Confusing Sex Question

[SheDragon]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

 

[needtogetaas]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

 

[SheDragon]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

 

[SheDragon]

the first girl I slept with did this to me.fucken bitch was all like oo ooooo oooooo ya fuck me fuck me.all into it for like an hour then she was like when the fuck are you going to get off.I was like let me take this peace of shit condom off and I will.she wouldent let me take it off so I told her that i would never get off then.after i said that she said well Iam don then,and just left me with blue balls.
bitch must have got off about 10 times and I didnt get shit but one huge tease.
nedless to say that was the last time i ever talked to her again.
thank god I am marred and dont have to were them fucken condums anny more.there is no way i could ever get off with one on.many times I had to just pass up sex because the girl would refuse to do it with out one so i would be like whats the fucken pont then.

on a different note.... DAMNNNNNNNNNNN.. she got off 10 times????!!! NICE!

 

[jenscats5]

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

I'm a little confused on the question....is the question that the girl gets off first then says "I'm done" gets up so the guy doesn't get his - that's the problem?? Or that men finish first & don't give the woman the opportunity to get hers??

 

[cranny]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

It dosen't happen in my house. I will admit, most of the the time the wife and my orgasm are timed pretty close together. I'm sometimes a little later. But it has definately been the other way around where I'll go before her(prob. b/c it had been a while) . In that case, I do whatever I have to to get her off. I mean, I love to orgasm, but I think I like to satisfy my baby just as much as me getting off Very important in my book.

 

[Sassy69]

Sometimes stuff doesn't happen like in the romantic novels or porn flicks -- you work w/ what happens -- sometimes the guy just can't get off which is fine as well. I don't need the Big O to call it a fun time. For me the point is to enjoy the other person, make them feel good, not make them or me feel bad because "it" didnt' happen. Too much stress. It is what it is. The large preponderence of women don't get vaginal orgasms and that isn't very apparent if don't pay attention to "reality" -- I don't want my guy to make it his personal crusade to pound me until I O if its not gonna happen. I'll fake it before I'll sit there & get raw after 45 min & a very frustrated guy. There are better ways to explore & have fun & reach O. I'm all about having fun, making it mutually good and very intimate. Otherwise if I just need to get off, there's always Mr. Vibrator. Time spent w/ a SO is critically important to me and if its not fun, its not good. Don't make it somethign you "think" it should be vs. what it is.

Not sure if that's what you are asking, but that's my take on things. Whether or not u "O" does not define your ability to be a partner or if you are "good" or whatever. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Sex is a part of life and it is impacted by your mood, your energy level, your stress level and and everything else. You just can't decouple it from all that and tie a whole bunch of other "performance stress" to it as well.

 

[needtogetaas]

thanks needto.. that seems more of a condom issue than anything else but its kinda the same.. and thats what i mean... that was messed up but it happens to women all the time.
no one else is replying though.. am i the only one who feels theres something wrong with this??

there are three typs of women in the world when it comes to orgazims.
o girls
g girls
and n girls

o being the type that fucken sreem ooooomg as soon as you tuch them.pritty much anny thing can get them off they are the lucky ones.they often get of sevral times dering sex and even a few times in forplay.

g girls are a little bit more complexs usawaly takeing derrict g spot our clitoris stimulatoin with quit a bit of warm up work to get her of.most oftin they will still have some orgasims dering sex but once in a wile they wont.

and the last n girls.being "note unless all the planits aline and the earth stops will they get off.there are some set backs to haveing a girl like this but there is one big perk.the avrig man will not get here off unless they have spent many hours togather experaminting and talking and figering out what it takes for her.
this sucks for the women because most women dont like to tell a man what they like wich also sucks for the avrig man as well.
the fact is a girl like this is scrood uless she finds a man she loves so much that she will have sex with him because it just feels good to pleace him.then if she hopens up to him and they work togather they can make it happen for her.
the one good perk to a girl like this is if you are good and you can get her off she will wership youre dick till the day you die.lmao

 

[jafo]

to be honest ,,it happens more than you would think ....as a guy its ok by me ..by the time she gets hers I am done ..as in tired and ready to stop.

