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nick33

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Didnt Want To Jack That Other Guys Thread But Lets Hear Your Opinion On This Siyuation. Been With Her Three Years Just Broke Up She Said She Was Not In Love With Me Anymore, We Have A Kid. She Says We Just Need Time Apart And Maybe One Day We Will Be Back Together! What Should I Do , I Dont Want To Talk To Her So She Can Realize How It Is Without Me/ But On The Other Hand I Will See Her When I Pick Up My Kid?? Any Opinions How To Handle The Situation?? Thanks Brotherhood

LISTENING TO WHAT U GUYS HAVE SAID TO THE OTHER GUY HAS INSPIRED ME THANKS
 
Whas this caused by steroid abuse?\


Whas = Was...sorry guys..I hope you understand my post now..
 
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so how do i stay away from her to let her know whats shes missing, if i have to see her when i p/up my kid?? and how should i act?
 
nick33 said:
Didnt Want To Jack That Other Guys Thread But Lets Hear Your Opinion On This Siyuation. Been With Her Three Years Just Broke Up She Said She Was Not In Love With Me Anymore, We Have A Kid. She Says We Just Need Time Apart And Maybe One Day We Will Be Back Together! What Should I Do , I Dont Want To Talk To Her So She Can Realize How It Is Without Me/ But On The Other Hand I Will See Her When I Pick Up My Kid?? Any Opinions How To Handle The Situation?? Thanks Brotherhood

LISTENING TO WHAT U GUYS HAVE SAID TO THE OTHER GUY HAS INSPIRED ME THANKS
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Nothing you can do...once someone says "im not in love with you anymore" its over..that just down right 100% raw honesty...takes alot for someone to admit that to someone they know is in love with them...also she probably met someone new...if she told you that, she has probably felt that way for a while, but since you have a child she was just comftorable and un-happy..now she may have found someone to spark something inside her to make her want to leave...
 
nick33 said:
so how do i stay away from her to let her know whats shes missing, if i have to see her when i p/up my kid?? and how should i act?
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Hire a hot escort to be with you when you pick them up!! Jealousy will tear em up just as much as the no-calling them.
 
brewers said:
You Should Act Like A Total Jackass. Show Up Late And Drunk...lol J/k
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Yeah thats maybe not quite the best idea when you are picking up a child! A prostitute maybe but not a child!! lol!
 
I have to agree with swordfish on this issue... Once she said "I dont love you anymore" it's over... Sorry bro, I know that is harsh, but the truth.

Hopefully, you and her can stay on good terms for the kids sake

Good luck bro!!!!

Why is this in the Steriod forum again?
 
anabolic12 said:
I have to agree with swordfish on this issue... Once she said "I dont love you anymore" it's over... Sorry bro, I know that is harsh, but the truth.

Hopefully, you and her can stay on good terms for the kids sake

Good luck bro!!!!

Why is this in the Steriod forum again?
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Because...?
 
GOLUAN said:
Because...?
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Because what? You need some help reading my post.. Would you like for me to re-word it so you can understand it?

It really wasnt a very complex post

Do you think you could get us a picture of your wife bent over?


lol, just messing w/ you
 
GOLUAN said:
Whas this caused by steroid abuse?
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Would you like for me to write my post over in the grammer that you use? So maybe you can understand what I was saying?


Whas? Are you trying to spell "Was"


lol
 
Its in the steroid forum because... he posted it in the wrong forum. But fuckit, who cares.

As fish and some others have said... youre going to have to swallow your pride man and move on. Simple. 3 years, a kid, and she told you shes not in love with you anymore. It doesnt get more black and white than that. Bottom line is she is seeing someone else. As hard as it is going to be for you to stomach this, its whats going on and the sooner you try and push past it and move on, the better you are going to be.

Time, new pussy, friends and the gym are going to be what gets you through this bud. Goodluck. I know from personal experience how difficult this type of situation can be. I hope you handle it as well as can be expected. :coffee:
 
Just dont drag the kid in the situation...Try to keep the feelings hidden from the kid. I went through this when I was younger. I remember everything that went on. Just take it day by day bro...Atleast you still have access to your child...The kid is the most important thing in this situation...Keep you head up and take it one step at a time bro..
 
Whatever you do, don't act like you used to because obviously that is a part of why she dumped you. Just so up and be polite. Not condescending, not ass kissing, not angry, but polite. Treat her the same way you would treat your boss at your job. Polite but also impersonal. If she asks how you are doing or anything, don't attempt to impress her with "how well you are doing" or someone that you have already met. Just tell her you are doing great, working a lot, etc.. something that is nonthreatening to her ego.

She got your child so this bitch literally has you by the balls, not just now but for the next 18 years until this child becomes legal age. She can make your life very very miserable if she took a notion. And chances are she will if you throw some gas on her fire. The fact she is even letting you see your child without a court order is a kind gesture on her part.

