Bitch wrote me back:
Sarah wrote: well, i wasn't looking for a million responses, so i put up a lot of qualifications. i'm really not high maintenance or fussy, i'm just very secure with myself and don't think i should have to compromise what I want at this point in my life. as for the college thing, I honestly know that I get along better with college grads because we're on the same level. This is by trial and error, and i've found that since i consider myself very intelligent, and I like men that are as well, college is a good basic factor to have. Plus, we then have similar life experiences.
anyway, you are a little too old for me, but thanks for the criticism. I'll listen, but i'm not changing any of it yet.
Sarah
And I responded back:
Didnt mean to give you the impression I was interested, was simply helping since you are trying so hard at this. You dont have to compromise anything, but you risk turning away quality guys by having a huge laundry list of demands in an ad. If you tone down your ad you might have to sift through more emails but you wont turn off the great guys you are interested in the first place. Remember, beggars cant be overly choosy (I suspect if you were as high quality as the guy you are demanding, you wouldnt have to place an ad on the internet looking for it in the first place). Not trying to judge but Ive seen it way too many times. If you want a better format and men that would more than likely meet your standards checkout match.com or similar. Ive used it to meet good women myself.
Sarah wrote: well, i wasn't looking for a million responses, so i put up a lot of qualifications. i'm really not high maintenance or fussy, i'm just very secure with myself and don't think i should have to compromise what I want at this point in my life. as for the college thing, I honestly know that I get along better with college grads because we're on the same level. This is by trial and error, and i've found that since i consider myself very intelligent, and I like men that are as well, college is a good basic factor to have. Plus, we then have similar life experiences.
anyway, you are a little too old for me, but thanks for the criticism. I'll listen, but i'm not changing any of it yet.
Sarah
And I responded back:
Didnt mean to give you the impression I was interested, was simply helping since you are trying so hard at this. You dont have to compromise anything, but you risk turning away quality guys by having a huge laundry list of demands in an ad. If you tone down your ad you might have to sift through more emails but you wont turn off the great guys you are interested in the first place. Remember, beggars cant be overly choosy (I suspect if you were as high quality as the guy you are demanding, you wouldnt have to place an ad on the internet looking for it in the first place). Not trying to judge but Ive seen it way too many times. If you want a better format and men that would more than likely meet your standards checkout match.com or similar. Ive used it to meet good women myself.
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