Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
napsgear
genezapharmateuticals
domestic-supply US-PHARMACIES UGL OZ
Raptor Labs UGFREAK OxygenPharm
napsgeargenezapharmateuticals domestic-supplyUS-PHARMACIES UGL OZUGFREAKRaptor LabsOxygenPharm

confused about this girl

T

Testo

New member
Hi all, pissed off and confused this evening maybe you can give me some support:)

I met this girl a coupla of weeks ago, weve been out once since and had a great time. Anyway, i spoke to her on the phone the other day and we agreed to go out again tonight. So i tryed ringing her when i finished work to make sure everything was ok but she didnt answer?

When it got near to the time i should have been getting ready i tryed her mobile a coupla times and i got switched straight to the answerphone so i knew she was there, so i sent her a txt and she answered saying she couldnt make it and she would speak to me later WTF.

Anyway, i was so confused now i rung her again and she still didnt answer, so i txt her again asking if she wanted to talk and she hasnt replyed.

If she has decided she dosnt want to see me again ok, but why not say that and at least tell me what ive said\done wrong, this is seriously bugging me now.

what do you think?
 
just keep calling her every 5 mins. Alternate between giggling like a school girl when she answers and heavy breathing. Occasionally throw in, "I know where you live bitch"

you will be money in no time.
 
well she may have a really good reason for doing what she did; maybe not. Ask her the next time you see her. Ask yourself though, if infact she was un-interested and didnt have the decency to tell you, do you still want to be with a girl like this?
 
HappyScrappy said:
just keep calling her every 5 mins. Alternate between giggling like a school girl when she answers and heavy breathing. Occasionally throw in, "I know where you live bitch"

you will be money in no time.
Click to expand...

That's what I was gonna say! I was also gonna suggest telling her you just ejaculated all over the phone and that you are also licking it off with your rectum (at least I think that's possible). Don't be surprised if she doesn't answer cause she probably hung up as she will be on her way over right away.
 
Don't call her again until she calls you back. It seems like she wants to play games, so if that's the case, you have to act disinterested. If she is interested she'll get anxious and call you, otherwise, if you keep calling her, she will have the upper hand and the odds of you getting in her pants will go down the drain.
 
Thick dog said:
Don't call her again until she calls you back. It seems like she wants to play games, so if that's the case, you have to act disinterested. If she is interested she'll get anxious and call you, otherwise, if you keep calling her, she will have the upper hand and the odds of you getting in her pants will go down the drain.
Click to expand...

You may have ruined it with this girl, but for future reference what thick dog said is a good start. Buy this book and read it multiple times, you will never regret it:
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A...18318/sr=11-1/ref=sr_11_1/103-2512812-0415042

If that link doesnt work, the book is called "How to be the Jerk Women Love" author: F.J. Shark
 
Thanks, i dont think i will ring her again now and forget about if she rings back she rings back. I would look like a complete loser now if i kept ringing her, the only thing i can think of that i did wrong is i didnt ring her sooner but she could have rung me right?

Anyway i feel better now, i just popped 3 dbols and had a great back and bi workout at least i still have love for the weights :)
 
"just keep calling her every 5 mins. Alternate between giggling like a school girl when she answers and heavy breathing."

Also, tell her you love her.

CM
 
maybe not, seriously though what does anyone else think of this situation it makes me feel better when other people can relate to this.
 
It sucks when women play games like this.Even if she had a reason for what she did she could easily have explained herself by now.

The bottom line now is the more you chase this girl the less likely it is that you will ever get her.She may not even intentionally set out to play games with you but sometimes these things happen,sometimes they all of a sudden get cold feet about a potential relationship,maybe not quite over an old boyfriend yet or something along those lines.

To put it mildly women are strange creatures,and the more you try to call her without her trying to contact you back in return the less she will want you.

If I were you I would cease all efforts to contact her and let her approach you if she wants,if she doesn't then screw it and just let it go.And yes I can relate to your situation,it does suck,I've been there.
 
I never chase girls, or at the most i just don't let them know i do. i don't get laid either way so what the fuck's the difference.:)
 
this doesn't sound worth your time. Wait for the bitch to realize she;s acting like a 10 yearold before getting together. You keep trying to pursue her, she'll keep doing this shit.

ps burn her house
 
Testo said:
maybe not, seriously though what does anyone else think of this situation it makes me feel better when other people can relate to this.
Click to expand...

I personally think that you are blowing this out of proportion a bit. I mean it is one date...one night...and she said she would explain. It is not like it is a "pattern of behavior".

Like you said in another post..."if she rings back she rings back".
 
Testo said:
So i tryed ringing her when i finished work to make sure everything was ok but she didnt answer?

tryed her mobile a coupla times and i got switched straight to the answerphone so i knew she was there, so i sent her a txt and she answered saying she couldnt make it and she would speak to me later WTF.

Anyway, i was so confused now i rung her again and she still didnt answer, so i txt her again asking if she wanted to talk and she hasnt replyed.


what do you think?
Click to expand...

