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I haven't followed this poster or even know anything about her/he/it.

So why drama following it?

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AAP said:
I haven't followed this poster or even know anything about her/he/it.

So why drama following it?

Post links if necessary.
Pintoca started this exact thread already.

condensed version is that she let the cat out of the bag that her family is well off, and the haters pile on her like nuts.
 
heatherrae said:
Pintoca started this exact thread already.

condensed version is that she let the cat out of the bag that her family is well off, and the haters pile on her like nuts.

H, really- i'm sure it has nothing to do with her family being well off. mine was, and i've said that here in a number of ways (from before I was a mod).
others here too.

i really feel its the attitude, not the content. i know you empathize with her (which i can totally understand) so it's probably hard for you to see clearly.
 
stilleto said:
H, really- i'm sure it has nothing to do with her family being well off. mine was, and i've said that here in a number of ways (from before I was a mod).
others here too.

i really feel its the attitude, not the content. i know you empathize with her (which i can totally understand) so it's probably hard for you to see clearly.
I see how some of her retorts piss people off. I'm not completely blind to it. I just think she has some faults but is a good person.
 
I think it was the attitude originally displayed in her "window tint" thread where she labeled policemen "peons", and thought the law didn't apply to her. Hubris.
 
redguru said:
I think it was the attitude originally displayed in her "window tint" thread where she labeled policemen "peons", and thought the law didn't apply to her. Hubris.

yes. i forgot about that thread. you're right. it set the tone and its still being set today.
 
heatherrae said:
Pintoca started this exact thread already.

condensed version is that she let the cat out of the bag that her family is well off, and the haters pile on her like nuts.


yep, that's pretty much it.. she's the typical silver spoon, that is not well acclimated to social behavior with the "help"...

so issues abound..
 
i dont now anything about her either i just give people the benefit of the doubt. but i have seen people on here bring out the worsed in others and then stand back and go "see, i told ya so".
 
bigmann245 said:
i dont now anything about her either i just give people the benefit of the doubt. but i have seen people on here bring out the worsed in others and then stand back and go "see, i told ya so".
Very true. They taunt and when someone gets nasty back, they point the finger and say, "look how nasty so and so got."
 
I gave her the benefit of the doubt too ; but not anymore.

Ick.

But whatever. lol. It IS the internet!!! she could be totally sweet and nice in real life; and maybe she cant communicate very well in text. I doubt it though.
 
I have had So MUCH UNIMAGINABLY VILE AND HATEFULL SHIT heaped on me for years not only here but on sites that I never visited so one would think that I would be the most sensitive to her plight.... right?

Guess what?

I'm not.

Silly girl. I tried to tell her that I still feel a strong sense of defending and lambasting any strong anti-female rhetoric. She told me, "YOU NEED TO CHILL AND GET OVER IT."

So as far as I am concerned - I am just standing on the curb waving as the traffic goes by. The worst thing that I have said to her is, "You are not very bright... are you?"

And I stand by that assessment.
 
redguru said:
I think it was the attitude originally displayed in her "window tint" thread where she labeled policemen "peons", and thought the law didn't apply to her. Hubris.


Give me more examples like this.
 
AAP said:
Give me more examples like this.

There was a thread started by someone poking fun at Jenna Jameson's recent cosmetic choochie surgery went awry story. I thought the thread was pretty funny till Ms Psyche chimed in. that is where my lack of empathy began for this girl. Long thread. Print it out and take it to the crapper... LOL

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=541641&highlight=Jenna+Jameson

I didn't read the window tinting/police are peons thread so I can't comment on that.
 
cindylou said:
I gave her the benefit of the doubt too ; but not anymore.

Ick.

But whatever. lol. It IS the internet!!! she could be totally sweet and nice in real life; and maybe she cant communicate very well in text. I doubt it though.



i hate when a chat or text message comes across wrong. i have sent text's and had the person blast back and when i re-read the origional text i was like oh shit.

not saying thats whats happening to her i have not read her posts yet. i just try to keep the peace is all.
 
