UPDATE
sorry took so long to respond, but she never called and i thought i'd wait to update the thread until something happened.
well i went to bank today. got called to her line ... and ... she was kind of quiet. so i thought "oh well...fuck it...obviously not interested" with that thought i noticed i no longer cared or was interested. so now relaxed i said
me: "hey sorry about that little note on your car...that was stupid"
her: "what note?"
me: "umm left my biz card on your your window of your car"
her: "i never got a note, how'd you know what car i have"
me: "i saw you grab something out of that silver car, so i thought i'd drop my biz card in case you felt like calling:
her: *laughs* "nooo that's my bosses car, she has me grab stuff for her all the time cause she forgets it in her car...she never said anything though..what did it say"
me: "nothing, just leaving you my number"
her: "for what"
me: *getting nervous again* "nothing, i left it on all the cars in the parking lot to drum up some new business" *heavy sarcasm*
her: "oh, well do you have a card on you now?"
me: "no sorry...maybe next time"
her: *laughing* "okay how funny, sorry about that though"
me: "no problem...lates'"
*out*
so i don't know exactly how that went...but to be honest i am losing interest and the "for what?" comment pissed me off. fuck it. next time in the bank i am going to tell her we need to start seeing other people.
oh well...live and learn my friends.