So you called her about 6 times and send a few messages as well?
That probably blew any chances you ever had with the woman,
cause it makes you look weak and desperate.
Never ask a girl why she didn´t call back.

If she has decided she dosnt want to see me again ok, but why not say that and at least tell me what ive said\done wrong, this is seriously bugging me now.
Click to expand...

Women don´t want to make your life easy and you did nothing wrong except calling her too often. It probably would have been better if you had acted less interested in her at the time.
 
Yeah i called her 4 times i think at diff times and i regret that now but i just wanted to know what i was doing, if i hadnt have sent the txt she prob wouldnt have rung me back and that is what i find most annoying because we were getting on great.

Its most likely a combination of what you folks have said and maybe i have blown my chances but i would rather end it now than take it any further and feel even more like shit.

thanks for the advice :)
 
superdave said:


It will change your life, trust me.
Click to expand...


Superdave,
are you serious or just having a laugh?
Afer a few bad relationships I'm thinking that I need an overhaul of my attitude towards the opposite sex.I might give this book a read.
 
Last edited:
having been in a similar situation recently


drop trying to contacther. she is either being a bitch who thinks head games like this won;t land her in trouble and treated like a cheap whore

or she had a legitamate reason but didnt care to tell you. so dont call her, if she cares a shred for you she will phone back. if she doesnt, its not worth it at all

and if she;s one of the few women u know......one of my few female friends who i went out on a few dates with and changed from being a total bitch to being nice........but then changed back again. women are fickle. dont believe people on here who say otherwise they are just trying to sugarcoat it. if she;s a bitch now she;s unlikely to chagne until she matures a bit
 
To who ever gave me bad karma for my first reply to this thread,fuck you buddy for being too chicken shit to sign it.






Anyone want to take credit for this piece of literary genius?


-No way are you really from Ireland with all that corny paddy whackery in your location, you big headed bastard.
 
well guys, i went out last night and i saw her one of her friends, she said shes no longer interested because im 'not her type' but im a nice guy and she does not want to lose contact with me WTF.

This bitch went out with her friends on the friday instead of going out with me and didnt even answer her phone or let me know, i cant believe she could do this to me and the worst thing is i dont know what ive done to deserve this exept being 'too nice'

Im hung over right now and my heads a complete mess, it may seem like im blowing this out of proportion but this whole thing took me by surprise, i wasnt even looking for a relationship but this has made me realise theres something missing in my life.

just venting.
 
Many women behave like scum, that one is probably one of them.
Best thing to do , look for a decent lady and not for a spoiled brat, even if it might take a few years.

I guess you won´t take her offer of friendship ;)
Most women don´t make good friends anyway
 
After that she definitely isn't worth bothering with.You should tell her friend,the next time you see her,that you already have plenty of female friends and thanks but no thanks.Say it in a sincere way though so she knows that you don't give a shit about how she's behaved and walk away.Not even bothering to tell you that she was going out with her friends is a pretty shitty thing to do.
 
I went through the same shit in NJ about a month ago, but she didn't have the decency to tell me she wasn't interested. She had one of her cunt friends, who my cousin is fucking, to tell him to tell me.

Apparently this broad thought that her lack of interest in me would send me into a pitt of depression; however, I let it roll right off me. Of course when she finds out that it didn't have any impact on me she keeps asking "Why hasn't Mike called? Is he interested in me"?

Forget about her. Don't be her friend. Act as if she doesn't exist. You don't need that kind of shit from some cunt.
 
you didnt do anything. if you did, she would probably have no problem telling you to get lost.

im certain that either:

a. the chemistry wasnt there for her and she didnt have the guts to just tell you she wasnt interested because you are a nice guy.

or

b. she has a boyfriend, was checking out the scenery, and lost her nerve/felt guilty/etc.

you dont want her dude. shes unstable.
 
Thanks for the advice im feeling much better now and shes certainly not worth any more of my thoughts, i think its probably what newbie2building said that the chemistry wasnt there

Although i asked her friend last night if it was because i was too nice and she said yes and that she is used to being treated like shit and has had bad times in the past with other bf's.

So i think i will quit looking for love at the moment and just concentrate on pleasing as many women as i can with quick love, i think i might go away on a lads holiday for a break and come back refreshed :)

p.s, pos karma for all you folks, your all great and the advice is much appreciated thanks.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

M
LOG JOURNAL MUSCLEMATRIX ENTRY 1
Replies
0
Views
201
moonshadow_shadowmoon
M
jsmith32
Approved Log TRT and Cycle Training Log
2
Replies
131
Views
5K
the_alcatraz
the_alcatraz
4
Deus Power Europe (Direct) - Testimonial
Replies
36
Views
669
the_alcatraz
the_alcatraz
Dr_Strangelove
Approved Log TRT Training and Lifestyle Journal
Replies
18
Views
2K
the_alcatraz
the_alcatraz
CrusaderNHH
Approved Log Retatrutide and HGH Recomp Cycle Log
2
Replies
185
Views
10K
Prymal
Prymal
Top Bottom