Okay, being completely honest here. I saw the cop thread, which I didn't agree with her about. I saw the Jenna Jameson thing, which I stated that I didn't agree. I sort of see why she would annoy some peeps, but she doesn't seem to be hateful, mean, selfish, etc. She seems young and a bit protected from the outside world to me, but good at heart.
 
heatherrae said:
Okay, being completely honest here. I saw the cop thread, which I didn't agree with her about. I saw the Jenna Jameson thing, which I stated that I didn't agree. I sort of see why she would annoy some peeps, but she doesn't seem to be hateful, mean, selfish, etc. She seems young and a bit protected from the outside world to me, but good at heart.

She has ZERO sense of how her words/behavior affect other people. Instead of eating a little humble pie when she clearly comes off like AN ASS - she tells those peeps, "YOU NEED TO GET OVER IT AND CHILL."

So, I will just keep reiterating that she should just learn to take her own advice. :)

Simple Shmimple
 
BIKINIMOM said:
I have had So MUCH UNIMAGINABLY VILE AND HATEFULL SHIT heaped on me for years not only here but on sites that I never visited so one would think that I would be the most sensitive to her plight.... right?

Guess what?

I'm not.

Silly girl. I tried to tell her that I still feel a strong sense of defending and lambasting any strong anti-female rhetoric. She told me, "YOU NEED TO CHILL AND GET OVER IT."

So as far as I am concerned - I am just standing on the curb waving as the traffic goes by. The worst thing that I have said to her is, "You are not very bright... are you?"

And I stand by that assessment.

Certain things people have said I understand...but I really think calling her intelligence into question serves no purpose but to be hurtful.
 
nefertiti said:
Certain things people have said I understand...but I really think calling her intelligence into question serves no purpose but to be hurtful.

No - not at all. I am not trying to hurt her feelings. I have given her kudos over and over again for finishing undergrad - something that I never did.

But her lack of ability to be more circumspect clearly illustrates a lack of intelligence on her part.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I am calling it like I see it. You can agree to disagree and WE will still be cool. :heart:

I have never once said that she was evil or malicious... just not very bright.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
No - not at all. I am not trying to hurt her feelings. I have given her kudos over and over again for finishing undergrad - something that I never did.

But her lack of ability to be more circumspect clearly illustrates a lack of intelligence on her part.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I am calling it like I see it. You can agree to disagree and WE will still be cool. :heart:

I have never once said that she was evil or malicious... just not very bright.
LOL - right you give me kudos for that. Then you follow it saying insulting things about how education isn't everything (which I agree with but you explicitily say it to try to be nasty) or that I am pretty unintelligent for someone with an undergrad degree who lacks a lot of real world experience etc etc - you always counter something nice w/ something mean...
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
LOL - right you give me kudos for that. Then you follow it saying insulting things about how education isn't everything (which I agree with but you explicitily say it to try to be nasty) or that I am pretty unintelligent for someone with an undergrad degree who lacks a lot of real world experience etc etc - you always counter something nice w/ something mean...

Sorta like you saying, "I understand what you are saying, BUT YOU NEED TO GET OVER IT AND CHILL."

LOL

Try to apply your own advice to yourself before doling it out to others and just *MAYBE* the attitudes of others will change... right along with yours. It's called *accepting personal responsibility*. Does a body good. :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Sorta like you saying, "I understand what you are saying, BUT YOU NEED TO GET OVER IT AND CHILL."

LOL

Try to apply your own advice to yourself before doling it out to others and just *MAYBE* the attitudes of others will change... right along with yours. It's called *accepting personal responsibility*. Does a body good. :)
Uhm, last I checked, saying "you need to get over it and chill," isn't insulting you. I never said anything to degrade your character or intelligence. And why are you the only woman on here who is getting her panties in a bunch about this?
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Uhm, last I checked, saying "you need to get over it and chill," isn't insulting you. I never said anything to degrade your character or intelligence. And why are you the only woman on here who is getting her panties in a bunch about this?

