Bank Chick Saga Continued

[DoseOfTruth]

Thank you to everyone that has hung in there with the advice.

At this point I am using my posts on this topid as self therapy for my retarded self.

Anyone who has read my previous threads, knows what has happened to date (not much) with this really nice looking bank teller. Last week I got a ton of good advice and decided to try it today.

Here were the results:

One piece of advice was to make a check out to cash and fill in the "memo" spot with a nice phrase about her. So I filled out a chick payable to cash and in the memo spot wrote "for our first date". Well figures, I didn't get called to her window so I had to shove the check back in my pocket

I did get called to a guys window right next to her and managed to make eye contact with her when my teller walked away for a minute. Here's the conversation:

ME: Hi
HER: Hello
ME: ..........
HER:You come in here all the time.
ME: *Smile*
HER: Seriously like every day, twice a day
ME: *Laughing* Nooo you are crazy, not that much.
HER: Well everyday I work I see you at least once. I'm not complaining..by the way *smiles*
ME: *Smile* Thanks

*My teller returns with my cash*

ME: Well see you guys later.

Someone kill me.

 

[flexygrl]

Gooooooood one!!!!!!!!!!!! If I lived close enough to you I would kill you!!!! I could just strangle you right now!!!!!! I was so excited when I saw your post!! Now I'm just sooooo sad!!! I'm gonna go cry myself to sleep now, thank you very much!!!

 

[ZKaudio]

I couldn't go in there... she'd pull up my credit card account, see my balance and never talk to me again...

 

[The Red Dragon]

Again man? ouch

 

[DoseOfTruth]

Have faith my friend. I will be back.

I take it you are a girl - honestly is she giving me any signs, or is it me wishful thinking...in your opinion of course?

 

[flexygrl]

Hey,

Yes, the last time I checked I was a girl! From your last posts I definetly thought she was giving you signs. But this post, because she said the bit about you coming in here all the time, that gets me wondering. But then she said, it's not like I mind...so I say the only way to know for sure is to just go for it. The next time, if you get the guy, just tell the person behind you to go ahead until she is free. Nothing ventured, in nothing gained, right! What's the worst that could happen, she'll say no. In one of your posts I told you that the similar thing happened to me. I worked in the registars office and someone asked me out. I was attached, so I said no. He was a little weird at first, but he got over it. I still saw him every semester for registration and he was fine. So don't feel like if she says no that you have to switch banks or anything.

I wish stuff like this happened to me when I was single. You sound like an awesome guy. I hope she knows how lucky she is with you sweating over her like this. I bet it's so fun going in there though. I remember those nerves, the butterflies all those great feelings...

 

[collegiateLifter]

dude she likes you; just ask her out for coffee some night, you don't have to be all fancy about it with the memo and such.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

well, i don't know what type of job you have but from some people i know who work in let's say the stock market and made it out big that week go to deposit their check get some major from the chicks that work there. since we all know chicks love money like guys love football get a job making a ton of money and you will get any bank teller chick. in fact probably almost any chick.




IT'S ALL ABOUT THE BENJAMINS!!!!!!

 

[Frackal]

pansie ass

 

[Bullit]

HER: Well everyday I work I see you at least once. I'm not complaining..by the way *smiles*
ME: *Smile* Thanks

*My teller returns with my cash*

ME: Well see you guys later.

Play on, playa.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Re: Re: Bank Chick Saga Continued

Play on, playa.

You have to close.

 

[DoseOfTruth]

lol @ you guys.

btw thanx flxygrl, kind words.

and have no fear, i will ask the question...and i will post the humiliation that follows here...live.

 

[DoseOfTruth]

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck. You are so correct.

At this point I am going to ask her assuming I am going to get shot the fuck down hard - but at least I can post the results for everyones amusement.

 

[jackangel]

2 things...

1) When you go back, find some humour in this situation (I know I have)...either before or after you make a move...something like "I'm glad I finally asked, because I was running out of checks to deposit."

2) If you need motivation, or something to strengthen your resolve, remember this: As much as you don't want to be rejected or embarrassed, it's better to have that happen than to think of yourself as weak or a failure because you were too scared or nervous to try. Ultimately, you can't afford NOT to ask her out, because doing so will just set an unfortunate precedent for the future.

 

[Scarlett33]

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck. You are so correct.

At this point I am going to ask her assuming I am going to get shot the fuck down hard - but at least I can post the results for everyones amusement.

Don't think like that! She likes you , or she did. She will think you are weird if you don't make some kind of move. If you feel like you can't just come out and ask her out, slip her a note or something

Good luck to you

 

[big_bad_buff]

Bank Chick Saga doesnt Continued

 

[DoseOfTruth]

well...

big_bad_buff: what does that mean??

2 more things:

1 - the girl is completely stunning and very sweet. i am sure she gets hit on by every player that walks in the bank. i am prolly just "one more tool" that is drewling over her.

