Daisy wants me back.......

[wootoom]

I dont know what do....i still love her in a way but i dont feel like i could ever go back....i have started a new chapter in my life...it feels like a trap...im happy right now but i love my kids more than anything in the world and would love to see them everyday and have my family back together again..its the most difficult thing i have and ever will have to deal with in my life..i still have feelings but i feel the damage has been done...i went through hell for 6 months of my life was on anti-depressants to pretty much stay alive...i know i should do whats right for me but its so difficult....i dont think she can change and it would take so long to build that trust back again....i put a ring on her finger for a reason because i loved her and i always will but i feel the damage is too much too handle...please no fucking stupid posts in this thread...i could never handle getting hurt or going through this process again either.

 

[hurricane]

thats tuff .. my boy is going threw the same thing .. she sounds like a confused woman .. be careful she might take u back and change her mind again ( happened to my boy)

 

[wootoom]

thats what im scared of

 

[75th]

Better to be safe than sorry. People who supposedly "love" you dont only do this type of thing once.

I vote no, broheim. But of course thats based on what little I know of the situation.

 

[Smurfy]

be careful

 

[mrplunkey]

I personally would never be able to get past it. IMO you've moved on anyway.

And staying together just for the kids is a bogus argument. Kid's aren't stupid and if the home isn't going to be a happy one, they'll know.

 

[wootoom]

why does this have to happen....it seems too far gone

 

[mrplunkey]

Better to be safe than sorry. People who supposedly "love" you dont only do this type of thing once.

I vote no, broheim. But of course thats based on what little I know of the situation.

That's another good point. I personally believe cheaters will always cheat again. It's as much a function of the person as it is the specific relationship.

 

[heatherrae]

That's a very personal decision Woot. There are many reasons why people cheat and many dynamics to factor into the mix and we know only the surface details of this thing.

Whatever you decide, I pray for God to grant you and your family peace and love.

 

[hurricane]

imo only u know the answer to your question.. if u feel u have moved on with your life DONT risk gettin hurt and feelings comeing back .. if u still havent gotten over it ..give it a chance but dont go in assuming its gonna work, have a open mind that there is a good chance for FAILURE here ..this way if it dont work u know u gave it a shot and it will NEVER work and wont always wonder what could have been