bros before blood?

[jestros]

I'll try to keep it short.
My good bro from way back (14yrs). One of the last of the old crew I hang out with anymore. He also happens to be the brother of my X. Word of advice, don't marry your bor's sister.
Anyway things got pretty ugly with my divorce, and his parents got involved when they shouldnt. I'll spare all the details.
So now I'm getting ready to go to court again in July for some stupid shit, and when I thing about it makes me want to loose it.
Some how I've stayed friends with brohiem. He's kept the position of staying neutral. But that's just not working for me anymore. If my sister when psyco and pulled half the shit my x pulled, I would straight up tell her she's a stupid bitch and needs to cut the shit out.
Am I being petty? I've been avoiding him, but I feel like telling him to fuck off.
So what do you think should come first, bros, or blood?

 

[spongebob]

i kind of feel ya because i usually call em how i see em regardless if its family or not.

 

[newbiebynature]

uhmmm bloods is always first thats my opinion

 

[foreigngirl]

I think your own blood comes first

 

[digger]

1981, guy calls up his cousin in Poland. "Stan, how are things? Are the Russians your friends or your brothers?"

Stan shouts "They are our brothers, of course!" Then he whispers: "You CHOOSE your friends."

Look at it from his side, man; he's got his sister AND his parents out for your blood, and he's not rolling over for them. That sounds like a damn good friend. You should appreciate that and cut him some slack; he's doing his best by you.

 

[jestros]

So if your family was poking your bor in the eye with a sharp stick, you'd side with your family?
Fuuggg, I dont know about that. I've never been shy about standing up to the familia.

 

[spongebob]

do it, do it for johnny man.

 

[newbiebynature]

and why would a family poke a bro in the eye with a sharp stick?

So if your family was poking your bor in the eye with a sharp stick, you'd side with your family?
Fuuggg, I dont know about that. I've never been shy about standing up to the familia.

 

[spongebob]

and why would a family poke a bro in the eye with a sharp stick?

maybe they went camping and ran out of marshmellows, i dunno.

 

[jestros]

and why would a family poke a bro in the eye with a sharp stick?

met·a·phor ( P ) Pronunciation Key (mt-fôr, -fr)
n.
A figure of speech in which a word or phrase that ordinarily designates one thing is used to designate another, thus making an implicit comparison, as in “a sea of troubles” or “All the world's a stage” (Shakespeare).

I can get into more details to show the trouble I've had with said family. For instance. There is another sister, the older one, who was a junkie whore. Literally. The kids were 1 and 4 yrs old. We lived in boston, whore in NY. I was informed that whore was on a bus on the way over, because she needed a place to "kick".
I was pissed, and let it be known. She finally left after about three weeks. It turned out that she was still shootin, and had the gear in her backpack, which was accesible to the rug rats. I didnt physically throw her out, but she didn't leave happily. To me, I was in the right in all of this, but her whole family looked at me as the bad guy. Like I wasnt understanding enough.
There is but one example of a poke in the eye with a stick.

 

[newbiebynature]

She Was Shooting Steroids....oh My God....call The Cops!!!!!!!














jk

 

[theoak01]

I tihnk its none of his business so he is being a good bro about it all by keeping his nose out

 

[Sub-Zero]

I'll try to keep it short.
My good bro from way back (14yrs). One of the last of the old crew I hang out with anymore. He also happens to be the brother of my X. Word of advice, don't marry your bor's sister.
Anyway things got pretty ugly with my divorce, and his parents got involved when they shouldnt. I'll spare all the details.
So now I'm getting ready to go to court again in July for some stupid shit, and when I thing about it makes me want to loose it.
Some how I've stayed friends with brohiem. He's kept the position of staying neutral. But that's just not working for me anymore. If my sister when psyco and pulled half the shit my x pulled, I would straight up tell her she's a stupid bitch and needs to cut the shit out.
Am I being petty? I've been avoiding him, but I feel like telling him to fuck off.
So what do you think should come first, bros, or blood?

your being a dick if you cant accept that hes risking anger from his family to still be your friend.

noones gunna turn on their family like that, and hes damn cool and a good guy to be neutral and not take sides against you

 

[spongebob]

hate to say but sounds like a family of retards except for your bro.

 

[Sub-Zero]

hate to say but sounds like a family of retards except for your bro.

yeah but still, u cant expect him to completely go against his ENTIRE family just for one guy...as it is hes being cool just staying friends and not butting in

 

[spongebob]

yeah but still, u cant expect him to completely go against his ENTIRE family just for one guy...as it is hes being cool just staying friends and not butting in

o no i dont expect that at all. i think he's been a good bro not to. just staying nuetral. but me im different, like i said i call em like i see em.

these parents are probably nutcases.

 

[nycgirl]

i kind of feel ya because i usually call em how i see em regardless if its family or not.

I'm the say way with my family. Usually it stings (I say what I have to say in a respectful manner, of course) at first and they don't like it, but in the end, they appreciate my honesty.

 

[Gambino]

from the friends standpoint, his sis should come before you...i love my sister in law, great person, but if her and my bor got divorced, my feelings would turn on a dime.
Personally, i would say fuck the whole family and just avoid them, just like they will do to you eventually

 

[nutsnack]

(mt-fôr, -fr)


mtfur...?

 

[EnderJE]

It all depends...but my default answer is that my family comes first.

 

[JayC9]

can't really expect your friend to do anymore than stay neutral, he's wedged between a rock and a hard place

 

[HiDnGoD]

Your Bro's in a bind. If I was he, & it was my sister, I'd tell her to cut the shit. Still support her, but try to cut the drama.
With the parents involved, it's a little more difficult, They're gonna side with their baby, & whoever doesn't is scum (see aforementioned junkie whore).

Good luck to you Bro. Hope you stay tight with your friend after it's all over. He sounds like a good friend & they're hard to come by.