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are you insecure?
- Thread starter stilleto
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uhh... yeah very.
Yes, of course. I believe it is just in our nature to be this way as imperfect beings.
The trick is to recognize them, see the source, and conquer them in the most positive manner. Many of them are hidden and you may need some help. Some you just live with.
IMO and experience over almost 64 years, facing and conquering these fears opens up a window of opportunity to make great strides forward in your life.
The trick is to recognize them, see the source, and conquer them in the most positive manner. Many of them are hidden and you may need some help. Some you just live with.
IMO and experience over almost 64 years, facing and conquering these fears opens up a window of opportunity to make great strides forward in your life.
covergrl80
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I am when it comes to certain things.
GoldenDelicious
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i dont know
what do you think about this. im starting to get pretty big(not fat!). just overall in great shape. well my wife is starting to be a bitch about me working out. shes always kinda had a problem with other women, and i think me workin out really bothers her because of the women in the gym. but at the same time she dont want me skinny???? what do i do. is she insecure?
26 yrs
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26 yrs
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Faizakafez
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yup i seek validation daily...
please be nice to me guys
please be nice to me guys
yes, but becoming less and less insecure all the time, I've made huge strides this year in improving the quality of my life.
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heatherrae
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Sometimes I get in a rut and I'm insecure about everything. Other times I'm a real go-getter. It is more about this mental inertia one way or the other with me. When I'm on a roll, I'm hard to beat. When I'm not, it just snowballs.
Are you stilleto?
FriendlyCanadian said:
i'm stilleto.
Oh, you mean insecure? i used to be. i don't think i am so much anymore. i'm realistic about things, but it doesn't make me insecure- it just is what it is.
(meaning, my ass is big. i accept it, but don't generally wear a thong in public.)
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Megalomaniac
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yes but not like I used to be.
calveless wonder
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everyone has insecurities, depends to what extent.
very few people are 100% content with themselves.
i've gotten much better, after i balanced my life and started making constant strides to improve myself.
when i stop doing things to better myself is when i start feeling really insecuer (or when i take steps back)
very few people are 100% content with themselves.
i've gotten much better, after i balanced my life and started making constant strides to improve myself.
when i stop doing things to better myself is when i start feeling really insecuer (or when i take steps back)
calveless wonder
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stilleto said:
hrmm....good question.
insecurities are a weird thing, because people are not always insecure about their weaknesses. alot of the times its just a distorted perception (i.e. very attractive women being insecure about their looks)
insecurities usually cause people to address them(if they can be. obviously there are things that can not be changed).
it's usually about how much a particular weakness affects you and how self concious you are of it.
calveless wonder said:
that's pretty much what I think.
It seems ok to know your weakness, but if it effects your self esteem or social interraction- that seems more like an insecurity.
I was at a restaurant the other day and I ordered. The waitress said, "oh! that's really good... but i'm a fat girl, i think all food is good."
I was laughing. She seemed very sure of herself- not insecure at all. not crying "am i fat?" "did you call me fat?" "I'm not really fat".
digimon7068
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yes. . .absolutely. . .never been comfortable in my own skin. . .honest. . .
