Can the ladies explain this to me?

[javaguru]

Maybe the ladies can explain this to me. Why is it that women run when they meet a man and have a great connection? I've dated a few women and we had a great connection on the first date, to the point we're finishing each others thoughts, a really great date all around. Then they don't return phone calls or e-mails? WTF, when I have a great connection I'm more inclined to pursue dating or a relationship, not run, it just seems illogical and counter intuitive. i know we've all been hurt and getting emotionally involved carries a risk but WTF? Mind you, these ae educated professional women, not twenty two year old ding bats?

 

[KillahBee]

damn, this is usually the other way around, no? usually they jump in without thinking and it gets bad.

I am useless here. and also not a woman

 

[hotzie]

damn, this is usually the other way around, no? usually they jump in without thinking and it gets bad.

I am useless here. and also not a woman

wtf ??

 

[sawastea]

I am useless here. and also not a woman

Disagreed.

 

[KillahBee]

figures, the two dudes that hit on me constantly are trying to convince themselves it's normal.

 

[jackangel]

I am useless here

agreed

 

[javaguru]

Hey...quit hijacking my thread before I go coldblue and make a one hundred new ones!

 

[KillahBee]

sorry java, this one got fucked up right quick.

 

[Gymgurl]

There are many reasons.....some thoughts here......

1. your good looking so might assume your a player
2. Something freaked them out about you
3. they already have a boyfriend
4. didn't want anything to serious and you seemed way to intense....

Just some of my thoughts lol

 

[jackangel]

btw javaguru, i'm pretty sure it's your fear and mistrust of the lord jesus christ which causes you trouble now.

these lovely, intelligent, faithful women can sense your errant heathenism and are rightfully afraid.