Here's a complaint for you...my g/f lives about 5 hours from me, so I decide to do something I thought was pretty cute and romantic over Valentines. Well, I knew she wasn't going to be home that weekend due to work. So, I decide to drive down to her place without telling her, leave her a rose, a card and stuffed stingray on her front door step and then make my way back home. On side note here, I chose the stingray because we just back from a western Caribbean cruise where we snorkeled with stingrays in Belize and Grand Cayman so I thought a stingray was more appropriate than a teddy.
Anyway, she had a stressful week and I figured that maybe by doing this little deed I would put a little smile on her face. In fact, on the card I wrote; " I hope I can take away a little of the stress by instead replacing it with a smile on your beautiful face...thinking of you" So, I left work a little earlier on Friday -3:00pm- and got to her place around 9:00pm. I drive up to her place, put the shit by the door and I leave her a message on her cell telling her that I was thinking of her and that I left her a little something by her front door. Everything's cool, up to this point.
Well, she got the gift Sat. morning and never called or emailed to tell me she got it or thanking me for the gesture until Monday evening. Whatever dude...What pisses me off is that she doesn't even think my drive was cute or romantic?! In fact she thought it was weird that I would drive down, leave her something and then head back home! I was only trying to make her feel a little better after of week of shit. If the roles would have been reversed and she drove up here to leave me something for when I got home, I can assure you, I would have taken the first flight out of here to go to her and ask her to marry her.
We talk tlast night and she doesn't feel the same way I feel about her. It's okay I guess, I can't make someone love me or change their feelings. i can only show the person that I'll go to any lengths to try and make them happy or smile. That' didn't work. So considering the distance b/w us I ended the relationship yesterday. God how I miss her already....
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Also, I have a job, which only pays $5.40 an hour, and I only work 18 hours a week.. . I have to make rent payments, nd utility payments, and I also have $5,000 credit card debt, for which I have to pay interest every month!.. 
