table. peace

 

[WODIN]

It depends on the sex-date-money-ratio. For instance if by date three your getting hummers and anal then you are paying 80%.

 

[1911]

I pay.

Later,

 

[The_Ghost]

I am like Havoc, I usually always pay.

I like the fact that a woman will offer like he mentioned. I feel better about her when she does.

For me after 4-6 times out and she doesn't even offer once, she gets shown the door.

 

[Pandoras Aggression]

I can sense if the guy has an issue with the check.........if this happens I'll say "Let me get this" as I reach for the check. Maybe once the guy said "okay". The girl offering does show respect and a certain quality and the guy likes to say "no, no, no, I'll get it"....showing respect for the girl and he can take care of things( in a Freudian kind of way). It shows he cares and women are sensitive to that.

It wouldn't bother me to pay for dinner.....it's a small price to pay to see if I'm going to waste my time going out with him again.



Pandora

 

[supersizeme]

i don't think any self respecting man would allow a girl he was totally into to pick up the check. something just inherently wrong with that. part of dating is showing chicks that you're a force to be reckoned with and that includes displaying some level of financial security. this leads to getting tail. you're not gonna be getting much ass allowing the chick to cover her half...there's a million other guys she could be out with right now who would gladly pay for the date. why fuck it up for yourself?
tom leykus would have a different opinion but the reality is that girls basically expect it.

 

[FreakMonster]

Where do you draw the line?

After 3,4, 10 dates?

Dates can get expensive these days. Lets say you have gone out on 3 dates with a girl and spent $270 and she has not offered once and you have not gotten any play then I'd say she needs to hit the road.

Now if she offers, That's a different story. It shows she respects the fact that your paying for her way. Just my .02 cents!!

 

[Lord_Suston]

She should offer, but you should always pay, cause if you don't it shows you are a deadbeat.....

I have only let my girl pay once, cause she said she wanted to do something nice for me....
P.S. it is all about respect, cause if she ain't got it, she'll never have it....

 

[badazzwhitedude]

I will always pay on a date to show that I have things under control, but she better do something nice for me in return a little later on, otherwise she will get a size 12 in her ass. That is completely fair.