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Binge Eating

I used to binge eat, and I've now stopped. Intelligent dieting and a fresh outlook on life were the keys behind my recovery.

Previously I would eat too few calories and crave foods - any foods - that resulted in uncontrollable binges and a yo-yo-diet effect where I made no forward progress in terms of fat loss, but also didn't get noticably fat (as a result of the caloric restriction-binge cycle). I actually put on a bit of muscle through my binging, along with some fat of course. For example, I would follow a diet like the T-Mag "Fat Fast" (extremely low-calorie keto diet) for 1-3 weeks, and then give in and binge for a day. Then start the diet the next day. Then binge for a few days in a row and use an excuse like "I'll start dieting again on Monday", etc... It was quite a vicious and depressing cycle.

Finally, I had enough of what I was doing to myself. To the average person I looked fine, but I was sick and tired of my mental state and decided I'd do things the right way. I got serious and ditched the crazy dieting regimes. I wanted things to happen over-night, but finally realised this wasn't possible. Key to my recovery were a few things:
1. John Beradi's "Don't Diet" plan @ T-Mag - its like you're not even on a diet - very balanced, good amount of calories, slow and steady fat loss.
2. Playing competitive sport - in a team situation you can't afford to let your team-mates down. You have to be completely unselfish and reliable.
3. A fresh start in life - I changed university courses and jobs, and my outlook on life also changed. Both my course and job weren't at all interesting to me, and I decided to do things that I enjoyed. I deliberately fell out of contact with people that I didn't feel comfortable around, or people that made me feel like some kind of a lesser person. Around the same time I also took a holiday to a tropical island with a good mate of mine. We spent a week relaxing, thinking, talking, drinking, and partying :D This was one of the best things I did for myself. Lying around the pool, reading, sleeping - helped get my mind straight and re-assess the things that are really important to me.
4. Finding EF and stumbling across some posts about "refeeds", links to Par's articles etc... These articles, this forum, and some T-Mag articles helped shape my dietary knowledge and thinking to a point where I knew I could really beat this thing for good. As a result I haven't looked back....

That may make it sound easier than it was. To beat an eating disorder without any outside help (still nobody knows!) was one of the most daunting and challenging (and stupid?) tasks I could think of facing. However, I'm proud that I managed to overcome it, and hope that people realise that they can do the same thing too. To some extent I think all ED sufferers will always live with their disorder to some extent - they just get them under-control to a point where they don't really exist any more, but are always in the back of the individual's mind...

Hope that helps :)
 
That's the aspect of the problem I was looking into. The personal reasons why it is done.
Supergirl-I don't ever give this guy shit. I know it would fuck him up even more (how much more I don't know). Anyway, thanks for the info and good luck staying away from ED's.
BM-Cool. Good job.
 
if anyone can go on life without cheating or going ape crazy on food once in a while then you are sick. you gotta enjoy life once in a while and go bizerk. eat the fucking fridge, and when you finish clean out the freezer. then go out to dinner at a pizza place and raid it. and did y'all hear about the chocolate extreme blizzard at dairy queen? oh lord, on the way home after pizza, pick one up to go. those things are heaven sent. :D
 
CongoJoe said:
if anyone can go on life without cheating or going ape crazy on food once in a while then you are sick. you gotta enjoy life once in a while and go bizerk. eat the fucking fridge, and when you finish clean out the freezer. then go out to dinner at a pizza place and raid it. and did y'all hear about the chocolate extreme blizzard at dairy queen? oh lord, on the way home after pizza, pick one up to go. those things are heaven sent. :D

Unfortunately you don't understand what an eating disorder really is.
 
CongoJoe said:
if anyone can go on life without cheating or going ape crazy on food once in a while then you are sick. you gotta enjoy life once in a while and go bizerk. eat the fucking fridge, and when you finish clean out the freezer. then go out to dinner at a pizza place and raid it. and did y'all hear about the chocolate extreme blizzard at dairy queen? oh lord, on the way home after pizza, pick one up to go. those things are heaven sent. :D

Yeah, that's fine to have cheat meals or days. Binge Eating: Some people start and psychologicaly can't stop.
 
It's usually a combination of individual factors that triggers a cycle of bingeing. The best way to heal is to figure out what those factors are and plan your life such that they don't occur (at least simultaneously).

For me it's the following:

1- deprivation from food in the past (whether b/c of monetary reasons or strict dieting)

2- loneliness (not having your friends/family close by)

3- living alone/ isolation

4- lack of sun

5- boredom

6- feeling fat/ failure


I think everyone is different. For example, some people binge when they are under stress, whereas, when I am under pressure and my mind is occupied, I am far less likely to binge.

I've also noticed that a lot people who binge are perfectionists. It takes a lot of practice to learn to forgive yourself for having gone off track just a little.
 
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Kid Dynamite said:
I noticed alot of people on this board seem to have eating disorders. How did you develop them? What's the deal? Do you get a taste of something off-limits and find it unable to stop until you're bloated and hurting? Are you punishing yourself for messing up?
If you fuck up on your diet, stop it right when it starts and do some damage control. Think about it. If you get a flat tire, do you jump out and shoot the other three? Hellllll Naaahhhhh. So why do that when you diet? Is it purely in your head? I know someone who eats this way, that's why I'm asking. He doesn't respond to anything me and a freind tell him.
Oh yeah, I'm not trying to talk down to you or tell you you're chicken shit for having a problem. I'm just trying to figure out what triggers it and why you can't stop.


YOU WONT UNDERSTAND THE DYNAMIC OF OF THE SITUATION TILL YOU BEEN THERE. PLAIN AND SIMPLE
 
Kid Dynamite,
I agree with your post 100%
I have been battling a diet/binging process for a while now and I am committed to beating it. Your advise about the flat tire and shooting the other 3 has helped me out a lot over the past 2 days!!! Great Post, everyone brought up some interesting points.

thanks!!!
:D
 
Thanks everyone....I have had this problem in past. In fact the recent past. I have been dieting now for 2 months and have had great progress. Before that I was depressed about what life had given me and ate like a horse. In a matter of 2 months I put on 20 pounds of just FAT.

Since I started dieting I don't think about all the shit that has happened to me recently and spend most of my time concentrating on WO's and diets. I know it isn't the best thing to do, but it keeps me from getting in the dumps.
 
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