the problem with your question is ..when a man does it to a woman ..the guy is done really fast most times ..so the woman was just getting into it and ready for more



could you be a little more clear on your question ..it sounds like you are asking if this happened to guy all the time would we put up with it

 

[SheDragon]

I'm a little confused on the question....is the question that the girl gets off first then says "I'm done" gets up so the guy doesn't get his - that's the problem?? Or that men finish first & don't give the woman the opportunity to get hers??

no, i was just giving an example of "what if" it happened the other way around.. my question was why it happens to women all the time and it being "ok" to accept.. =)

 

[SheDragon]

It dosen't happen in my house. I will admit, most of the the time the wife and my orgasm are timed pretty close together. I'm sometimes a little later. But it has definately been the other way around where I'll go before her(prob. b/c it had been a while) . In that case, I do whatever I have to to get her off. I mean, I love to orgasm, but I think I like to satisfy my baby just as much as me getting off Very important in my book.

yeah see...? why arent there more guys like you around?

 

[jenscats5]

no, i was just giving an example of "what if" it happened the other way around.. my question was why it happens to women all the time and it being "ok" to accept.. =)

Ah ok - so why is it acceptable that women don't regularly orgasm?? Cuz guys sure as hell wouldn't tolerate it.....

Good question!!

 

[SheDragon]

Sometimes stuff doesn't happen like in the romantic novels or porn flicks -- you work w/ what happens -- sometimes the guy just can't get off which is fine as well. I don't need the Big O to call it a fun time. For me the point is to enjoy the other person, make them feel good, not make them or me feel bad because "it" didnt' happen. Too much stress. It is what it is. The large preponderence of women don't get vaginal orgasms and that isn't very apparent if don't pay attention to "reality" -- I don't want my guy to make it his personal crusade to pound me until I O if its not gonna happen. I'll fake it before I'll sit there & get raw after 45 min & a very frustrated guy. There are better ways to explore & have fun & reach O. I'm all about having fun, making it mutually good and very intimate. Otherwise if I just need to get off, there's always Mr. Vibrator. Time spent w/ a SO is critically important to me and if its not fun, its not good. Don't make it somethign you "think" it should be vs. what it is.

Not sure if that's what you are asking, but that's my take on things. Whether or not u "O" does not define your ability to be a partner or if you are "good" or whatever. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Sex is a part of life and it is impacted by your mood, your energy level, your stress level and and everything else. You just can't decouple it from all that and tie a whole bunch of other "performance stress" to it as well.

I understand that its hard for a woman to climax during intercourse, however theres other ways to please a woman..but what if your man 9 times out of 10 is the only one who cums and doesnt even show concern whether you did..

 

[jenscats5]

I understand that its hard for a woman to climax during intercourse, however theres other ways to please a woman..but what if your man 9 times out of 10 is the only one who cums and doesnt even show concern whether you did..

Well that's fucking rude and he should be beaten with a stick!!

 

[jafo]

Ah ok - so why is it acceptable that women don't regularly orgasm?? Cuz guys sure as hell wouldn't tolerate it.....

Good question!!

if this is the question ..the answer is easy ..most(real) MEN who genuinely care about there partner will do what they need to do to make sure there partner is happy (maybe not the big O but happy)

 

[jafo]

I understand that its hard for a woman to climax during intercourse, however theres other ways to please a woman..but what if your man 9 times out of 10 is the only one who cums and doesnt even show concern whether you did..

you are not with a man ...you are with a boy

 

[Deterass]

Most women only climax thru oral or manual stimulation to the clit.Tell him to lick the kitty!

 

[jenscats5]

Most women only climax thru oral or manual stimulation to the clit.Tell him to lick the kitty!

Some men simply don't "do" that.....

 

[jafo]

I would say the whole experience depends on how well both of you know your own body and if you are comfortable with who you are ..if you can let go in the bed room and your partner can do the same them you will find its not about the O ....its about having fun and enjoying each other

 

[dullboy]

Ah ok - so why is it acceptable that women don't regularly orgasm?? Cuz guys sure as hell wouldn't tolerate it.....