Ummm yes it is.

When you COMMAND anyone to do anything it IS insulting and degrading of my station in life/my character AND my intelligence as the implication is that you are somehow above me or better than me. <---- was it ONLY ME who has been saying this about you?

And you have NO IDEA how many women on this board, veterans and newer members alike, share the same opinion. I am just the one who is most bored for the moment.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Ummm yes it is.

When you COMMAND anyone to do anything it IS insulting and degrading of my station in life/my character AND my intelligence as the implication is that you are somehow above me or better than me. <---- was it ONLY ME who has been saying this about you?

And you have NO IDEA how many women on this board, veterans and newer members alike, share the same opinion. I am just the one who is most bored for the moment.
I think that with anything I say, you can turn it into being negative or mean. That was not what I was doing. Telling someone to chill or relax IMO, is not degrading them so that was not what I was doing to you.

Many women laughed at this joke as well - but whatever. I see your point and we will agree to disagree. I hold a different opinion. To me, what's more degrading than that joke, are the women who actually DEGRADE THEMSELVES and other females by participating in porn so millions can see them on camera.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
I think that with anything I say, you can turn it into being negative or mean. That was not what I was doing. Telling someone to chill or relax IMO, is not degrading them so that was not what I was doing to you.

Many women laughed at this joke as well - but whatever. I see your point and we will agree to disagree. I hold a different opinion. To me, what's more degrading than that joke, are the women who actually DEGRADE THEMSELVES and other females by participating in porn so millions can see them on camera.

I think I look pretty damn good onm Camera! Besides, I paid good money for those women to stand there with a tool belt and repair that broken cabinet.
:santa:
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
I think that with anything I say, you can turn it into being negative or mean. That was not what I was doing. Telling someone to chill or relax IMO, is not degrading them so that was not what I was doing to you.

Many women laughed at this joke as well - but whatever. I see your point and we will agree to disagree. I hold a different opinion. To me, what's more degrading than that joke, are the women who actually DEGRADE THEMSELVES and other females by participating in porn so millions can see them on camera.

When you COMMAND SOMEONE you are degrading them.

Here is an example:

"Sit down and shut up"

or

"Please take a seat and be quiet."

Both statements are essentially saying the same thing but will be received quite differently. Do you see what I am saying?

As for porn - I began my statement that I am not a supporter of the industry AT ALL. The fact that you thought it was "less offensive" to use that particular MYTH designed purely to devalue women because it was made in reference to a porn star is what REALLY put me off. Not that I would want any of my daughter to EVER earn a living that way, but it would make them no less human if they did. You still didn't get it.

The joke was NOT funny even though you said it in reference to some "lowly piece of scum pornstar". I dont know any porn stars so that is not MY OPINION but your comments seem to indicate that this is what you feel and if that is - that is YOUR RIGHT as it is the right of anyone who feels it is ok to ridicule Jews, old people, mentally retarded people - or any other group of people.

I get particularly offended (as I have explained to you ad nauseum) because one of the main reasons I was asked to moderate this site (as I did for many years before you were here) was to draw and DEFEND WOMEN. And believe it or not, an old board member who is from what I understand a successful competitor IS A PORN STAR.... SHE got a shit storm of abuse. Surprize - surprize NONE OF IT CAME FROM ME.

I should wonder how you would receive posts from her about diet/training/whathaveyou just because of how she chose to earn her living at one time regardless of the validity and content of her posts? But even after having said that - I still say that is your right. I am only telling you to try and think before you type because you are obviously not coming across to many of us the way you claim to want to.

THAT IS NOT ON US. THAT IS ON YOU. <---- not meant to be mean or harsh. I am only trying to be as real and to the point as possible.

Just TRY to think *this much* before you choose your words and if you screw up (I am THE QUEEN OF HOOF IN MOUTH DISEASE) then please TRY BETTER to back that thing up and recognize. You may find that you will get a lot less guff in the future if you do that.


Or not.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
When you COMMAND SOMEONE you are degrading them.

