Well let me explain something..i have noticed that when I'm subject to constant social exposure (AKA having a job) the people at these places view me as the same, but the thing is, I'm not, it's just that i speak my mind and don't put up with bullshit, but otherwise I am the friendliest, most open minded laid back guy ever. The reason these people view me as being an asshole is because they are sheep and not used to speaking their mind or putting up with bullshit, so they see someone who is like that as being a cocksucker. They just aren't used to it.