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Are you a jealous person?
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No, not at all.
But she is. A big part of it is because her father cheated on her mother for about 4-5 years, so its just a part of her personality. IMO, I just accept it (because I love her) and prove that Im not her father by not giving her reasons to be jealous.
But she is. A big part of it is because her father cheated on her mother for about 4-5 years, so its just a part of her personality. IMO, I just accept it (because I love her) and prove that Im not her father by not giving her reasons to be jealous.
Depends on my SO at the time. if I truely love her then hell yes I am. Probably because I cheated on most of my girlfriends growing up and being a man I know that is all most of us want. Like the Seinfeld episode says. Guys aren't friends with women we don't wanna sleep with. There are a few eceptions however.
ceasar989 said:
Very, very jealous.
Why? Yes, I know ... it is a weakness. I am probably insecure from unresolved abandonment issues.
Avoid it? No ... I tell her I have this and there does not seem to be a problem. Men seem to understand the word NO! and my look of death
if they get too close.
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vinylgroover
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no.....jealousy is a very destructive emotion. if somoene wants to cheat they will do it regardless of how much you try to control it through jealous actions. if you can't trust, then move on.
if it's in-built into your character, work on your own self esteem to try to overcome it.
if it's in-built into your character, work on your own self esteem to try to overcome it.
shamrock11
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depends on the SO and our current status
BOWTECH
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Jealousy is a JOKE! If you are that weak of a person shame on you. The other person is going to do what they are going to do. I'll be damned if I would show them any kind of reaction. Lots of people do things just to see if others will react. They can kiss my ass. Get over it. If someone is trying to make you jealous GET RID OF THEM! Life is too short to play stupid games.
exotic_island_girl
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Not really not unless he gives me a reason to be jealous.
Hey ceasear can i make kinda similar thread likes yours.. but I am going to include something on it.
Hey ceasear can i make kinda similar thread likes yours.. but I am going to include something on it.
exotic_island_girl
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ceasar989 said:
shud up.... Grrrrr that's is not my question. Doof!
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BrothaBill
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BOWTECH said:
Aww bullshit, you are too full of yourself to understand that Jealosy is a very effective form of communication and caring if handled appropriately.
It "IS" a request, ratheran invitation to reinstate beliefs that youve state before but if viewed as internal attribution, then if you actually cared about the woman.
Alot of sociopathic one up man'sship on the internet is prevalent, usually falser than true, is prevalent.
Jealousy is a "natural" reaction to human events depending upon the situation. It can be bad, good or neither, and it can be cute as well. Just how developed mentally and emotionally you are.
Set vows, limits things discussion oriiented for lines you wont cross to help eliminate true jealosy.
Just simple jealosy is nice, means that someone actually cares about you.
The other jealosy, well, you can see by other married scum that posts on this board what they think of their spouse. Why take a Vow for life and then act like that??
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BrothaBill said:
My thoughts exactly. I dont necessarily think jealousy is a sign of insecurity, but it is a weakness in that it shows that you actually care about the other person.
I also agree about the people who get married and toss everything away for sex or a quick fix or something that they "think" will make them happier. It's bullshit.
vinylgroover
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ceasar989 said:
i disagree......in most cases, jealousy is manifested in selfishness. What the person cares about is that something they feel is their's is being given to a third party. To me, caring about someone is trusting that the person wants to be with you and no one else.
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I don't ALLOW myself to get jealous. The first sign of jealousy on my part and I get angry and disconnect instead of creating an issue.
Having said that, it has never happened in my relationship. My wife and I are very comfortable with each other, but she gets jealous a little. She's still comfortable and confident that I won't cheat or do anything to harm our relationship. I think that is key.
Having said that, it has never happened in my relationship. My wife and I are very comfortable with each other, but she gets jealous a little. She's still comfortable and confident that I won't cheat or do anything to harm our relationship. I think that is key.
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