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are men really helpless?

annabelletx

annabelletx

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i have been onto bbf for weeks now to choose his groomsmen. he has picked two out of the three he needs. he just won't pick a third. he keeps going back and forth or telling me to pick the third. i don't know all of his friends so there is no way i would pick for him.

if we were having a normal wedding wouldn't make such a big deal about picking this soon. but whoever he does pick for his third has to have a costume made to wear the day of the actual wedding.

we are getting married at the texas renaissace festival, which was bbf's idea. guess men just don't understand how much the brides have to do already. shouldn't have to handle every detail for the groom also.

sorry everyone just venting a little. so much to do besides everything else i have going on. don't know what happened to the simple wedding i wanted.
 
so do the groomsmen have to dress like cowboys or some shit? you said costume.
 
You guys should party at the TxRenFest, not get married there. Sounds like way too much of a hassle for everyone to get costumes and play make-believe.
 
men are to weddings what horses are to oranges. Yep neither one matches or makes any sense.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
superdave said:
You guys should party at the TxRenFest, not get married there. Sounds like way too much of a hassle for everyone to get costumes and play make-believe.
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so they do have wear costumes!!! LOL
 
we aren't expecting all the guest to come in costume. just the wedding party. also my parents are paying so that we will have a dressing area there so we can just get ready there. my parents are also paying for all the guest tickets and for a small reception there. that way everything is in one location and while we are dressing and after the reception all the guest can watch the shows going on, shop or do whatever they want. only going to be 50 people total at actual wedding.

but bbf's parents are hosting a huge reception the night before in houston for all of our friends and extended family instead of regular rehersal dinner. they don't want anyone to feel left out since we both have really big families and they all won't be able to attend the actual wedding.
 
Gambino said:
so they do have wear costumes!!! LOL
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Everyone there looks like DaVinci, Michaelangelo, etc. so its not an easy costume to throw together on the cheap.
 
i am trying to keep it as easy and affordable for everyone as possible. i told all my bridesmaids that they could wear whatever kind of dress they wanted as long as it was blue and fit in with the theme. that way the can go as simple or extravagent as they want and their budget will allow. another reason why i picked them as soon as possible. also gave them all the option of renting a costume at the ren fest for like $40 for the day. i don't want to make being part of our wedding a burden on anyone.
 
superdave said:
Everyone there looks like DaVinci, Michaelangelo, etc. so its not an easy costume to throw together on the cheap.
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Oh, that's not bad then. I was thinking of having to dress like a cowboy, that would be pretty funny
 
How long have you two been together? Hasn't it been like 3 months, or something? Your not celebities, so why the big rush? I'm not trying to be rude or anything, I'm just curious?
I wouldn't be surprised if that love thing that everybody is talking about, has something to do with it. But I can never be sure

Congratulations btw. I wish you all the best, and may you have a happy life together in blissfull matrimony.
 
ringperm said:
How long have you two been together? Hasn't it been like 3 months, or something? Your not celebities, so why the big rush? I'm not trying to be rude or anything, I'm just curious?
I wouldn't be surprised if that love thing that everybody is talking about, has something to do with it. But I can never be sure
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well, sometimes when you meet someone, you are able to assess fairly quickly what that person stands for and if you possess similar beliefs. Point being, whether it be 3 months or 10 years, i do not believe that the spiritual depth of a relationship is always directly proportionate to the duration of a relationship.

Good luck with your marriage a.
 
my cousin had a wedding like that.. all themed dressed up and stuff.. they ate dinner with no silverware at a big long picnic table too...
 
annabelletx said:
i would have to kill him if he did! he can save those for the honeymoon night. lol
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Don't count on it. He'll be posting here all night. He told me.

Sorry.
 
gonelifting said:
Don't count on it. He'll be posting here all night. He told me.

Sorry.
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oh trust me he will be way to tired to be posting on ef for at least a week or so.

everyone will just have to wait a few days for details. lol
 
hey annabelledtx congrats on your upcoming wedding...! :)

some men can be helpless because they have never been exposed to any wedding organization or management projects, to some this could be a totally different language...!!!

but there are men out there who are very proactive who will go out of their way & ask questions to help out...its all how far they want to go, brains, lazyness, upbringing etc!
 
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