Best bud gets married... I'm in a quandry...

[patsfan1379]

So two of my bestest friends are getting hitched. I am having a party for them. Do I invite the ex? I really have no need to feel uncomfortable in my own place, but she was just as much friends with them as I was.

Hmmm... I think I know the answer, but hey I'll throw it out there.

 

[Meantime1]

So two of my bestest friends are getting hitched. I am having a party for them. Do I invite the ex? I really have no need to feel uncomfortable in my own place, but she was just as much friends with them as I was.

Hmmm... I think I know the answer, but hey I'll throw it out there.

Hey why not go for it, since u guys are both adults, and both handle it, then there should be no problems

 

[Y_lifter]

Wasn't this an episode of 2 guys a girl and a pizza place ?

 

[patsfan1379]

no, it was Mad About You.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

if its the official wedding party, then yes. if its just a thing that youre doing for your friends, then no.

 

[jerseyart]

if its the official wedding party, then yes. if its just a thing that youre doing for your friends, then no.

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[patsfan1379]

if its the official wedding party, then yes. if its just a thing that youre doing for your friends, then no.

thats what I was thinking... is it wrong of me to not give a shit if it makes her mad that I didnt invite her??

its kinda gonna be like, all of our friends, her best friend... and not her.

she is gonna be soo left out.

 

[Meantime1]

thats what I was thinking... is it wrong of me to not give a shit if it makes her mad that I didnt invite her??

its kinda gonna be like, all of our friends, her best friend... and not her.

she is gonna be soo left out.

Then i think you should invite, Just to keep the peace, the last thing you want is for to think, you have something against her,
U know how women can get

 

[Y_lifter]

I say invite her, and hope you have some interesting drama unfold..

 

[GoldenDelicious]

thats what I was thinking... is it wrong of me to not give a shit if it makes her mad that I didnt invite her??

its kinda gonna be like, all of our friends, her best friend... and not her.

she is gonna be soo left out.

bor are you over this girl? i think youre giving a shit a tad much about someone who would ruin a party that you were throwing, if they decided to break etiquette and come.

if you can trust her to realise that an invite to your party is to satisfy propriety only, and she will politely find an excuse not to come, then invite her. but if shes the type to saunter over to her exes house, ruin his party, drink his booze, and make merry while he has a terrible time, then dont even think about it...unless youre an idiot.

its your party, bor. you can cry if you want to

 

[patsfan1379]

bor are you over this girl? i think youre giving a shit a tad much about someone who would ruin a party that you were throwing, if they decided to break etiquette and come.

if you can trust her to realise that an invite to your party is to satisfy propriety only, and she will politely find an excuse not to come, then invite her. but if shes the type to saunter over to her exes house, ruin his party, drink his booze, and make merry while he has a terrible time, then dont even think about it...unless youre an idiot.

its your party, bor. you can cry if you want to

im probably 75% over the chick, but nowhere near a sopping wet vagina. part of me wants to just invite her and see what happens, the other half wants to leave her out, so she feels left out!!

 

[patsfan1379]

Then i think you should invite, Just to keep the peace, the last thing you want is for to think, you have something against her,
U know how women can get

no I dont know how women get... fill me in!

 

[Lestat]

no way

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

it's your fucking house...

 

[strangebrew]

Yes, but only if you plan on giving her a Glass-Bottom Boat.

 

[Mr. Black]

Sex with the Ex is always an option...

 

[Delinquent]

who knows, you both could get really fucked up and you get to have ex sex which from what everyone says is the best...On the flipside though, past feelings could arise and you two get into a full out fist fight....As the world turns

 

[Gambino]

fuck no

that would be funny if she came and the groom tagged her

 

[EnderJE]

No.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

im probably 75% over the chick, but nowhere near a sopping wet vagina. part of me wants to just invite her and see what happens, the other half wants to leave her out, so she feels left out!!

recipe for disaster

anyway, its your party, do what you want.

i smell power games though, its unhealthy

cheers

 

[patsfan1379]

Yeah, I'm kind of figuring the answer is no, but I thought I'd put it out there. It's always good to get outside opinion. Tough to see the light at the end of the tunnel when your in it.