There is no promise in the future you will get back together but as it sounds that would not be what you want anyway as she has already shown you that she can fall out of love with you easily. As immortalis said, friends and the gym will get you through this. Just make sure you don't upset her too much and rock her boat because that is going to come back and haunt you.

And BTW, sometimes it is ok to ask questions like this in the AAS forum with the people you interact mostly with and have an idea what you are like so you can get some feedback before it is moved to the appropiate forum. Because the C&C crowd would have been ruthless here.
 
u guys rock, thanks for helping,m so she says this this morning, she thinks i should move out and we should try dating to see if we can get the "spark" back, this after i have only been gone 3 days. She doesnt know what she wants does she?? All i can think of is getting to the gym and making her realize she gave up a good thing
 
I know this isn't roid related but seems to be the topic today. Since we've all been through it let me share something I discovered about 3 mnths ago. First off I have 0 to do with this author or site. I stumbled on it doing a web search for divorce. I wake up one morning and completely out of the blue my wife tells me she wants a divorce (WTF!!). Everything was going through my mind. Well being the stubborn prick I am I was about ready to hand her a ham sandwich and a roadmap. However, I have 2 daughters (2 & 4) that I would live through hell for. I was searching for mediators etc when I found this site. I started implementing what he was saying and it fucking worked. It worked so well ...I started implementing it in otherl areas of my life (I'm in sales) and it works! It's completely changed how I deal with (manipulate) people, especially women. Before if a customer said my products sucked I would immediately get defensive and pissed off and tell them to go fuck themselves. Now I agree and SHUT UP. Like the old negotiating edict goes....first one to talk loses. You don't have to buy the book just the teaser on the website has some pearls. Read it 2-3 times and try it.Ifit doesn't work at least you went out with you pride intact...don't be a BaBa Booey.

www.stopyourdivorce.com

P.S. Still with the wife.
 
nick33 said:
u guys rock, thanks for helping,m so she says this this morning, she thinks i should move out and we should try dating to see if we can get the "spark" back, this after i have only been gone 3 days. She doesnt know what she wants does she?? All i can think of is getting to the gym and making her realize she gave up a good thing
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Honestly bro, that wouldnt be my motivation in this situation because as I said it honestly sounds like shes already moved on... and I think she has just been courteous to you because she obviously knows you love her, have the child together and because of all the time spent together. Be thankful that you had someone who kinda let you down easy for the most part... I mean hell you coulda found out way worse things, in a much more difficult manner to deal with.

I would go in with the motivation of "Im going to put this behind me, move on, and find someone that is going to appreciate everything that I bring to the table." Because in my mind, if you center your focus around the breakup and making her realize this and that, or her wishing this and that... you are never truly moving on. And until you do that, you will never achieve the level of happiness we all wish for.

goodluck bro. We are all pulling for you.

Gym, New Pussy, Friends and Time my man... simple

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First off, act cool. There is a child involved here, you dont want to sit there and argue in front of the kid and such.Yet, dont lead her into thinking that you are a bag of useless shit with out her. Also after investing 3 years and a child with this gal you dont want to damper any thing incase there is a way that you will be back together again.
She may just be going through a phase right now where she realizes that she is with you for the long run and that she will never have the single girl life again. Or she is cheating on you. I honestly dont believe in "not being in love any more". People can not just fall out of love with one another, it is not that simple.
The thing is that you need to look deep inside yourself and ask yourself some questions.
Do you want to be with her or not. Are you going to amount to much with out her. etc...
We can only offer advice to you, but we dont know your heart.
Personally if my husband told me after 3 years and a child that he did not love me any more I would bitch slap his ass. Unless I saw signs leading up to it. It takes a while for a heart to stray, it does not happen over night. IMO if she has truly fallen out of love with you then you would know it because she would have been an ugly bitch towards you for some time.
 
maybe she isn't really cheating on him... maybe she just needs a break from his crazy ass.
 
lots of break ups recently. sucks guys :( I feel for you.
 
The first sign of a woman who is cheating is the space apart excuse. The second is the maybe someday later we will get back together excuse....that means she is cheating or has someone or even a few prospects in mind....Again...9 out of 10 times they come crawling back. Just let time expire and move on.....I was with my 1st wife for 8 years dude....I was miserable until I learned to be alone.....


Kaz
 
mkazzbmf said:
The first sign of a woman who is cheating is the space apart excuse. The second is the maybe someday later we will get back together excuse....that means she is cheating or has someone or even a few prospects in mind....Again...9 out of 10 times they come crawling back.
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I agree with this post 100%. Another thing I will add is that a girl never wants space, or to be alone with "time off". Girls will not break up with anyone unless they have another dude right there ready to go, probably already slept with him to make sure they are compatible. Guys may dump a girl just to be single because the whole "being in a relationship" is getting old. But girls NEVER do that - they HATE being single, and if they get dumped will latch onto almost anything in the short term so they are not alone.
 
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