Good question!!

uh, cause you can't get pregnant unless we shoot?


dullboy has a weird mental block where it's difficult for him to finish when he's with a new partner. the funny part is that girls take that shit personally even though they've already wet the bed a few times.

 

[cranny]

Some men simply don't "do" that.....

That is a shame. I would have thought 99% do Damn, I love it. I don't understand, can't get enough. If we were to go right into having sex, it would take forever if at all. I love licking the kitty until just before she's there(constantly teasing by stopping and starting). Then she's ready for Mr. wiggly . Much better for the both of us.

 

[Sassy69]

I understand that its hard for a woman to climax during intercourse, however theres other ways to please a woman..but what if your man 9 times out of 10 is the only one who cums and doesnt even show concern whether you did..

That's doens't sound like someone I would spend time with. Its the "concern" part that would turn me off - it doesn't "have" to happen all the time, but I would expect the same consideration back that I give. And I give a lot of consideration. That falls under the category of "mutual fun".

 

[jenscats5]

That is a shame. I would have thought 99% do Damn, I love it. I don't understand, can't get enough. If we were to go right into having sex, it would take forever if at all. I love licking the kitty until just before she's there(constantly teasing by stopping and starting). Then she's ready for Mr. wiggly . Much better for the both of us.

Ummmmmmmmmmmm - NO.......

 

[SheDragon]

That's doens't sound like someone I would spend time with. Its the "concern" part that would turn me off - it doesn't "have" to happen all the time, but I would expect the same consideration back that I give. And I give a lot of consideration. That falls under the category of "mutual fun".

..yep #$%%^&^&*%$@@@$#$%$^@$!!!!!!!

 

[needtogetaas]

there are three typs of women in the world when it comes to orgazims.
o girls
g girls
and n girls

o being the type that fucken sreem ooooomg as soon as you tuch them.pritty much anny thing can get them off they are the lucky ones.they often get of sevral times dering sex and even a few times in forplay.

g girls are a little bit more complexs usawaly takeing derrict g spot our clitoris stimulatoin with quit a bit of warm up work to get her of.most oftin they will still have some orgasims dering sex but once in a wile they wont.

and the last n girls.being "note unless all the planits aline and the earth stops will they get off.there are some set backs to haveing a girl like this but there is one big perk.the avrig man will not get here off unless they have spent many hours togather experaminting and talking and figering out what it takes for her.
this sucks for the women because most women dont like to tell a man what they like wich also sucks for the avrig man as well.
the fact is a girl like this is scrood uless she finds a man she loves so much that she will have sex with him because it just feels good to pleace him.then if she hopens up to him and they work togather they can make it happen for her.
the one good perk to a girl like this is if you are good and you can get her off she will wership youre dick till the day you die.lmao

wtf if I dont get some atantoin in this thread I am out.

 

[SheDragon]

if this is the question ..the answer is easy ..most(real) MEN who genuinely care about there partner will do what they need to do to make sure there partner is happy (maybe not the big O but happy)

thats just it... see, i think many women would be content with the man at least "attempting" to please her.. whether orally or manually.. but to show that he cares at least...

 

[SheDragon]

That is a shame. I would have thought 99% do Damn, I love it. I don't understand, can't get enough. If we were to go right into having sex, it would take forever if at all. I love licking the kitty until just before she's there(constantly teasing by stopping and starting). Then she's ready for Mr. wiggly . Much better for the both of us.

cause you do it.. thats why you think all men do it.. but its not the case.. good for you though!.. actually.. good for your girl!! =)

 

[SheDragon]

wtf if I dont get some atantoin in this thread I am out.

hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto!!!!!!

 

[hamstershaver]

Some men simply don't "do" that.....

 

[needtogetaas]

hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto
hi needto!!!!!!

now suck it.

 

[SheDragon]

now suck it.

uhhhh...no. thats what you're wife is for.

 

[jenscats5]

Some men simply don't "do" that.....

I rest my case.....

 

[Cutiebaby]

God, I would never do that to him. That is worse than Capital punishment,LOL.............