Here is an example:

"Sit down and shut up"

or

"Please take a seat and be quiet."

Both statements are essentially saying the same thing but will be received quite differently. Do you see what I am saying?
Ok, I don't find this offensive but I see how you do. And I understand. I find direct insults more offensive. Meaning blatently saying it. I've had teachers tell me to be sit down and please be quiet, etc but I never saw it as degrading so just relating it back to my experiences but I am trying to be more open minded and understand what you mean so I will not say that again to you.

BIKINIMOM said:
As for porn - I began my statement that I am not a supporter of the industry AT ALL. The fact that you thought it was "less offensive" to use that particular MYTH designed purely to devalue women because it was made in reference to a porn star is what REALLY put me off. Not that I would want any of my daughter to EVER earn a living that way, but it would make them no less human if they did. You still didn't get it.
Again, I see what you're saying but I differ in opinion. I believe that actually participating in the industry is more degrading than making a joke about it but I will refrain from doing it again in the future because I do see how it is offensive to people.

BIKINIMOM said:
The joke was NOT funny even though you said it in reference to some "lowly piece of scum pornstar". I dont know any porn stars so that is not MY OPINION but your comments seem to indicate that this is what you feel and if that is - that is YOUR RIGHT as it is the right of anyone who feels it is ok to ridicule Jews, old people, mentally retarded people - or any other group of people.
Not everyone chooses to be mentally handicap, raised a certain religion, etc. Porn stars choose to go into the business. I do not think of anyone as less of a human being for choosing a particular career or hobby... I just think that certain choices degrade a name in general.

BIKINIMOM said:
I get particularly offended (as I have explained to you ad nauseum) because one of the main reasons I was asked to moderate this site (as I did for many years before you were here) was to draw and DEFEND WOMEN. And believe it or not, an old board member who is from what I understand a successful competitor IS A PORN STAR.... SHE got a shit storm of abuse. Surprize - surprize NONE OF IT CAME FROM ME.

I should wonder how you would receive posts from her about diet/training/whathaveyou just because of how she chose to earn her living at one time regardless of the validity and content of her posts? But even after having said that - I still say that is your right. I am only telling you to try and think before you type because you are obviously not coming across to many of us the way you claim to want to.
Again, I don't think of a person as less of a human being - I simply just disagree with their choice of career (or at least side career to make $).

BIKINIMOM said:
THAT IS NOT ON US. THAT IS ON YOU. <---- not meant to be mean or harsh. I am only trying to be as real and to the point as possible.

Just TRY to think *this much* before you choose your words and if you screw up (I am THE QUEEN OF HOOF IN MOUTH DISEASE) then please TRY BETTER to back that thing up and recognize. You may find that you will get a lot less guff in the future if you do that.
I will try to do this and watch what I say more so I do not offend people.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
When you COMMAND SOMEONE you are degrading them.

Here is an example:

"Sit down and shut up"

or

"Please take a seat and be quiet."

Both statements are essentially saying the same thing but will be received quite differently. Do you see what I am saying?

As for porn - I began my statement that I am not a supporter of the industry AT ALL. The fact that you thought it was "less offensive" to use that particular MYTH designed purely to devalue women because it was made in reference to a porn star is what REALLY put me off. Not that I would want any of my daughter to EVER earn a living that way, but it would make them no less human if they did. You still didn't get it.

The joke was NOT funny even though you said it in reference to some "lowly piece of scum pornstar". I dont know any porn stars so that is not MY OPINION but your comments seem to indicate that this is what you feel and if that is - that is YOUR RIGHT as it is the right of anyone who feels it is ok to ridicule Jews, old people, mentally retarded people - or any other group of people.

I get particularly offended (as I have explained to you ad nauseum) because one of the main reasons I was asked to moderate this site (as I did for many years before you were here) was to draw and DEFEND WOMEN. And believe it or not, an old board member who is from what I understand a successful competitor IS A PORN STAR.... SHE got a shit storm of abuse. Surprize - surprize NONE OF IT CAME FROM ME.