2 - fate is NOT helping, i never get called to her window and therefore any conversation has been observed by customers hence very uncomfortable.

In spite of all this - THIS BROTHER IS GOING IN...RESULTS SOON.

 

[duff_rose]

Maybe you just need a couple shots of whisky before you go in to loosen you up? Give it a shot... Or 2.

 

[-SD-]

Wow. At this rate, maybe by next year you'll get her to play with her hair. Ooohhh...

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[DoseOfTruth]

it's funny cause it's true

 

[jackangel]

Yeah, I love laughing 'till I cry...

 

[vinylgroover]

Forget about the pansy message writing bullshit on the back of cheques. Just adjust your balls, be a man and ask her the fuck out......before someone else does.

 

[-SD-]

Forget about the pansy message writing bullshit on the back of cheques. Just adjust your balls, be a man and ask her the fuck out......before someone else does.

Thats what I was going to say, it sounds like he was in a drive through system where you put your slip into the tube and it goes to the teller so she could open it and read the cute little message. Bro dont do that if you are standing in line and talking face to face with her.

 

[Norman Bates]

If you only were a hyena...

 

[the nature boy]

he's going to ask this broad out when he's 50 years old.

 

[ZenMachine]

Come on, you have a rapport with her at this point. (at least on some level).

Walk in the bank with no other purpose than to ask her out. Walk to her window and pretty much say. "I can't believe I am such a pussy and have been so chicken shit to talk to you but I was wondering if you would like to....."

Adjust accordingly

 

[the nature boy]

I bet if the chick were to give him oral right on the spot he still wouldn't ask her out.

 

[MFMan]

Heres a simple solution:
























JUST ASK HER OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Problem solved.

 

[Y_lifter]

You are right on the edge of her thinking you are a whacko stalker.
Close the deal the next time you go in no matter what.
If you are in line and she is not available, let the person behind you go ahead and wait till she is available.

When you get to her window after that, first words from you should be:
"Sorry for the shuffle in line but I really wanted to talk to you"

"I've been coming in here trying to get a minute with you to ask if you would be interested in spending some time with me at a movie or Lunch or something".

Would it be alright if I give you my number and you can let me know when you take lunch or get off work so you won't get in trouble holding up the line"?

 

[plornive]

Skip a few days. Don't show up at all for a full week. She'll notice that you're gone, the stalker stigma goes away, she'll comment that you're back, it's a new conversation topic.
HER: I haven't seen you lately
YOU: Ahh, so you missed me, didn't ya? <insert grin>
HER: :laugh: maybe.... <insert smile>
YOU: Then how about seeing me this weekend?
If the "uncomfortable silence comes" throw in a "I wouldn't want you to miss me too much". <insert sly grin>

CLOSE THE SALE! ASK FOR THE ORDER!

Do this. To the point and smooth.

 

[Outtlaw]

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck. You are so correct.

At this point I am going to ask her assuming I am going to get shot the fuck down hard - but at least I can post the results for everyones amusement.

It doesnt really matter what you do at this point. If you´re going in thinking like this then you´ve already defeated yourself.

 

[Y_lifter]

If this girl has actually said to you the things you have posted here, then you are Golden IMO..

GET'er DONE !

 

[notoriousQQ]

Dude, if this girl does like you and has been trying to throw out signals, chances are she is going to get tired of waiting for you to get the hint or she will think you are not interested.

Do something. Anything. Do whatever you have to do to utter a few simple words and ask her out.

 

[gettinlarger]

If this girl has actually said to you the things you have posted here, then you are Golden IMO..

GET'er DONE !

Nailed it on the head brother. Ask her out man ...

 

[gmanlax7]

if you do not make your move soon she is going to settle for one of the other tools

 

[Y_lifter]

All I know is if you do Get'r Done, we better see a picture of this
chic so we can see if all of our efforts were worthwhile...

 

[DoseOfTruth]

THANKS!

Thanks for the advice. I am going to chill for a few days, thinking maybe a week. When I go back I will definitely drop the question. If by some chance she takes me up on the offfer, I promise to post pics for my brothers. I promise you will be proud. If shot down, I promise you will be entertained.

Thanks...and peace

 

[Outtlaw]

Dont take it the wrong way, but I´ll be waiting on the entertainment.

 

[Bullit]

Re: THANKS!

When I go back I will definitely drop the question.

Riiiiiiiiiight.

Thats the same week AAP is going straight.

 

[zer0_cool]

bro, this is some good stuff..

I have been following your situation. I think you will be OK, just ask her out, you have nothing to lose...The more you wait the more you are driving yourself crazy...

c'mon go to the bank tomorrow and ask and lets get on with it..

good luck.

 

[sermon_of_crockery]

can't wait to see the results of this one.

 

[Y_lifter]

Don't listen to them bro... Git'r

 

[gettinlarger]

What would really be funny is if this girl turned out to be Staind's girl.