 

[markshark]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

haha thats actually what happens with me. i never cum. the girl always goes first because i fuck them for like 2 hours straight because fuckin doesnt even turn me on. the only shit i like is like bein tied up and teased and shit. i dont care if its pam anderson, i aint gonna nut fuckin a girl.

 

[dullboy]

i aint gonna nut fuckin a girl.

how about when you fuck a guy?

 

[PBR]

women come first-always.......some at the same time (nice). The ONLY time i finish first- is if Iam ordered to do so and threatened within an inch of my life....

 

[SheDragon]

women come first-always.......some at the same time (nice). The ONLY time i finish first- is if Iam ordered to do so and threatened within an inch of my life....

nice nice nice

 

[Hiatussin]

Women that have a 100 page specific manual to get her off are less likely to cheat.

 

[hoopsmx]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

My wife does that all the time... and the she comes back and gets mad at me because I didn't get an orgasm on time...

 

[EnderJE]

My wife gets the O most of the time. Or is a great liar. Me on the other hand can last alot longer then her. So, sometimes I just stop because I get tired.

 

[gunnr17]

Well that's fucking rude and he should be beaten with a stick!!

I couldnt agree more. There are a lot of women that don't always(or never) get off during intercourse. But I haven't found one yet that couldnt cum at least once with some help from the tongue. Come on guys, put forth some fucking effort. It doesnt take much.

 

[gunnr17]

cause you do it.. thats why you think all men do it.. but its not the case.. good for you though!.. actually.. good for your girl!! =)

I cant believe there are that many guys out there that don't. You gotta be kidding me. Thats the best part. I could do that shit for days. These guys are missing out. If you ain't lickin the p@#$y, you must be a p@#$y.

 

[sre30]

Unless it's been a while or I'm just on fire it 's pretty easy. By varying speed and position, timing of the O can be pretty much spot on. Usually I'll let it start getting close after she's caught a few and we'll finish one big one together.

Sometimes it's just not happening. I'll need to clear my mind take a deep breath and let whatever stress is keeping me from my O clear out. That and the style of the dog get the job done every time.

 

[Wulfgar]

MY GF usually always has an O. If I cant give it to her she gets on top of me and takes that shit, she is crazy. If she doesnt she gets pissed and talks to her pussy about it. I love my crazy bitch. If all eslse fails she shoves my head down in her crotch and I lap that pussy till she passes out.

 

[SheDragon]

A standing ovation to all these men who love pleasing their women.. no im serious!

 

[Sassy69]

women come first-always.......some at the same time (nice). The ONLY time i finish first- is if Iam ordered to do so and threatened within an inch of my life....

That is fucking HAWT.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I dont understand something...

We often hear about how common it is that a woman doesn't have an orgasm during sex. We hear it so often that its become part of the norm (for me it has).. no one is shocked anymore... what if it were the other way around? What if (for example) a woman and her man are deep into the action, both hot, then bam.. she reaches the orgasm first, and then all of a sudden she she sighs from the pleasure and casually get up and says "mm that was good!"

wtf?? is he supposed to be a happy man then?

... it would be nice to get some kind of input from the males as to why this is often allowed to happen.

*raises hand*

Ummmmm guilty as charged.

 

[parteeman]

yeah see...? why arent there more guys like you around?

There are. I'm exactly the same. I have an extremely orgasmic girfriend. She generally comes somewhere between 20 seconds and two minutes after I start fucking her. I'm older (40), so it takes a hell of a lot longer than that for me to reach orgasm, but even if I don't ever get there, or don't get there before she gets sore enough to want to stop, it doesn't matter. I get the most out of looking into her eyes as she comes as a direct result of my dick being insider her. That feeling is better than spewing my cum all over the place (although that doesn't suck when it does happen). We've actually gotten to where after she comes, I'll pull out almost immediately, then I will roll over and she will suck on my balls while I jerk off then come on her face or her tits or her pussy. She then likes to me to lick my cum off her tits or suck it out of her pussy, then give it back to her with a deep kiss. That's good stuff, folks, good stuff. I gotta go!