I should wonder how you would receive posts from her about diet/training/whathaveyou just because of how she chose to earn her living at one time regardless of the validity and content of her posts? But even after having said that - I still say that is your right. I am only telling you to try and think before you type because you are obviously not coming across to many of us the way you claim to want to.

THAT IS NOT ON US. THAT IS ON YOU. <---- not meant to be mean or harsh. I am only trying to be as real and to the point as possible.

Just TRY to think *this much* before you choose your words and if you screw up (I am THE QUEEN OF HOOF IN MOUTH DISEASE) then please TRY BETTER to back that thing up and recognize. You may find that you will get a lot less guff in the future if you do that.


Or not.

Yeah, but she is going out with Peter.
 
InquisitivePsyche said:
Ok, I don't find this offensive but I see how you do. And I understand. I find direct insults more offensive. Meaning blatently saying it. I've had teachers tell me to be sit down and please be quiet, etc but I never saw it as degrading so just relating it back to my experiences but I am trying to be more open minded and understand what you mean so I will not say that again to you.


Again, I see what you're saying but I differ in opinion. I believe that actually participating in the industry is more degrading than making a joke about it but I will refrain from doing it again in the future because I do see how it is offensive to people.


Not everyone chooses to be mentally handicap, raised a certain religion, etc. Porn stars choose to go into the business. I do not think of anyone as less of a human being for choosing a particular career or hobby... I just think that certain choices degrade a name in general.


Again, I don't think of a person as less of a human being - I simply just disagree with their choice of career (or at least side career to make $).


I will try to do this and watch what I say more so I do not offend people.

Apology accepted. That took guts and humility so you have now earned my respect.

You will NEVER hear me bring it up again.
 
I got into one discussion with her thinking she was a stoopid guy. lolol She did an excellent job at coming across as one. I look at stoopid guys the same way I look at pet rabbits or ferrets. Cute, but keep them in a cage or they get shit everywhere.

When I found out she was a female, I was just annoyed by her. I still think she's stupid, though. :)
 
the-short-one said:
I got into one discussion with her thinking she was a stoopid guy. lolol She did an excellent job at coming across as one. I look at stoopid guys the same way I look at pet rabbits or ferrets. Cute, but keep them in a cage or they get shit everywhere.

When I found out she was a female, I was just annoyed by her. I still think she's stupid, though. :)

yer hot.
:heart:
 
the-short-one said:
you are more than welcome to come do a leg workout with me any time. Tuesdays & Fridays.
If I'm ever in ur area I will. You do something like quads/calves on tue and hams/calves on friday?
 
stilleto said:
i really feel its the attitude, not the content. i know you empathize with her (which i can totally understand) so it's probably hard for you to see clearly.

hahahahaha

*calms down*

..............

hahahahahaa
 
the-short-one said:
you're so smart. exactly.
One of my good friends was telling me how he did that all year from nationals 05 til nationals 06 and ended up turning pro. His hams were hanging for being in one of the lighter weight classes.
 
redguru said:
I think it was the attitude originally displayed in her "window tint" thread where she labeled policemen "peons", and thought the law didn't apply to her. Hubris.


That one pretty much got the ball rolling.
 
AAP said:
I haven't followed this poster or even know anything about her/he/it.

So why drama following it?

Post links if necessary.
YOur answer is, there is no logical explanation. She's simply EF's Flavor of the Month. You know how that goes.
 
funny how ppl can call others stupid, when in reality, they have an IQ of a newt!
 
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the-short-one said:
I got into one discussion with her thinking she was a stoopid guy. lolol She did an excellent job at coming across as one. I look at stoopid guys the same way I look at pet rabbits or ferrets. Cute, but keep them in a cage or they get shit everywhere.

When I found out she was a female, I was just annoyed by her. I still think she's stupid, though. :)
Uh - thanks.
 
Who is IP and why have I not E-flirted with her before?
Ladies fill her in on how I put out on the first date would you...
 
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