Biggest change a woman/man has asked you to make

[rudeboyja]

Has a woman (or man) asked you to make a personality/lifestyle/anything change? Did you do it? 2 reason's I ask.

Close girl of mine is dating this dude who wants her to get implants. Buddy of mine just got married and his wife wants him to give up his Ravens season tics.

I just think it's BS when people try to change you.

 

[blueta2]

Fitting into a relationship involves change... so two ppl should try to adjust to each other. But to ask someone to give up season tix or get boobs, well that is not askng for change, that is about control. Not the same!

 

[jh1]

Fitting into a relationship involves change... so two ppl should try to adjust to each other. But to ask someone to give up season tix or get boobs, well that is not askng for change, that is about control. Not the same!

I'd control you, bitch.

 

[Cal_21]

Has a woman (or man) asked you to make a personality/lifestyle/anything change? Did you do it? 2 reason's I ask.

Close girl of mine is dating this dude who wants her to get implants. Buddy of mine just got married and his wife wants him to give up his Ravens season tics.

I just think it's BS when people try to change you.

Both of those scenarios are fucked up. If they don't like you for who YOU are, they need to find someone else...I can understand if they want to help you stop something that's killing you...i.e. heroin addiction or alcoholism once it's ruining your body. Other than that, it's just not right. I was asked to give up my partying ways once, dropped the girlfriend. Very happy with my decision. lol.

 

[blueta2]

I'd control you, bitch.

I would welcome that ;-)

 

[Cal_21]

I would welcome that ;-)

Cheating on me?.....jh1 ;-) lolololol

 

[heatherrae]

OMG, every time I get in a relationship it seems that they want the world.

They want me to spend less time working, or more time working, or more time being suzy homemaker, or to cut my hair, to get rid of my cats, or SOMETHING.

 

[blueta2]

Cheating on me?.....jh1 ;-) lolololol

I didn't know we were dating? ;-) Are u trying to change me already?

 

[Cal_21]

I didn't know we were dating? ;-) Are u trying to change me already?

Change you into a thong maybe...that's all.

 

[blueta2]

OMG, every time I get in a relationship it seems that they want the world.

They want me to spend less time working, or more time working, or more time being suzy homemaker, or to cut my hair, to get rid of my cats, or SOMETHING.

I've never once had a guy ask me to change anything about myself.
I meet very quiet guys though